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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've done a crazy thing... had too much to drink on a night out with work colleagues and told my boss that I'm falling for him, that he is all I think about. I'm not sure this is entirely true, perhaps I'm just confused by the recent break up of a relationship and am feeling lonely. Usually, my boss and I get on really well and have a laugh together with lots of harmless flirting. We have to work closely together most of the time and have come to know each other well. We kissed on the night out and now I feel really stupid. I am attracted to him but have remained professional for several months in the job. The man is married albeit not very happily. My main worry is that I may have ruined our great working relationship with my drunken confessions!I'm confused and dreading going to work on Monday! I love this job and generally look forward to going to work.Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): Salvagable, anon., salvagable. Just tell him Monday morning, very seriously, that you were in a bad mood over personal probs and drank too much. Apologize for any untoward remarks, (you don't even remember exactly what they may have been). And then go about your work. He will get the message. He may be a little embarrassed himself, and will probably be happy to hear it from you. Relax. Sanity will out.
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