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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Am I being completely stupid and should get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for one and a half years and at first it was perfect we were so happy, but then he started to change, he gets angry easily and yells alot. He has hit me twice, but that was a long time ago so i just seem to ...

I've been going out a lot, having fun, but I still think of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi, Brace yourselves, it's a little long.. Less than a month ago, I broke up with my bf of 3 years. The reasons were that for about almost two months, he told me he felt like he didn't feel physically attracted to me anymore (nothing about me ...

My ex is torturing me because I had to break up with her! What can I do? Can I approach the police?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - hello all.. i really need some help. i am in terrible situation. i had my first girl friend (for 1 year) and we had to breakup for some reason and after that i really didnt want to get into a serious relationship. i met this lady in club who is...

How do I break it off with her once and for all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - This girl I have been talking to for over a year now, can be really great at times but she also can be very pessimistic and complain a lot. She's been through a lot in life so I always try to stay sympathetic, but it seems like there is something ...

I know he is no good for me so we have broken up, but I need some support to stay strong and not falter on my course of action!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - im depressed. i am 42 years old and cant seem to maintain a relationship. i am my own worst critic, i just want to post this for support. i think im doing the right thing, but some reinforcement would be greatly appreciated. i met a man 8 months a...

How do I get him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - sooo, im a single mother. and i should be happy for what i do have rather then what i dont. my sons father has never been there for me, and i always feel like im lost with adult company (a guy) im in my 20s, and because im a single mother i dont ...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

Unpacking the end of what seemed like a amazing relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hello everybody, it's me again. I recently broke up with a guy because my gut was telling me that he wasn't emotionally available in the way that I needed. I'm actually fine with the breakup, as I deserve more, but, what happens when I thought it ...

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a ve...

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly ever...

Abusive ex boyfriend won't pay back money after our split, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I desperately need advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 1/2 years recently as he was very abusive both verbally and recently, physically. My friends noticed I had changed and was depressed and so they ...

When and how do I fight to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend ended our relationship 2 days ago. He said it was because there can't be any future for us (he is from another country). He said he doesn't want to waste my time because I deserve someone who will take care of me. I am not looking for a ...

Guilt over cheating on my gf with my best girl friend has led to me breaking up with my best friend. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years and told her and we have since broken up. I cheated on her with my best girl friend (the ex-gf and bf don't really know each other). I feel so guilty about cheating on my ex and have now broken things off with ...

He's too old for me do I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I've divorced my husband after 20 together. I wasnt happy in my marriage for a long time. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years my senior. He is helpful during my divorce. Two years on I find him too old for me but ...

I'm so hurt! B/f broke up with me by text from a phone I can't text or call back on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me today and i am devastated!. I haven't stopped crying all day. He dumped me by a text message. It was very abrupt, and he didn't give an explanation. He didn't even dump me from his own phone. It was from a BT payphone. I ...

After 18 years of marriage my husband told me about wanting a divorce through a solicitor and wont speak to me at all! How do I get through this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - After 18 years of marriage and just 2 days before my 40th birthday I get an email from a solicitor to say my husband wants a divorce while I was away. We have had a rocky marriage for several years and I had gone away on a holiday, to encompass my ...

I didn't trust him and tested him and now I've lost him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Dear friend, I feel quite sad in this two weeks, Iam craying every single moment , guess why!! It.s have been 5 months that I am in relationship with a lovely man, I think now clearly I am in love with him, but In last two weeks I think I made a b...

Why is my ex planning to copy my travel dreams when he said he hates traveling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My ex is planning to travel to the same country I went to, after refusing to come with me when we were together. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We were together for over 3 years. I broke up because I felt he showed little interest in sharing ...

I want to leave my partner because of his porn use, but now I've had a baby I get ill every time I try and leave him! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I found out my partner watched porn throughout our entire relationship and I want to leave him. The problem is since giving birth to my baby I have suffered acute anxiety and depression and every time I try to leave him I get severely ill. I mean ...

I'm feeling hurt over a relationship that ex said he couldn't do anything about

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was dating a man exclusively for almost 2 years. Early in our relationship he sent me an email breaking up for me and said he was going back to his ex girlfriend. Two weeks later I get another email asking me to give him a second c...

will you always love your first love more than other boyfriends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm going to try and make this as short as i can. When i was 16 i lost my virginity to my then boyfriend and got pregnant but suffered a misscariage. This has affected me badly and still 4years on it hurts as much. Me and the dad split up not long ...

Would you prefer that someone lie or tell you the truth when breaking up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - Hi. I have heard of a few breakups from my friends. (They dated other people, and got dumped.). About 50% of those friends of mine said they trusted the dumper more, due to the dumper having been truthful about the breakup reasons, while the other ...

He cheated and had a baby with another girl, we broke up because of this but he still thinks he can get me back! How do I tell him he has no chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - This guy and I were together for almost a year from 2010-2011. While we were together I thought everything was fine until 2011 came and he told me he had a baby. After finding that out, I ended it with him because the baby was a newborn meaning that ...

She dumped me over email despite telling me I was the one and she wanted to marry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - Hey! So my girlfriend of 3 years decided to call it quits with me over email after she earlier told me i was the one and that she in time wanted to marry me. I felt like i was wanting to do the same. I don't know what to do. how to respond what i ...

Can't move on and it's painful...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hello, Thank you so much for reading my email Ill try to be short. My ex and I dated for about 1.5 years, the last half year was mostly on/off and we were both immature and I myself made a lot of mistakes (as I am learning now). To make...

Should I be roomates with my ex boyfriend who is still interested in me, and I kinda like him too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship for four months and then my boyfriend decided to break up in March. There were many reasons, but one was that he felt I was comparing him with my ex. I probably was, but I really wanted to get over my ex (that was another ...

We broke up, but now he's not moving away are we back together again? I cant figure this out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

25 April 2012 (?) - So I'm confused and here's why: My boyfriend of three months told me that he was going to leave New Jersy and move to North Carolina in with his mom. This was just this past friday. He asked me what he should do so I told him" he should do what mak...

I can get past her cheating, but the cause for it is killing me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I understand this is a lot to read, but please do not answer if you do not read it. It took me quite a while to write down exactly how I feel and I would really like thoughtful answers. I do not believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" ...

I think I'm in love with my first love again and I want to make it official with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Wow, it's been over a year since I last visited this site but I definitely need you guys to help me out here. I'll probably be waffling so I apologise. If anybody remembers my last question 13 months ago roughly, I had a horrible post break up ex...

I'm leaving my husband for having an affair and the strip clubs and partying. How do I explain to my children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have decided to leave my husband of 22 years due to his recent affair, visiting strip clubs and partying at bars. I have two children ages 19 and 17. They have no idea what their father has done. How do I tell them we are divorcing without me ...

I want to be FWB but he's pulling away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for a few months and after I left my most recent bf he wanted to hang out. I was hurt and upset and we had sex. After the first time he was super sweet and text me constantly. We went out for his brithday and had ...

A beautiful girl cares about me but I am not ready for a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Hello. How do I say goodbye to a BEAUTIFUL girl? She has everything going for her but I am not ready for relationship with her. I want a no strings relationship and I am getting that with this other girl right now. My friend told me she is hurt t...

Everything was perfect until yesterday, today he brushed me off and I haven't spoken to him since!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy for the past 1 year and 3 months. Everything was fine and perfect yesterday. Today when i saw him, he seemed so distant. We usually always spend the whole day together, but today he brushed me off and basically implied he ...

Will I ever love so strongly again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - I was doing so well. Not thinking about her as much as I used to. Not remembering the happy times we spent together. I tried my hardest to blot out all of the memories from the best parts of my past. I kept myself active. I worked out, ate healthy ...

He has told me he is sad I'm leaving, so why isn't he making the most of my last weeks here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I have recently been in a very confusing relationship with a guy and although i know it is over, i am struggling to come to terms with it. I moved to the other side of the world to be with him and after a few months it was obvious we couldn't make ...

I know its over between us, I just cant comprehend that it happened in such a rude and immature way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I met a very nice and funny guy in a dating site. He's not handsome, but he seemed as a very good person, we talked a lot, almost every day. We live in different countries and he said he will come to my country to meet me, we arranged the date and ...

How do I move on from my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing a guy for 5 months and we had a fight thru text messaging. The guy is married and I am married but separated. One day I was upset with a family issue and after he had not call that morning which he normally does, I sent him a ...

She has a new boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - Ok so Ive dated a girl on and off for almost six years. We were really in love, my niece was even named after her (crazy i know) of course we had ups and downs. This time she broke it off over some issues we had, she wanted me to leave her alone. A...

Should I move on with my feelings and sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we ...

Why am I talking with a guy online who I don't trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Dear cupid,I am 24 and i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years 6months ago. The problem I am having now is that I talk to this guy online. We text,talk over the phone and all. But I have no feelings for him. I just need someone to talk to. I miss ...

How can I fix my insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because of my insecurities that got the best of me. We've been together before 5 years ago for 1.5 yrs and broke up because he tried to be with another girl while we were together and talking to an ex gf behind my back. ...

His version of playing slow is to never text or call and I'm wondering why he wanted to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - My ex split up with me in January after 1 1/2 years, and living together. We hit a rough patch for a couple of months but other then that we were very much in love, his reason he decided he didn't love me anymore. He came back from the states ...

Is it acceptable to ask Kelly to go with me to the wedding? Or should I just talk to my roommate, and tell him I'm going stag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

23 April 2012 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend ("Rachel") last week from a series of fights and a serious change of feelings. I received a wedding invitation to my roommate's wedding a couple weeks before then and RSVP'd assuming I'd bring Rachel. My other ex, "...

I think that's his way of breaking up?? So I move on for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I am in need to vent. My ex-bf and I have been having some issues. We've been on and off for a while. He initiated the first two and I initiated the last one. I initiated because I was just so tired of him not responding to me and just wishing he ...

I feel like I lost a friend for the wrong reason! Is it my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Hello guys I hope you all are doing well As for me I could be doing better I had just official lost a friend today In my eyes, it was for no good reason So my question is Did I handle this situation the right way. I felt I could have han...

I think I'm in love with his brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago when we were in a relationship he had cheated on me 3 times maybe more! We was living together so when it ended I moved out I had no where to go so I stayed at his mothers for a bit,I was happy their until I ...

I feel lost...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years has just broke up with me, its really hard because he still calls me asking for money and wants to sleep with me, he said we can still be with each other but not be in a relationship. I don't know what to do, as he was my ...

My boyfriend chose to move away. Is there any way he will change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 April 2012 (?) - "I'm in love with an amazing person, a person that has made me happier than anyone ever has, in such little time, and only by being herself. I thought i couldn't love a person more than my first love, but this is so different, to be emotionally and ...

I broke up with my ex because he's clingy. Should I leave it at that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

21 April 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend like two days ago , because he's very clingy . I Love him alot , but sometimes i feel like i need my space . Nobody wants to see me with him , but i care about him alot . There's another a guy in the picture that i do ...