New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

I want to make a move on him, but dont want my friends to be mad at me!!!

Tagged as: Big Questions, Cheating, Friends<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (26 April 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay this is like the typical issue with teenage girls.. only it usually happens in like middle school.. but im 16 and me and my two other friends all think this guy is extremely gorgeous.. and hes got a sweet personality too.. so we all decided not to flirt with him/ make any moves cause we all like him... which works when i say it.. but everytime i see him it's like butterflies.. and i dont know how to hide that :-( I don't want my friends to get mad at me... but i really like this guy..

I'm not sure if he likes me, so i don't want to just go ahead and make a move and risk not getting him as well as upsetting my friends to the max. So if you have any advice on what to do? I know I should just not bother but I can't help thinking about it... I guess that's why they call it a crush eh?

View related questions: crush, flirt, move on

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Keria United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2007):

I don't understand why your friends would be jealous. Let me see, ALL of you want him, and that means that NONE of you should have him. Hmm.. I say go for it, and may the best woman win!

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you should take the bull by the horns and go for it, we only get one shot at life, so why waste it thinking what might have been. You friends may have the hump for a while but they will get over it.

Good luck x

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, XXpussycatXX United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2007):

well thinking about it and doing it is 2 different things...you need to ask yourself these questions

is a silly crush that may not go anywhere worth upsetting and maybe losing them worth it

o just maybe talk to them and see if they say go ahead dont just go for it because your friends wont be happy

it is a tricky situation but as the saying goes there plenty more fish in the sea and there be more guys that you will just like and not your friends at the same time lol

good luck

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "I want to make a move on him, but dont want my friends to be mad at me!!!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0468420999968657!