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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My heart is broken, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I'm in complete love with my ex boyfriend. He is my everything. But he hates me and I have no idea why. I no what your thinking ask him why. I have he shrugs and says I dunno I dont. I have two really really close friends one is pissed becuz I talk ...

I'm still attracted to him I just have no sex drive, and now there is a Sailor involved!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Q1, ok so heres the thing my husband and i have been together 2 years and my sex drive has gone down a lot.... he is lucky if i want to have sex once a month. when we first got together it was like 2 or 3 times a day i dont know what happend i give ...

What can I do. Any mantras I can repeat or something. Maybe garlic and a holy cross?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Things didn't work out after I dated a girl in my class. She says she's crazy about me but chose to go out with another dude. As if she expected me to believe that messed up logic. Forget friendship, I'm not wasting my time siting on her back ...

Like me? View me as a good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hullo... I'm single and im just curious if this girl likes me... I only recently (3-4 months ago) broke up with my first girlfriend of a year and have no idea who i like yet. A very nice friend of mine gave me her number at a BBQ because alth...

Help.....Why???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

Said no, but now feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi guys i still talk 2 my ex but the other day he said he may need 2 borrow my car 2 take him,his gf, and his child out for the day and i said no But now i feel really guilty that i said no, i dont really have a problam with it its just that i ...

Does he want to give up on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for 5 months. I text him and ask,Can we try and have a relationship? He says,i will have to think about the whole relationship thing. A day went by and i still had not heard anything from him. I ...

Why is the man I was with for 16 years trying to make my life a living hell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Just a vent more than a question. I HATE MY EX. He left me and his 2 toddlers for a 22 year old. Gt to love it. I got over him leaving, we weren't happy. However, I am angry that he tried to proof I was unfit in court to get full custody which was ...

I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!

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30 April 2009 (F) - So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipp...

Why do some girls not let go completely after a break-up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - why do some girls not let go completely ?? pardon me if i sound rude but i am depressed because my girlfriend has become panicky after i broke up with her and wants to stay my close friend ...where as i dont believe in friendship after breakup and ...

Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same ...

I'm scared I will end up ruining this relationship too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5420 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Hope someone can give me some advice. I'm in a really great relationship with a guy I really care about, but I seem to be in danger of ruining it in the same way that I have several of my previous relationships. The other night...

Our relationship is all one-sided but I'm having trouble letting go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. I have been in a relationship with this guy 9 years my junior, usual story it was great at first, we have had lots of problems to be honest a lot he has caused, i could list a few incidences and in isolation, it doesnt ...

Would-be 2 year anniversary coming up with my ex and I'm not coping!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

30 April 2009 (?) - What would have been my two year anniversary with my ex is this sunday and Ive been so upset all week. We broke up for good in February after going back and forth for a while. We cut all contact four days after my birthday and I havent spoken t...

Even though her ex has moved out I am still her secret lover and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I've been married twice and have four children two from each marrage, I see my children every weekend and share holidays. Seven months ago through the internet I met up with a girl that I had not seen in 23 years. She was in a form of relationship ...

Why doesn't she leave me if the fault is in me that I am not able to be even her genuine friend??

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30 April 2009 (M) - i broke up all contacs with my ex girlfriend... I deleted my facebook and changed my mobile number, I'm trying my level best to avoid her and that too gently and politely taking atmost care not to hurt her too much... before we departed she said she ...

Could it be that he is jealous and still has feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hey thanks for reading. I recently brokw up with my ex 5 weeks ago, and we have remained good friends.... However a good friend came down from interstate last week. I spoke with with my ex and told him that a good friend was coming down, and sen...

Should I keep trying to hold this relationship together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - well me and my fiancee have been together for 3 years now.But he has changed alot towards me he hardly says he loves me he is not that caring anymore he hardly tries to make conversation but we always seem to argue over ridicuolous stuff.He gets mad ...

Did she try to kill her feelings for me to justify starting a new relationship?

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30 April 2009 (M) - Ok heres the breakdown. My ex gf of a year broke up with in Dec, and from what I hear started hanging out with this new guy almost within 2 weeks of breaking up with me. However we continued to talk casually throughout this time, with her even ...

We broke up... why did she come to me for help? Is this karma at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - okay this is my dilemma. Me and my girlfriend of 3 months have recently broke up. The reason why we broke up is because she had feelings for another guy and he has feelings for her. I was devastated and heart broken. We didnt talk anymore for a ...

I finally dumped my cheating abusive boyfriend...Now I want him back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I finally got the courage and strength to bring up the subject of breaking up/going on a break with my boyfriend of two years. After countless times of cheating, and abuse, I let him go... Thing is I thought I'd feel better, but instead I find m...

I set him free thinking he would come back, but he hasn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - This is a long one. I met a guy who was still married but separated, long distance to boot, but we fell very much in love. We were together for two years, but I believed he would need to have some alone time since I was the first person he dated ...

I'm still in love with my ex 3 months on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Im stil in love with my ex even after 3months of break-up. Iv tried contactin her but she hates me. Iv become this stalkish figure. Im really depressed. What makes matters worse is the fact that we study the same major at university. Shes havin a ...

How can I make my ex choose me over my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I dated a girl for a few years before she broke up with me a few weeks ago. Although we were not in a long distance relationship, we could not always see each other due to a number of reasons, and it has gotten worse lately. I became too ...

Although I don't want my ex back, I do miss him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up quite recently. We had gone out for almost 2 years the first time, broke up, and the second time we went out for 3 months. About a week later, I found someone new. It was sudden. He is better than my ex, and he is perfect ...

Secretive boyfriend makes me paranoid

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hopefully someone can help me.. have been with a guy for 2years broke up (for the 100th time) recently bcos theres is no trust what so ever, i know yer probably thinkin "no trust no future" but god do we love eachother!! We have tried to end it ...

Sometimes I regret for not accepting her friendship

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29 April 2009 (M) - i broke up with my girlfriend a month ago due to some genuine reason because i didnt love her...i broke all contacts with her as per the advices given by people on DC ...i resisted her to the core and completely pushed her away from my life by ...

After a year, I'm still in love with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend still a year later after we split. I don't know how to move on though because I don't want another man in my life at the moment. How do you move on from the past?...

My best friend asked me out at the beginning of the year, I turned him down... Now I'm regretting it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i think im in love with my best guy friend He's 17 and Im 15 and he's gonna be senior next year while im gonna be a sophmore. He asked me out at the beggining of the year but i turned him down cause i was too busy for a boy friend. He'...

My ex is all over me but then says she just wants to be friends... and then not anything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - About 3 weeks after my breakup my ex called me and came over and was crying and said she missed me and couldnt eat or sleep. So we went back out and 3 days later after it seeming we were back in deep love, she breaks it off cause she doesnt want the ...

I took my girlfriend for granted and I don't know if I've ruined it forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend recently split up but it was more we went on a break but we can do what we want on this break. im only 18 but i know shes the one for me. thats bold to say but im not jumping around the issue. she is. in the months before we ...

I cant stand living with my ex now he has a new girlfriend but he doesn't want me to move out!

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29 April 2009 (F) - I'm really confused and am wondering if anyone can help me understand my situation more please. I split up with my boyfriend in September 2007 but we stayed friends, then in November 2007, after a short relationship with another girl, he asked m...

I tried to slow down our relationship and now she has moved on to a 60 year old guy!

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29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I met a woman about a month ago - we got along great. I had reservations because her previous boyfriend had left her just 2 months prior and she would talk about him often and how bad he treated her. I did not want to be her rebound guy...

I've become the green eyed monster over two girls I'm not even with anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - I've become a green-eyed monster. I feel jealous and I don't know why. There are two women I'm concerned about right now. It started last night. I came across some old photos of an old girlfriend. My first love, who broke up with me nearly two ye...

Going through hell

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29 April 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been going through hell of late. So here it goes. I was married for 10 years. 3 of it happy, next three years long distance and unhappy and the past 4 years without having sex and always fighting. I was having a...

I cant get this girl out of my head....Am I just feeling rejected or is this something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Right... now I can't get this girl out of my head. We met about a year ago, I was going to the pub she worked at to see a friend play guitar. The first night I saw her I’d mentioned to a mate that I thought she was hot and that I was going to h...

Trust is not possible for me without evidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have been through one hell of a difficult few years and so has my little 8 year old son and his sister . My second husband was dreadfully abusive and we were quite ill by the end of it. Now I am with someone who seems to care about me very muc...

How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man a...

Only dating her because I wanted to experience a lesbian relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Im 24 years old and I have been dating this girl for the past two months now. Everything was okay until lately where I feel distant from her. Im starting to feel Im only dating her because I wanted to find out how it would be like to be in a ...

I love my b/f, but my ex is in my head all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I saw someone post a question kind of like mine but a little different. I am going to be 20 in a few months. I have been with this guy for over months and he is living with me. We planning to get married next year. But for some reason my ...

Was I too harsh to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We got along great but I wasn’t in love with her. I broke the news without warning and she is devastated. She doesn’t have many friends locally and her family lives a state away. She feels she doesn’t have any...

Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Should I brake up with my boyfriend if he tells me not to call him unless I send him naked pictures of me? Well I feel if some one loves me as much as he say he does, he should respect that I don't feel right taking those kind of pictures. So he te...

I'm 14, should I spilt up with my 19 year old boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - i have a 19 year old boyfriend who loves me a lot but i am only 14. my parents will be so angry with me if they find out. this is putting a lot of stress on me and it is affecting our relationship. should i end the relationship?...

Fed up of my cheating boyfriend

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28 April 2009 (F) - Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and ...

Does he just want me around when its convenient for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My ex and i broke up 6 months ago. But since then we keep seein each other.but we arent together! I love him and want more. He says he loves me i know he real him and yet we spend a nice evening together. We talk. Cuddle. Make love.not just sex its ...

Should I tell her how I feel? Will we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 April 2009 (?) - I broke things off with my girlfriend about 2 and a half years ago. and the thing that came to mind, a week or so later is that i still loved her, and didnt know why i would ever end things. And all over the last couple years i've loved her, and ...

I know I don't love him but I can't seem to break away from him.

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28 April 2009 (F) - Help! I am so confused. I got with this boy in March 2008, been with him over a year now. Thing is I really dont love him but there is something stopping me from dumping him. We have had a really bad relationship he really pisses me off and we d...

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer ...

What do you think of my now separated husband? Am I right not to take him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I'm in this situation and i'm not sure how to handle in. Here goes, my husband and i recently seperated after being married for 10 yrs.he continues to blame me for everything that lead to the seperation.I believe that i'm a good women i did ...

We've broken up; how do I care for my son as I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been through a seperation. I have done a lot of soul searching in the time since we seperated (1/half). I still have feelings for my ex and realise that I probably always will as we were together for some time and have a child ...