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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

After hateful texts messages, she wants to be "friends"...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My former best friend, turned girlfriend of 3 months dumped me two months ago. Since then we haven't spoken and have just engaged in nasty text message arguments saying we hate each other. Now she seems to want to be my friend again. I quite miss ...

I'm not going to let her push me away without a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Ok... I wrote a while ago and things have pretty much remained the same. We've talked a bit more and she told me that she's never felt this strongly about someone this quickly before....but she is pushing me away even more now. I don't call her, ...

Am I just getting played?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I am 16. He is 18. Back in december we dated for 2 months (febuary) I was completly heartbroken ect. Then about the 3rd week of march we went back out but this time, after about a week, I broke up with him because the relationship wasn't as personal ...

3rd time's a charm - Did anyone get a third chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Are there any guys (or girls) out there who have broken up with the SAME partner twice and still successfuly gotten him/her back for a third try? (ideally within a relatively short time period - not the 15 year split times then trying again far...

I am confused. I need advice for me to move on.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am confused. I need advices for me to move on. I’ve seeing this guy for almost 2 months. He never told me he liked me, but he kept calling me “hon” and he was nice to me, and always wanted to hang out with me. For the past 3 days, we...

Should I wait a couple of days to stand my ground and show her that I'm not needy or clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - ok....i have been seeing this girl, everything seems fine but the re is one problem, HER EX, she still has feelings for him it seems (he is a really needy dude who will make up any excuse to speak to her including lying about me) i told her thro...

She said she doesn't want me in her life. What did she mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - My ex and I recently began to talk a little bit after we broke up about 4 months ago. She broke up with me with "its just not working", we were going out for about a year and half. We both were very much in love for a long time and guess just fell ...

What does this guy want from me? Why does he act this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - My Ex went to Spain a week ago. When he was about to leave to board his flight,he text me to say that he was on his way to Spain. When he returned he called me asking if he could meet out in the area where I live. He said that he had bought some ...

Am I obsessive and invading my bf privacy ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have so much doubt and mistrust going with my ex,yes,i am still going out with my ex just like we are still together,we sleep together,we talked a lot.I asked him many times that i don't us to be just friends,but he always answer me that he is ...

Someone cheer me up please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Me and my ex-girlfriend have been on and off for the past 6 months but we are very much into each other...too many disagreements and problems with trust have ruined things. I decided to give it one last go instead of giving up on it but i didn...

2 months pregnant and boyfriend wants nothing to do with it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hi all.i found my boyfriend texting and ringing girls behind my back i've been with him over 7 months, he's polish, i'm not and he's been living here 5 years and i've recently found out that i'm pregnant. it was a big shock but his reaction...

It's been 3 months and I still am not over him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - i cannot take this any more. me and my ex broke up at the end of January. he has a girlfriend now and i am talking to someone. When he found out i was talking to someone he said something to me and said he's still in love with me. he said he does...

I have tried my best and now feel I am just being taken for an idiot

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Before i start this post I would like to just say that i dont actually have problem with potential partners having children etc when you meet them but the problem is this.. when i met my partner he told me he had a child.. the mother of the ch...

Now I cant connect with people on a personal level. How do I overcome this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hey... I just finished my first relationship. And it went for two years. I know, thats reaaally long for a first relationship apparently. Well, for the whole relationship, i never yelled at her, any arguments we had it was pretty much her yelling...

Is he trying to make me jealous and see how far he can go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Please help me im so confused right now,im still mates with my ex bf, who sometimes i lv him and sometimes i hate him, he has a gf which he says he loves and she could be the one, But basically he tells me about it and also how shes going 2 buy him ...

She said that if I really want her back it shouldn't matter how many people she has slept with. Is this true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - i am 17 and i was with my girl friend for 2 years but we have been friends for about 6 or more years since primary school. this is the girls that i had the little crush on back in primary school and that continued till high school were she had a bf ...

Commitment phobia? Breaking up? Can this be fixed? Is there hope? HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - 7 months ago, I left everything and moved to Spain to start a new life with my Spanish fiance....so I thought anyway. Things have not been easy for me (no family, no friends, no knowledge of the language, paperwork difficulties, etc) but they have ...

WTH happened? Did I get dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Why are guys so confusing? This guy that I have been dating for over a month and last night, we were laying in my bed together. We haven't done anything sexual yet but he started kissing me and asked "When are you going to stop teasing me?" and I sa...

She said she wanted to back off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hello all, yes I have had another problem in my relationship and would like to know peoples thoughts. After my previous posts.. We got back together this time I stood back and tried not to think to much into things that may bother me (ie photos) ...

He needs space, can't control what he's feeling

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - I have been married for 9 years. Had a baby about a month ago. This is our second child. We've had problems before just like any other couple. But he had some self esteem and insecurities too. But he was never open about it and just kept it to ...

Does my ex girlfriend want me back or is she just keeping me hanging on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 April 2009 (M) - Hi, Me and my ex girlfriend split up about 10 days ago after a 3 year relationship. It started about a month ago when she told me that she needed some time apart to spend with her college friends (as she has just started college). Although i was ...

I feel he tricked me into having an abortion and now I feel so guilty about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Hi, could you give me advice on getting back my ex please? Our relationship ended really badly. I was pregnant and we made the decision together that it was best to have an abortion because we thought we weren't ready and that our relationship ...