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writes:I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for 5 months. I text him and ask,Can we try and have a relationship? He says,i will have to think about the whole relationship thing. A day went by and i still had not heard anything from him. I decided to text him and say,If you dont want to have a relationship with me i understand, Guess my feelings are alot stronger towards you, I have been in situations in the past where i didnt feel the same either,so i understand. He says,it is not you,i just want to keep things simple for now. I said,ok. He text me yesterday saying,you giving up? I said,no i still want to see you,just afraid im going to end up with a broken heart,if you want me to give up i will. He didnt reply back. Does this mean he wants me to give up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. To tell u the truth im just sick of feeling this way towards him. Ive even told him i love him. He hasnt been divorce long so, i think that has alot 2 do with him not wanting 2 be in relationship right now. We hung out before he got married,and when he got a divorce he contact me and we started hanging out again.Hes told me many times that hes interested. Its going 2 be hard,but i think im just going 2 give up. I thought maybe he didnt want me 2 give up. That was the reason he was asking me the question. I guess thats what i wanted 2 think. Its going 2 be hard to get over him. I know its just going 2 take some time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): your best bet is to see him face 2 face and look at his body language when you two talk about the issue.
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reader, Kit-Kat  +, writes (30 April 2009):
i think the best thing to do is to talk about it to him face-to-face -no messing around waiting for a reply. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): Yeah I would read this as him backing out.
Remember this is all him. It's not your fault he's not into it. It's just what he chose.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): When you chase guys, they run. Asking him for a relationship and telling him you don't want your heart broken just signals to him that you are insecure and that's a turn off for men. Take the power back in your life and start living it, he'll come back around if he's interested in pursuing you and if he isn't, you are better off without him!
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