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*achakaRoni
writes: I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend still a year later after we split. I don't know how to move on though because I don't want another man in my life at the moment. How do you move on from the past?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): I think you already know the answer deep down..you have to (however hard it will be) forget him!! But the thing is you wont if your still in contact with him!!
He is with someone else, does that not tell you something? and to top it off he dumped you for her!!
Your still in love with him because you havnt let yourself even try to get over him because your in constant contact.
You need to talk to this lad and tell him where to go so you can FINALLY start living your life,dont look bk in years to come and say y didnt you finish if for good then
goodluck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): This is hard, but you will do yourself a huge favor if you manage to move on. Your future partners would not appreciate your baggage.
Traveling works wonders. Get out of town, go to Europe, Asia, or backpack through Africa for some time. Also, you should have had a clean break. None of the 'I will remain your friend forever' nonsense.
You have had a year alone already, and that's a good start. Just complete the job. You will see a light emerging soon.
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reader, RachakaRoni +, writes (29 April 2009):
RachakaRoni is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe split with me for another girl, who he is still with by the way but still keeps in contact with me regularly now more often
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reader, Irish girl +, writes (29 April 2009):
Y ye split?! Need to be more specific!
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