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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What's the difference between sexual attraction and love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - Hi, Anybody out there that can tell me What the difference is between sexual attraction And love? And doesn't it go hand in hand? Thanks...

I dumped him because of the dating sites, but he's still on them meeting new people! How do I overcome my anger?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I have broke up from a 2 year relationship. It was my decision. He would not stop visiting datimg sites and always lied to me about it or said he went on them because I nagged him all the time. Now, the same account he said wasnt his is still there ...

How do I break up with my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're ...

Why is breaking up like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - So the other day my girlfriend broke up with me. So far I have tried to at least be slightly friendly with her and she has treated me like she doesn't even remember the good times we've had. We share a few mutual friends and they have treated me ...

I don't want to be with him but I don't like the thought of him with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I've been with someone for a year and a little bit now, and we broke up and its been about two months, we still see each other and things and try and act normal, but we still do things with other people which may be weird. I don't want to be with ...

Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, ...

What do I say to my ex when she comes to see me to get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend of a year ended our relationship over things I've done. I feel like a part of my soul has been taken. She has given me chance after chance, and I've blown it each time. All I need is for a fresh start, and one more chance to prove that ...

We dated long distance for two years. After finally meeting in person, he dumps me, and I can't seem to let him go.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relation for about 2 years.. I really fell for this guy however he was so mean to me. We always argued and he would make me feel so low. However we did have some good times bt the bad definitely outweighed the good. To sum ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Firstly, have I lost any chance with him? Secondly, after confessing my feelings our friendship has become very strained. If there is no hope, how do I salvage our friendship?

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28 November 2012 (F) - One of my good friends and I have feelings for each other. The problem is, he lives in a different country and things have been very difficult between us. Even though he lives in a different country, he comes to visit a lot because he is be...

Is my boyfriend backing off even though he said he won't dump me?!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - help... My bf's form spread a rumour to the ENTIRE year that he was going to break up with me he told me it was'nt true but we still ended up arguing about it but he was adiment he wants to be with me still but I sent him a text and he said he r...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

How can I get through this heartache of my boyfriend leaving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy for 4.5 months (we're both 18). We had some really good times but more often than I should have, I got upset by his decrease in effort and his sexual pressure though I wasn't ready to lose my virginity and said ...

Is he a narcissist? He's jekyll and hyde and I never know what to expect from him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - i am a mess. i have recently split from my partner who i believe may be a narcissist. im not sure where to begin, but this is what ive come to believe and know -he is jekyll and hyde. there is no predicting how he will act toward me from one day ...

Should I just get over what happened and get back with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - well me and my boyfriend have been together for six months. i thought our relationship was pretty good even though we've had our issues we always have managed. my boyfriend has messed up bad before, he talked to his ex behind my back, amoung others ...

Did we break up for the wrong reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts ^^ My boyfriend of a year and a half have recently broken up. We've been good friends since eleventh grade and we started going out in twelfth. We've always gotten along very well and loved each other very much. However, when we...

I don't know what to do to make things better between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, I fell in love with her and made a bond. I live with her away from my own family, in the 2 years of dating we had our troubles in the relationship. She met this guy on facebook who dated my couise.He told my couise ...

He gets jealous about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. I want to break up with him! And there's a bonus question too....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Well where do I begin? Lets see here. My bf and I have been dating for the past 5 months (secretly until about a week ago bcuz I wasnt allowed to date) Well now weve been fighting a lot about the past 2 months and I dont know if I can stand it much ...

I want to leave my girlfriend but I know it wull hurt her so badly. How do I let her down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I have ben with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years, she is the year above me so we are in different schools. I love her so much and don't want to hurt her but she doesn't excite me anymore and all we do is argue. I feel like she is holding me back ...

I ended the relationship after the "where are we going" conversation! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for almost three years (both of us over 45). We see each other five times a week, taking turns sleeping at each other's home. My home is a lot for me to take care of (large yard and pool), n...

What am I dealing with? His drinking problem or something else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - please help, my husband of 14 years has had a drink problem for years which has got worse over the past 3 years [he has been drinking 3/4 of a liter bottle of vodka a night and gets "out of it" does stupid things like texting/messaging girls/wo...

I don't want any contact with my "boyfriend", what Do I Do Now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I met my boyfriend 11 years ago during vacation and it was instant connection, we hit it off right away. We are in long distance relationship, YES believe it or not, we are and we kept in touch all those years. I am sure some people out there will ...

Did he dump me or are we on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my man for 6 months now. Things were going great, then he lost his dream job because of a stupid thing he did, found a new one but its not a good one, but he needs to work there to earn some money. He became really distant with...

I know people do move on, but everyone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I am feeling pretty down right now and would love some advice from other people on what to do because I seem to be losing my friends and boyfriend all at once. I am 27 and I have 2 best friends and a boyfriend of 3 years. I have had other close ...

She says she hates me and that I have no empathy! What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - i never thought id be doing this but here i am. Im in a 2nd marrage and have been for 10 years. No bio children but 5 between us, mine are 25 to 30. my wife recently told me she's had enough, hates me, and i dont give anything back while she give...

I want my ex girlfriend back in my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - so the problem is my ex gf who broke off with me 9 months ago started talking to me again after a month. I loved it, i loved her like crazy. When we started talking again, we tried to be just friends but did stuff that wasnt just friend ...

Does she want to come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - My wife suddenly walked out on me 4 years ago without notice. She had her reasons and I was relieved after a year without her anger and her insanity after feeling incredibly hurt by her.My daughters think she's nuts and lived with me until 1 married ...

I fell for him and my heart is broken

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I am suffering extreme heartache and I would like to know how to get over it or reduce the pain. I'm waking up at 6am crying as reality hits that he doesn't want me and has left me and for someone else. It's going to sou...

He thinks he should "be alone". Does anyone have any advice or insight about the way he broke up and why after 11 months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - We're both 44 and divorced. We've been dating about 11 months. We get along well, enjoy hanging out and his kids really like me a lot. All is going well. We tell each other "I love you". While my house was being finished I lived with him and t...

Is this healthy? is she game playing? My Controlling girlfriend keeps giving me ultimatums or threatens that we'll break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - I have a girlfriend and I'm soon to be divorced with my estranged wife. My girlfriend has been acting weird lately.... She gives me ultimatums to do X or we break up. When I don't do X, she gives me the complete silent treatment and ignores all ...

My relationship's been ruined by my boyfriend taking drugs. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I've broken up with my first boyfriend of 9 months today for the second time. I lost my virginity to him, he was my first proper love and i planned to have a future with him. We first split up 2 months ago shortly after he...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

If his one night stand with my cousin was ancient history why lie about it? Was breaking up the right thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - Did I do the right thing breaking up with him? I've been seeing a guy in another country for 4 months now. He's 35 and Im 29. I recently found out from my cousin (also in the same country where he lives) after seeing his picture on her black...

She won't break up with me but isn't talking to me. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - I've hurt my girlfriend really, really badly and she has given me the silent treatment ever since (2 months now). The first 3 weeks she was extremely angry and now she is depressed and avoiding me. I know she doesn't want to end this but she doesn't ...

Do I keep saying no or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. Me and my ex split just over a year ago, i left him and took our daughter, i couldn't handle his lies, and drink problem. We'd been together for over 4 years. Im dating other men now, he dated a lady but heard he messed that up too. He goes ...

He cried, real tears, but guess what!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Just over two months ago I left my dating site obsessed boyfriend of four years. I accepted dating sites were part of his life and always will be. He has suddenly started trying to get me back again with the same old bull shit and accused me of ...

I seem to be making all the effort, should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship where I have mostly been at school and overseas for work and my man was home. Our relationship has lasted seven years. He hasn't been able to make money for awhile now. I usually am the one always making the calls or ...

How do I get over this mental attachment, this relationship to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - I have had feelings for a man for almost a decade now, but until recently I have never done anything to encourage any emotional response from him due to the fact that he is married. However, my life has been turned upside down now that I have ...

Should I fight for my relationship or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

20 November 2012 (M) - 5 Months ago I thought I found the guy I wanted. He was exactly everything I praid for head, body, and soul. I thought we were a match made in heaven. He was also the first guy I ever dated. He said he loved me and I loved him. We live 40 minutes ...

Ex and I are going on dates, but no title now. Is he using me while looking around?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We were together every single day living together. Then we broke up cause we were fighting alot. He has asked me back in his life but not as his official girlfriend. He wants to take things slow and go on ...

I'm trying hard not to push him away, but have I lost my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - hello, ive been with my partner for nearly 3 years a lot has happened between us, good and bad, and i feel completely comfortable and happy when im with him. everything feels right with him. but because of his background with women and my inexpe...

My boyfriend dumped me... Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for 2 years, long distance for the majority, and he moved home. He began being very distant and stopped making an effort for me (this had happened before and we broke up). We went of holiday and he was still off with me, ...

We've broken up but he has offered to pay for the operation for me to get my virginity back, should I let him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - my boyfriend got me loose my virginity, then he promised he would pay the money to get it back. i love him dearly and i'm sure that we are going to get married 4 days before now i read a chat between him and an ex in which he said "my love" and "swe...

Will my cheating ex ever look back and regret her actions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 November 2012 (M) - Having recently come out of a five year relationship where I have just found out she lied and deceived me from day one, where I have just learned she was seeing others behind my back; I was wondering if there will ever come a time when she will look ...

He says one thing, but does another and then other people say something even different! I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I have been down and depressed for the past couple of days because I fell in love with a guy who obviously is still hooked on his ex whom he still lives with and has a child with. But here's my story. I met him at work. He was my supervisor and told ...

Why did he break up with me? No one can figure it out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - Background:keep in mind during this that my boyfriend is 22, a county cop, and raised really well off( his mom is seriously loaded). PRIOR to me he dated a girl for 3 yrs, they were having problems so he ended up getting engaged still had ...

Will I make a fool of my self if I try to fix this relationship? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - my ex and current guy i was dating became good friends. i have done something so terrible. i recently came out of a long relationship with my ex and fell in love with someone else. he was a really nice guy he really really was in love with me. he ...

We broke up but agreed to be friends. I want to text him but don't know what to say.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - What do you text to an ex after breaking up with them, you have agreed to be friends. He has contacted me since the breakup 3 weeks ago. He contacted me after one week of the breakup asking if I wanted to go out with him and some friends.I replied ...

I feel I've lost so much. How can I get my life back on track after breaking up? Life's really tough for me right now.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

17 November 2012 (M) - Please ladies explain this to me. I'm on my own for the first time in my life and I'm 36 now. Two long term relationships, 2 children and I'm ashamed to say with both women. The first I thought was love. The second I walked out on in the mi...

I don't know how to explain this to my B/f but sometimes I love him and sometimes I don't and instead I feel attracted to other men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - I'll start off by saying that I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 1/2yrs he is 29 and me 24. I know he really loves me and cares for me. He always tells me how he loves and that I'm the love of his life and how he would never cheat ...