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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys i still talk 2 my ex but the other day he said he may need 2 borrow my car 2 take him,his gf, and his child out for the day and i said noBut now i feel really guilty that i said no, i dont really have a problam with it its just that i feel a bit strange that she would be in my car which we used to go out on day trips in Was i wrong?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 Wait a minute. YOUR car for HIS gf, HIS child (not yours?) and HIMSELF.
He is your EX. That means he is in the PAST! What the hell kind of society do you live in when an ex with no futher connection to you can possible expect to borrow your car to take out HIS family?
No you were not wrong. Next time tell him to call rent-a-car. And don't talk to a using ex like this. You are not a doormat are you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): don't let him borrow it dont feel guilty. there's car rentals everywhere. and I am a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Absolutely not - tell him to go and hire a car!
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 You have every right to say no to anyone asking to borrow your car. It's great that you two still talk, but I don't even let my friends borrow my car. My current BF barely borrows it. I get funny when my parents have to drive it, and it's not even a nice car!
A car is kinda a big deal. He shouldn't take it personally, and he shouldn't have really asked. That was pretty presumptuous on his part. just because you still talk doesn't mean you're old pals.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (30 April 2009):
 No! Its fine to say no!! I think he was cheeky to ask to borrow it in the first place. If my ex asked me to do the same I would say no too!! X
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