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writes:I had been with my boyfriend for 2 years, long distance for the majority, and he moved home. He began being very distant and stopped making an effort for me (this had happened before and we broke up). We went of holiday and he was still off with me, saying we needed to have a 'chat' after the holiday but he didn't want to spoil it by talking now. He told me he was moving away again and couldn't cope with the distance again as it drove him up the wall and made him unhappy but he said he wanted to be with me in the future and get married and have kids... etc. I asked him to give it a chance and see how it goes as my hours were more flexible I could visit him more often.He said no and ended it.About a week later, he decided he wanted me back...This was 5 months ago now, I still don't know if I want him back. I still love him, and he is lovely and has made so much effort for me since. He got depressed though and has become needy and obsessive over me, and I tried to end it one day and he threatened suicide.Oh and also... I think he made up a fake profile, hacked my facebook and sent any conversations I'd had with guys from his fake account to his real profile to make it look like someone else did it :SConfused doesn't even come close!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2012): "we needed to have a 'chat' after the holiday but he didn't want to spoil it by talking now."
I hate when people do that. That in itself spoils things as you know exactly what it's about.
"I tried to end it one day and he threatened suicide."
Run OP, end it now. Fuck him and his whiny little attempt at emotional blackmail. You know what I said to an ex who tried to pull that shit? "You're going to be out of my life, what happens you after today is nothing to me at all, do what you like either, way you're not a part of my life anymore."
He's become obsessive and dangerous OP. hacking your accounts, threatening suicide. My attitude to fuckers like him is go ahead do it, do us all a favour and remove your whiny little weak ass from this planet you're no use to our species. Of course I wouldn't say that but if he's going to be a whiny little bitch you need to cut him off.
You're confused OP because he's trying to play you, he's trying fuck with your emotions. 5 months of this shit OP, just get rid of his weak little pathetic ass. He has nothing good to offer you at all. Threatening suicide is the lowest of the low, do you really want to continue on a relationship out of fear this little boy may top himself? He won't, he's just trying to mess with your head and it looks to me like it's working.
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