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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

We broke up over my friend. How do I get my ex's trust back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I moved from Michigan to Maryland 2 years ago to be with a man I truly loved. We were supposed to get married but it never happened. Whenever it was close we would argue and call it off. He travels a lot for his job or just to go back to Michigan to ...

We're finished and I don't want him, but why does it bother me that he is now engaged and has a child with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am struggling getting over a relationship from 9 years ago. He was my first real boyfriend and I gave everything to him. I broke it off with him after a year when I found out he was hiding the fact he was looking at porn on the computer and ...

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...

She dumped me TWICE, now wants a third shot, should I ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 28 year old man, I have been in this relationship for about 5 months. The first time she told me I wasn't her type. She told me she liked dark Skinned men and I'm fair skinned Half-italian half-spanish. She also mentioned she wa...

Why do I still feel like this after leaving my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a question which I've asked myself a thousand times..why do I feel sorry for myself for doing the right thing which was leave an abusive man which I've been dating for 4yrs..First of all I have kids who thank god have never witnessed ...

My boyfriend affair has shattered my world and I need to know how to pick myself up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt's My boyfriend had an affair on me in may of 2008. I found out about it in January of 2009. It shattered my world, I am now trying to put my life back together and I can't seem to stop thinking about it every day and every night,...

My wife thinks she is in love with another man yet our marriage is still good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My marriage is in trouble again. My wife had a fling last year with a guy she used to bump into while out clubbing, all very casual, but destructive and hurtful nonetheless. I gradually uncoevered the whole thing, and...I forgave her. She said she ...

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i ...

I think I need to be single but don't have the guts to tell my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old, I am in a 3 1/2 years relationship with my boyfriend, in which, I love still but than again it's becoming very lame. I feel bad to break up with him because he loves me so much... I decided to go away for College.. I live in ...

Confused and heart broken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two and a half years and he told me yesterday he needs a break from our relationship. We've been fighting alot lately, mainly about money. We both have good jobs but he wastes his money on stupid things then ...

Is it time to end this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Long marriage story...should we split and if so how can we make it on our own?? I've been married almost ten years we met the summer I graduated highschool we have 3 beautiful children. I'm miserable he is miserable but we love each other have fun ...

Ex g/f still wants phone sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - my seventeen year old ex girlfriend says that though we have broken up we can still have phone sex chats and masturbate and she said it will be only for personal pleasure ... is it ok to do it ? ...

Why do LDR not work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I was with this amazing guy for a while and then he decided b/c he couldn't see me all that we couldn't be together. We were so happy until then. He lived about an hr. away and I had even planned to see him when he broke up with me. Why do long ...

I don't know what things would be like if we DID start dating again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. She also fell in love with me, but she later dumped me because she hated how hurt I always was and she hated the pressure that my depression added to the relationship. It's been about tw...

My girlfriend slept with another guy... Twice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - My Girlfriend slept with another guy, Twice. the thing is we started dating about seven and then we started arguing over petty things and they grew bigger. she suggested we went on a break then a month later suggested we get back together...

What were his intentions of contacting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with an ex a month ago. I got hurt as i really liked him and he was cheating and he wasn't the lovely guy i thought he was. We agreed on no contact as i never wanted to speak to him again after he had so little respet for me. Today i g...