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writes:So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel.Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English.I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipped out of my mind. In fact, I wasn't even planning on confronting him that day. He had just walked his girlfriend to her bus (all students take buses even if they have a license. I have no idea why.) and when I saw him, my mouth decided to go on autopilot and call him.I. Was. Bloody. Terrified!He stopped. Looked back at me with his eyebrows raised and waited for me to walk up to him.I stuttered at first, but when I was finally sure of what I was going to say, a guy passed us and he greeted him. I stood their for approximately six seconds, watching them do those guy handshakes before I shooed his friend away.When his friend left, I thought that he would look at me and ask me what was up. Instead, he faced the wave of people and all I could see was the side of his face."So, Julianne told me that she talked to you," I told him, hoping to elicit some sort of reaction."When?" he asked me, still facing the oncoming crowd."A week ago or something," I told himHe didn't say anything."She told me that you asked her if I still liked you."Still no reaction. He just looked at me from the corner of his eye."That was before."I stood there, staring at him, unsure of what to say next. I was waiting for him to say something but when he didn't, I turned on my heel and left. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw him do the same thing."That wasn't important?" he called out to me, looking at me straight in the eye. I wasn't sure if that was a question or a statement.The next day, a friend of mine told me that when she saw him in the morning, he looked happy. And when we were at the cafeteria, he walked up to my best friend and told her that he liked me too. My friend told him to tell me. He said he would.All through out the day, every time his friends saw me, they would call him and try to get him to talk to me. His friends are also considerably nicer to me and even make an effort to be close to me. Before, they used to avoid me or seem to be awkward around me, and I always wondered why since they were friendly and outgoing people.But he still hasn't talked to me and all that happened was he'd increase his staring and look at me in a way that looked like he wanted me to talk to him (at least that was what my friend said). And every time he sees me, he just smiles and'll stare or, if he's talking to some of his female classmates, glance at me.These days, he'll just wait for his girl but he wouldn't walk her back to class. And they seem to be talking less. His girl is still madly in love with a male friend of mine.What should I do now? I don't want to talk to him. I don't have the guts. Its like we're both avoiding each other. I don't even know if we're still friends. Please give me some advice. =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009): i know this something like this happend to me before the stares,the looking out the conor of the eye,the shyness,this is make or break.i am glad you got the courage to talk to him it takes guts i should know.
try you best to have a one to one chat with him thats the best way to sort it out.
i hope the best for you xxxxx
if you dont make the move like me you will be upset and at home listenting to that song layla (eric claptan).
best wishes let me know how it goesxxxxxxx
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (30 April 2009):
 hes with someone? your treading dangerous ground get him to leave her first. then it might be easier for both of you.
he probably likes you but is shy, try and catch him on his own and whisper in his ear if he likes you beause you like him. if he nods, or says yes then try going in for a light kiss. on the cheek even! if he is shy i doubt he will chase you so don't make yoruself to hard to get.
at the same time if he doesn't tell you himself and carries on, id tell his mate that you won't wait any longer that he makes a move or you look elsewhere.
that way you know it is going to get back to him.
you don't have time to waste on this boy youve laid your cards out if he doesnt take his turn move on.
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