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36-40,
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writes:My friend found out I kissed another guy 4 years ago while I was dating my current boyfriend, he confronted me and then said he wouldn't tell him. However he did in the worst way, and my boyfriend broke up with me. Since then we have gotten back together, but he still talks to this guy who I feel betrayed by, and of course my boyfriend doesn't feel the same way. It still bothers me though, I don't want to give him an ultimatium, but I don't think I can be with him knowing that he sees this guy, and thinks hes a good friend. I'm not sure what to do...
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reader, cd206  +, writes (30 April 2007):
 I don't know that there is anything you can do except accept it. Your boyfriend feels he can trust this guy to tell him the truth and maybe feels he owes him one for telling him the truth that one time. It's fine if you don't want to be friends with this guy after feeling betrayed by him but you can't tell your boyfriend who he can and can't be friends with, he could quite easily argue that if you hadn't cheated on him that this guy could never have betrayed you and he would be right. Try to accept it and if you don't like this guy just avoid him.
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