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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why is it that my Ex and I are such great love makers but we can't get along unless we are in the sheets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my daughter's father and I have a WONDERFUL SEX life together I mean we both can put it down.But we went our separate way some years ago do to being dishonest toward one another there was a lot of drinking, drugs, and fighting,and a lot ...

How do I stop being a burden to my family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Ok so I started college this semester, 3 hours away from my hometown. I've transfered schools twice already and I'm 24. I still depend on my parents and I hate it. I love my mother but at 24, been my third attempt in college, I feel guilty and like ...

Is this single guy looking for a threesome with me and my BF? Who makes the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship. She agreed but ended up getting back wit...

Are You Ready For Marriage?

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25 May 2013 (M) - Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...

Is it pathetic if I feel that love is around the corner given that no one has shown interest in me for 3 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Okay.. So, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago. It was a friendly break up, we realised a long distance relationship wouldn't work and I have absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. But, somehow, after him, literally no one has shown any ...

Why do I still have such strong feelings for him? Is this love or am I just crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I fell in love with a guy 26 years ago. It was love at first sight for me. The whole nine yards. To this day all I have to do is think about him and I get butterflies in my stomach. After dating for 7 months we figured out we were first cousins. I ...

How long does it take to move on from your First Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - My first love was someone who I was deeply in love with for 3 years. We were teenagers when we met. It is now 4 months after our break up. I ended our relationship, for the better of both of us. I do not regret my decision for us to end. If we we...

Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...

We broke up. What life lessons can I learn from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - hi aunts and uncles.... i finally got the chance to ask my ex after a year and a half of being seperated and divorced, why he left me. i wanted to know what mistakes i made so that my next relationship would not end up breaking up because of a...

My boyfriend has changed his mind about wanting children and now I feel like he resents me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - At the beginning of my relationship i made it clear i had no plans for children in my life, not because i dont like them but because i want to keep my freedom etc and not go through pregnancy in general. My boyfriend said he did not mind either ...

My Wedding. Does any one have any solutions? I'm just terrified of everything and everything revolving around me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Hi! So I dont really know what to do for this, but I'm afraid of my wedding. I'm not afraid of commitment or anything and Im not afraid to go to other peoples weddings- just afraid of my own. I start looking at venues or dresses and just panic. ...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

How come he can't find 5 minutes for me? please help, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - hey everyone. i'm right now in a disturbing relationship. my bf is older than me, he is very sweet, intelligent, and he loves me a lot. we have been together for one year. in beginning he was not too good but was not too bad either. he texted m...

Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Coworker flirted with me but dated another coworker instead? A coworker flirted with me via email and in person for a few months. He stared at me all the time, emailed me but in some ways was reserved. I thought he was shy. He was actually flirting...

He told me he's not thinking of marriage yet! Am I wrong to be disappointed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi im with a ldr now with my boyfriend and we been 3 years knew each other via skype and call. And always visiting me here every year, despite of the distance he always make effort to see me. He lives in Slovakia and i lived in Singapore and im ...

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early ...

Dodgy messages on husband's phone, suspicions of a prostitute, should I phone the person to see who it is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have been married for almost ten years and we have a six year old son. My husband has always been interested in porn (every year or so he slips up and I "find" something, particularly quite young women although not illegal), but I have had no ...

Are relationships at 19 inevitably pointless?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I'm 19 and currently at university, and I'm quite focused on stuff like my career, my studies, developing a good personality and making long-lasting friendships as that seems to be stuff that will last me for life and actually matter. Because I...

It upsets me that my son won't speak to me. Should my parents be offering him special treats, even though he disrespects me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - I've fallen out with my son, about 6 months ago. I'm perfectly willing to discuss whatever's bothering him, and try and resolve it. He's 20 ,and a very strong character. He simply won't speak to me. He sees my parents about once a week, and I...

Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Are there too many issues in our relationship to continue? My bf and I have been together for 3 years most of the time our relationship is brilliant, but some issues keep coming up and we don't seem to be able to resolve them. When we argue (which ...

How do you stop being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - How do you stop being jealous???? I have never been that jealous of other woman when I have been with boyfriends but in my last relationship my ex boyfriend had a few close female friends and aqaintences and I was very jealous and can't work out why ...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

How can I get the confidence to do more things without feeling guilty? And any suggestions on how to end my relationship and not feel like I'm dropping in a hole of being alone forever?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles :) This may be a little long but I could really do with some help. I am a single 24 year old female, would describe myself as being attractive,easy going,hardworking and loyal amongst many other things. Not meaning to sou...

Is being without a sense of direction, perpous, or,meaning to our lives getting too popular in Western culture??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

20 May 2013 (M) - I know that this isnt a love, dating, or sexual question but this sight is full mindfull and intelligent individuals and I was.wondering if any of you felt the same way about Western society today?? As a man in my twenties I do not want to soun...

have people broken mirrors and actually had bad luck after?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - you might think i'm stupid for even asking this question. But this morning I dropped my mirror and a chunk of the corner cracked and came off. I am quite superstitious, so I was wondering if it is true that if you break a mirror it's bad luck? ...

Would you date someone with so many tattoos? Or would you fear it would ruin your reputation?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - Today while on lunch break a friend said to me, very openly and out loud, "did you see all the tattoos on that guy's face? He must have been to prison!" I quietly nodded then thought of something... I was very attracted to another friend who had m...

My boyfriend's lack of ambition is taking a toll on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend says he's lost his lust for life. And I can see a serious lack of motivation and drive but because Ive only been in the picture for two years I dont know for sure if this is a recent thing or if he has always been this way. He is a ...

I'm in a long distance relationship, but I've met someone local

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

19 May 2013 (M) - For the past 5 years, I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend of 8 years. Due to our circumstances, we'd only be together twice a year at most. It has been hard for the both of us, there were times when we'd stop talking for ...

I think I wasted my teenage years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hey guys. I'm wondering if anyone here can relate and give me some advice. I'm 19 years old and I feel like I've sort of wasted my teenage years and that I didn't really live the life of a normal teenager. I've never had a boyfriend, never really ...

I'm having a difficult time getting over an abusive man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me a week ago. I'm still trying to move on even though for the last 6 months he was very abusive (verbally and emotionally) towards me, called me whore and slut while dumping me thru phone. I know I didn't de...

Anyone else really hate pick-up artists?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I've never been remotely interested in a guy like that. It just absolutely puts me off. It's like someone knows I wouldn't be interested in him if he acts like his normal self, so he has to put on a "front" and try manipulative mind games like ...

How to I reconcile knowing something significant about my boyfriend's father that even he doesn't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - So my partner is one of three children. He has a different father to the younger two and sees this dad as his also. He has no interest in his biological 'father' since he never had anything to do with him. Last night I was drinking with my...

After 8 years of marriage I became totally dependant on my ex-husband to support me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - i am 28 and i don't want to work. I'm still living with my ex husband and his girl friend, he has moved on and i relied on him so much for 8 years. i have become comfortable living like that. i don't work or pay any bills. i don't do anything...

How does one overcome an awful childhood and the lack of a loving homelife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - I grew up with a single mother (my dad left when I was very little) and two sisters who dropped out of school due to getting pregnant. I was raised on a council estate, but it was in a really nice little town down South (leaving out the name so ...

My husband has been hiding that he's talking to his ex-fling on FB. What to do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - We've been maried for 3months now. i'm just 22 and hes 24 maybe too young for marriage. We've been LDR for 2years then got married. We've been LDR again for about 2 months now, and he did it again, chatted wih his ex fling, admits he did but refu...

How can I improve my self esteem after an abusive relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4244 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid Long story short, got dumped from a 3 years abusive relationship. My self esteem is record low and im still thinking about ways to get my ex-bf back, haven't acted on it though. I am trying really hard to move on and not think ab...

Does my child's father have any rights? Hasn't paid support and his name isn't on the birth certificate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4243 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - Hi i have a son who is nearly 5 his dad has never seen him he told me to have a abortion or he was going to get someone to make me miscarry i had my son and brought him up alone but his dad has tried to get in contact with me he has nit paid a penny ...

Urgent, Help required About Divorce and remarriage.....?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - hi, my friend is planned to marry a guy which is second marriage to him. That guys wife applied for divorce 5 years back.....But still the case is in process. So my doubt is whether my friend can marry him or she has to wait until his guy gets div...

Junior in college and I hate my major. Do I call it quits and change it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

16 May 2013 (F) - I’m a university student majoring in business management, and I unfortunately hate my major. I was a performing arts major during my first year of college. I chose it because I didn’t know what else to choose, but I realized it wasn’t for me. I...

Do you think parents who do not want to take responsibility for their children should be let scot free for the sake of peace?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - I have a 10 year old daughter with my ex. My ex has not been seeing the child nor supporting her financially. I took him to court for child maintenance, and he was ordered. He only paid few times and has completely stopped. I work and can somehow ...

Do women mature faster than men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4245 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - Hi folks, Maisy here! What are other peoples thoughts on whether girls are more mature than boys generally please? im 23 and all the girls i know have flown the nest yet all the boys i know at still living at home for example. Do others a...

Thinking about moving in together so I wanted to go furniture shopping, he just tells me to go on my own so he can go out drinking! Is this what our life is going to be like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years. We have recently been talking about moving in together, but it has started causing problems between us because we have such different ideas about what it will be like. At the moment we have ...

Have I lost the love of my life? She has feelings for someone else and wont stop seeing him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

14 May 2013 (M) - have i lost her? i have been in a relationship for 10 years, i left this girl for over a year and started a new relationship, i broke her heart and we eventually ended up back together. i have never treated her right and have never committe...

Dating a girl for 2 weeks, saw some strange messages on her phone then her best friend calls me to tell me to walk away from her! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

14 May 2013 (M) - I have been online dating for about a year and I go on about 2 dates a week. I'm no Brad Pitt but i'm a good looking guy and have just qualified as a children's doctor. I met a girl (M) 2 weeks ago and we have been on some dates. She is cute ...

My boyfriend runs hot and cold.....is he a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - Well my bf this notorious habit of being extra vigil about his phone and email and need lots of female attention too. He runs hot and cold and I am rarely sure what he is thinking now . I first thought its me and I have some jealousy issues....

Ready to date. Where can I meet men outside my daily routine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

14 May 2013 (F) - It's been a year and a half since I last dated, and would like to date again. I'm looking for a long-term serious relationship but I don't know where to look. I want someone a bit older and more experienced so college isn't the ideal place to loo...

I'm a slow learner, how do I manage this with my new job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

14 May 2013 (?) - I'm starting a new job next Monday. I'm real excited about it, but there's one thing that worries me. I'm kind of a slow learner, (slower than most people I know). In the past, that's really annoyed my supervisors and managers at other jobs. They...

He has changed, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years is becoming very abusive lately, he is abusive only with me, with his friends and others he behaves very sweetly. He hasnt said a single nice thing to me in past few months. I tried not to evoke his anger in anyway,...

Dealing with casually racist people?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - I go to a top British university where there are quite a lot of upper/middle-class white people from the South. Obviously, I don't have a problem with this. I'm half Asian, however, and because of this I don't look like I'm from any particular ...

I love him but we're not on the same page about marriage and kids

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years now and I love him very much. But we started on the topic of the future and he dropped the bombshell that although he wants to same things as I do, he wants them on a completely different time scale to ...