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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Engaged to be married .. but now having second thoughts. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a woman who I've dated for a combined total of 1.5 years (with a four year break-up). I love spending time with her and although we don't have too many shared interests, we always find ways to entertain ourselves for hours on end. ...

Lost, hurt and anxious to move on, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I feel so lost. My boyfriend and I have almost been together for four years now and I have been in and out of depression for the last year. Last year, around this time I confronted him about why he was having reservations about marriage. When he f...

My husband is an alcoholic. I need to get out of this, but I have nowhere to go.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Please help! I am 33 years old and have been married for nearly 7 years. My husband is an alcoholic and has been throughout out marriage. We have no children although granted this is due to my husband being incapable of lovemaking most of the ...

How do I change to be the girl that he wants to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I recently broke up. Well we broke up yesterday. He said it was because my parents refused to let me go away with him and his family for the weekend. But I know that that was not the only reason. We had a lot of problems. In the beginnin...

Help! I am so lost with this one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi i was with my ex for years and we just recently split. i think it was mostly my fault because i changed after i was raped by a man i used to work with. my ex didn't know about the attack and i didn't tell him till after we split up but i wont...

Do you think he wants her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 9 months and i love him so much his everything to me..but every time i try to let go i cant... he has messed up several times and i have forgived him he was going out with me and another girl at the same time and i caught...

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our ...

Move on or get back together? How long can I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 11 months broke up with me. She said she didn't love me any more, didn't want to be in a relationship and lost that "spark." This was 3 weeks ago and at first I was fine with it but then reality really hit me hard. What hurt the ...

His rebound relationship bothers me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I recently got back together officially. We broke up 5 months ago, and then started dating again 2 months after it. My problem is that during those two months in which we did not talk to each other, he slept with one of his ...

My husband is calling it quits, and I am at a very vulnerable spot right now. Any advice?

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11 April 2009 (F) - My marriage of 15 years has been in trouble for the last 5. I have moved area twice in that time following my husbands career and have become increasingly isolated from family and friends and other support networks as a result. Each time whil...

2 questions: 1 on my best friend on her b/f and 1 on my b/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ok, so this is kind of two questions in one. to start off with my best friend and her bf have been together for about 4 or 5 months now, and they're getting quite serious. they've not had sex yet but she's been asking me and my other friend to get ...

Feeling stuck in a relationship....Is it time to get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hi - I am a 24 year old female who has been in a relationship with the same man for almost 5 years. He was my first intimate partner and we have been through a lot of ups and downs. We are like best friends, but the relationship lacks serious ...

Should I continue to do nothing and wait for him? Or has he already moved on?

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11 April 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 4 months. There was a strong attraction from the beginning. We started talking everyday... and kept in contact constantly 24/7 via text, IM, phone, email. He thought I was the perfect girl for him and I felt the same too. He...

Abusive bf? Or too loving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Okay...so ill start off saying im 17 and my bf is 20. so I'm not sure what this is considered...but ive been dating this guy for 10months off and on. and i know im not the peachiest person...but ok maybe last night i had this coming. we broke up(a...

I broke things off but I'd like to see her again now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - About three months ago I ended things with a girl I was involved with. It wasn't a relationship and we were just getting to know each other. Unfortunately, I had a lot of pressure on me from school so I didn't get to know her as well as I would ...

Is he just not ready for a relationship but has lingering feelings?

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11 April 2009 (M) - I recently broke up with my bf, a month ago... He broke it up with me as I was not prepared to end it at all. The break up was hard and still is hard on me. He told me that he felt he was not really ready for a realationship at the mom...

He's going away to school..we're breaking up and I hurt so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 years. two days ago, he recieved a letter of acceptance for an english teaching course is barcelona which he applied for almost a year ago, thinking he would not get it anyway. he will be gone atleast ...