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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny ...

I still love my husband but he went back to his ex. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about ...

Girlfriend of 11 years pregnant but now I've found the girl of my dreams

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - 11 years I've been with my girlfriend, didn't marry since I always suspected I'd find someone else, someone I knew the moment I lay eyes on her.. it came about 5 months ago, both the knowledge of a baby girl and love of my life started working ...

She broke up with me and then throws herself at me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Ok so a month ago a girl broke up with me and since then we've talked still but last night when i go to her house she starts throwing herself at me ( i still have feelings for her so i didn't fight back) now i thought this was strange cause she ...

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...

I want him back, but he says "forget it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i was in a relation ship with an older man, he was married and he just had a kid. they were not doing so good they were sort of broke up, but stupid me started a relationship with him. we fell in love she found out and instead of just being broke up ...

Boyfriend choosing friends over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - soo i used to be bestfriends with my bf's friend but that frienship ended when that friend made fun of the fact that i was molested as a kid and told me to go kill myself when my dad died. he also made fun of the fact that i self mutilated my self. ...

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any ...

My husband met up with his ex and now wants to split

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have an 8 yr marriege... My husband met up with his ex 3 weeks ago.. We were already having problems.. but this made up his mind.. after 3 weeks he wants too sell house and completely split.. Whats going thru his head??...

How to get him out of my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i ...

Should I Get Back With Him?? So confused..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i just want a little bit of help and advice please. i am still stupidly in love with my recent ex boyfriend, we have been broken up for a few months and during this time we have always kept close contact as 'friends' but still had the relation...

How do I ignore this awful temptation to call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - A few month ago, my commitment phobe boyfriend ended up relationship suddenly after he started to mention about marriage. of course I am hurt how did he do. As usual as a commitment phobe, he couldn't end the relationship either coul...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

How do I get this cold and distant man out of my head, even while he's visiting our newborn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i dated this guy on and off for 2 years... i got pregnant and he left me. he said he was only with me for the sex and said he loved me because he felt pity... he always said he wanted to be there for the baby.. the thing is, i'm about to give birth ...

I treat him this way not because I'm arrogant but because of my bad experience with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I had a breakup 2 years ago after having chilhood love (6 years)with a boy who lives in my neighbourhood. The breakup was very sudden and very rude on the ground that he was not ready to wait for me to marry (I wanted him to build his and my career ...

Don't want the problems from my past relationship to follow me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I just got out of an intense relationship that lasted off and on for almost two years. The man I was dating and later engaged to was ten years older than me and was sometimes verbally abusive. At the end of our relationship I found out he had a ...

My girlfriend just left me and I want her back. How should I proceed?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend just recently left me. She danced around a couple of reasons such as her issues, she pushed me away, etc... But in the end she said I was a really great guy, a really great boyfriend, but she wants to be single. We dated for almost...

Is she insecure? Jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I received an e-mail from a friend that I had not seen for a couple years , she lives 3000 miles away is married and has a 17 year old daughter. She wrote and said she was visiting soon and wanted to get together to visit . we made arrangem...

This whole situation is messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...

Should I fight for us? or let us go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi my boyfriend has just broke up with me a few days ago, and i dont know how to feel about it! i felt like he put me second so i would moan and argue with him n he said he has had enough of me and doesnt want to be with me anymore! he ...

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due ...

Should I wait longer to ask her out again or do it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have recently been thinking about asking my ex girlfriend who broke up with me saying she needed space and time to think about 2 1/2 weeks ago, if she would want to, i guess for lack of a better word, go on a date with me. We had a day about a ...

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs ...

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...

If he doesn't love me why wouldn't he let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5195 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I've been with a guy for almost a year now i do love him but he said it once and never said it again i used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wanted it is impossible to stay together, ...

Is our relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hello all. Im 21 and after a year and a half of a long distance relationship I ended it with my boyfriend (whose 24). Why? His friend spilt out everything to me, He told me how my boyfriend has repetitively cheated on me whilst we're apart. So I ...

I want to be with him , but be able to do things with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lives way down in the country about 30mins. from my home. I leave usually every Fri. and go down and spend the weekend with him, but sometimes things come up like me having to be a church the next day early, which is located closer to ...

I'm ending all contact with my ex. Is there still a chance he will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me last February, because he wasn't ready for a commitment, and he didn't know what he wanted. The whole, "It's not you it's me" deal. I was heartbroken because I was happy. Since then we would hang out ...

Why is his communication so lousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - The first time my ex and I broke up, I called, text, emailed him regularly with no responses! By the time I had finally just gave up, he showed up at my house apologizing and telling me he missed me and still loves me. We get back together for about ...

I keep finding things from his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I snooped in my boyfriend flat, wrong I know but I do not trust him. I found an big folder, the biggest one in the pile. His ex g/f was polish and it had all these polish to English translation. Also There were love letters...One said this "You...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

How can I show him we are still good for eachother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am 53yrs old and just got back into the dating scene about 5 Mths ago. I reacquainted myself with someone I knew in my teenage years. We have been dating for about 5 Mths and now he says we have no chemistry, which somewhat he is right, but I do ...

What does he mean by a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have dated this guy for close to two years in which we broke up for about 3 months. We got back together and he apologised for it saying it was his fault. He claimed to love me so much and that he needed a fresh start. We got back together and i ...

Ugh my boyfriend wants a break and I wanted it to work...Help!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been reading other answers about how boyfriends want a "break" or "space" and felt compelled to write about my story... i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years (we just had our 2nd anniversary 2 weeks ago. bummer) and just recently he want...

I broke up with her because she said she was pregnant but she wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Over a year ago I ended a relationship with a woman I was deeply in love with. Now I kinda regret splitting up with her as I still love her. The reason we split up was because she told me she was pregnant which I was so happy about, But later it...

How do I prove to him that this situation can be worked out too!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We recently broke up just 2 weeks ago because we decided we were bickering too much. It wasn't a bad break up, it went well although I wanted to work it out and he felt it wouldnt be able to be fixed. ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

We fight we lie, we make agreements and break them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - is it normal for me to have an argument with my boyfreind and then tell him im cheating on him and he keeps cummin back to me . then we have an agreament that we wont go out without eachother cus i am scared hell get with other people but then i ...

Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't ...

Is she just taking needed space or is she going to really break up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over two years now, living together. I love her very much and in the beginning she had nothing but pure joy and love with me. I brought her out of a bad situation and past, one she couldnt ask for anything better. ...

How do I dump my violent boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is a farm boy. He is stuborn very traditional with diffent backgrounds. He knows that a man is a man no one can stand before him. He is aggressive with high temper, when ever we have an argument he will start beating me up. When ...

Should I break up with my clingy girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - So, I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years now and I'm starting to wonder if i want to be with her anymore. When we first started dating we would spend every single day together and I eventually started staying at her house every night. I ...

He said to wait for him. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of one and a half are not together anymore but he told me that he can't say this is really the end but for now it is that he needs a couple of days for only him and if I wanted I could wait and of course I said I will. what should I do? ...

I wan't her back, I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Ok I meet this girl online about 2 yrs ago. In I gave here my phone number in she called me up. After that we started to talk for a long time. Like for 2 yrs stright. When I meet her she had a boyfriend but she broke up with him after a 8yr ...

Do I sit and hope? or accept and forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I sure need some help here guys. My boyfriend of 4 years has broken up with me. i did something a bit underhand and sneaky and i used his 16 year old daughter to get some info out of her. i onlt did it cos hes not very talkative and im extreamly ...

How should I act? I wan't her to give me another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly three and a half years and she decided she wanted a break from the relationship. It's been going downhill with arguments started by me being a complete jerk 99.9% of the time (not being self-blaming, ...

A twisted relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - Ok so i do not know what to do so i thought i would come here for some help. I am 18 years old and in a very confused state of mind. It is really a long story but i will shorten it and please any feedback to this is great because i need som...

I want to wait for her, but I can't wait forever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend more than anything. We broke up a couple weeks ago, with her saying she needs time. I have no problem giving her time, but she doesnt know how much time she needs. I want to wait for her, but i cant wait forever. We still talk ...

She wants to date again, but she's a cheater! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Hey, so i have a problem, i started dating this girl in 9th grade, and we were great together, advancing well, but then three days later we broke up. She said that it just didnt feel right, that i felt like more of a friend to her. Then a couple ...

I want to leave this guy but I've invested so much into a house with him! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 10 yrs with this guy. We have been living together for 7 of those 10 yrs. We bought a house together 4 yrs ago. Somehow when the 10th yr came, I became dissatisfied with this relationship. I have been unhappy for ...