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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Social anxiety is keeping me from 'getting out there'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm 19 and at uni. Unfortunately, I suffer from very bad social anxiety and I really struggle in new, different and out of the usual situations. I've done a lot of things that other people haven't (I've actually traveled to the othe...

He wants to move in asap, but no mention of marriage. If we move in now, will we still marry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend of 2 years wants us to live together and I want to wait until we're married. I know for sure if I said let's move in together he would do it tomorrow but I have realised over the past month or two he's not exactly rushing ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend of 6 years even though the spark has gone? Or leave him for the schizophrenic, compulsive liar who I've only ever flirted with over the phone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am falling for 2 men, I can't seen to choose who to stay with! one i have been with for 6 years we are both the same age 6 days apart even lol i loved but i have started losing my spark with him. he used to be romantic now he's not hasn't been for ...

Why are some new fathers so selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Reading yet another question on here where a husband gets his wife pregnant and then doesn't even help out out at all. Why does this happen? She went through giving birth to his kid and ruining her body for him. He Also helped create the kid, so ...

Love or Marriage? Which should I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I need advice: should I stay with my current boyfriend who I am totally in love with but he's six years younger and from a different world -- or find someone i can tolerate that is more serious, settled and ready for marriage? I'm going to b...

Did I miss out on a huge part of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - when i was 20 i decided to drop out of the community college i was attending. i was just wasting money because i had no idea what i wanted to major in. at the time, i always felt jealous of my friends who were away getting the "real" college ...

I know I need to step up and get my children back, but how do I go about repairing the relationship when I've been away for 5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I'm 27 with 3 girls that have been without me for 5 years. I left home after a stressful 2 year custody battle searching for my own independance. Sadly pregnant I realized my it was best if I stayed away a while to keep from tearing the girls nerves ...

Happily married but have a conundrum

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - Hi all, I will try to keep this brief and simple.I am very happily married. In fact, most of the problem is I cant talk to my husband about this and I tell him everything! The crux is, I have a crush (im not worried, i simply admire him physically ...

I've noticed an ongoing thing, how do I change it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - i have noticed a recurring theme regarding women in my life. i can attract them and keep them through manipulation, but if i try to act as though i really am, they become disinterested. so i must always play games. it becomes tiresome. also, ...

Please help me win my husbands affections again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - How can I make my husband fancy me? Hi, I had a baby just under 12 weeks ago and obviously my body is not what it was, I put on more than 50% of my body weight while pregnant (from 9 stone to 14 stone) and still weigh 2 stone more than I'd like. P...

Is he out of my reach?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - I am a very athletic and outgoing 18 year old girl. I have always kind of had a thing for older guys, and recently I have had my eye on this guy that I work out with at the gym. However he is much older than me, he is 23 and will be 24 this summer ...

How do I get him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - sooo, im a single mother. and i should be happy for what i do have rather then what i dont. my sons father has never been there for me, and i always feel like im lost with adult company (a guy) im in my 20s, and because im a single mother i dont ...

There's a lot at stake, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 7 years (no kids). I was brought up strictly: no boyfriends, no socialising, even friends were a no no. Life was miserable. I left uni and managed to get a job in another city and started having a life. ...

Can I change her bad ways by loving her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - Right so i have known this girl and i've dated her on and off. i feel an intense attraction towards her. She's a gorgeous lass but Problem is, she has a terrible family background and as a result has led quite a wayward life. She hasn't been abl...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

My Step mother puts me down all the time. It's upsetting me. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. Over the years I've asked lots of questions to the site and the responses have always been very helpful and genuinely caring. Recently my step mom who has always been ...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

My husband was raped by his older brother when he was a kid, I think he needs therapy but I can't suggest it to him when I'm not supposed to know this

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I have a big problem which I don't know how to deal with and I would apreciate some advice on what to do. I am married to the most wonderful man in the world (well for me anyways). A couple of months ago I had lunch with one of our oldest frien...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

Abusive ex boyfriend won't pay back money after our split, how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I desperately need advice as I have nowhere else to turn. I broke up with my boyfriend of over 2 1/2 years recently as he was very abusive both verbally and recently, physically. My friends noticed I had changed and was depressed and so they ...

How can I start a meaningful conversation to gain his support (and interest) about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Hey, so I need some help to communicate better with my bf about our pregnancy as I feel he doesn't care, which leaves me wondering if I should go it alone :( I'm 11 weeks pregnant now, we have our first scan next week. We've been together 2 years...

Why can't I date a black guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now. Put simply, I'm white and he's black. My dad insists that he's not racist, but he seems funny about it. He says there are risks involved in society. At the end of the day I really like my boyfriend, I ...

Should I tell him about my pregnancy? He does not want a baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Ok to start off yes I know how stupid I was, but it happened and I can't change it now. This guy and I had been on about 2 dates at the time. we had sex and the thing I never expected to happen...happened. I got pregnant. The issue is, he talks ...

My wife passed away and I'm left with a difficult daughter who I have no clue how to deal with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My wife of seven years recently just passed (car crash). we actually met for the first time when i was in the 2nd grade she was the child of a close family friend but being thats shes five years older then me we rarely conversated in those days. ...

Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I woul...

Am I just worried over nothing? Her love and appreciation only happens on line

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for a while and i get texts, emails, messages on facebook, all telling me how great i am. What a nice kind guy I am. And a true gentleman. She tells me she enjoys it when i come over and spend time with her and her ...

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's ...

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dati...

Why do men only ever approach me for casual sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Hi all, I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been truly asked out or taken out on a date. I've had sex and guys pursue me with only this reason in mind it seems. I'm not a whore though and don't sleep with anyone/ever...

My girlfriend wants me to move in with her, should I do it when we cant really afford it and I'm not ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for like a year and a half. I go to school and work and i try my best to make time for her. I'm not the perfect man and i've been told by her that i'm not the best listener and i understand that. When we where dating for ...

Why is my past coming back to me now when it all happened when I was so young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - K, this is going to get a little personal.. But I have been feeling like my past has come back to haunt me, the last while.. I am a teenager, so I am kind of hormonal, soo I don't know if I am over exaggerating or what? So last night I had ...

Was this teacher's behaviour inappropriate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - I'm sitting in class around everyone, my teacher stands beside and in back of me for about 2 minutes not saying a word. Then she starts touching my hair for a good minute. Very awkward and made me feel uncomfortable. Are they allowed to do this? Sh...

Why havent I found love? I am 23 and still a virgin, I've never even had a real relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - I have reached a point in life where things should happen. as I write this massage, I am 23 years of age, still a virgin and never had any real relationship, yes I have accepted the fact that this is my situation, I might not find love, but most of ...

Can you make somebody love you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Hi, I am confused. I know this girl who I have feelings for. But she has no emotional connection to me. She is not interested in dating me. A friend of mine and I saw the movie Cinema Paradisio, where the main character sits under the window of a ...

Leaving my best friend and my gamer life behind.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - Ok here's the thing. I know this isn't your typical relationship question that you guys get but it's a serious one to me. I'm what most people would consider a 'Hardcore Gamer'. I use to be the guy playing video games for 20 hours a day. Video games ...

She used to talk to guys in the past and knowing this is killing me! How do I forget her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - guys pls help me out..i hav a g/f and we are in a serious relationship from 7 yrs...but recently some incident took place by which she told me everything about her past...i thought that she would not talk or meet with other guys but i was completely ...

Girl I like seems to like me but she has a boyfriend, am I reading too much into this? Is this only a friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - A little background of my situation. I have been working in China for over eight months now and during this period I've not strongly pursued any girls. Most of my friends here are girls and they are simply that believe it or not. There is one g...

Am I crazy for having a dream about my cousin's brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - last night i dreamt that i kissed my cousin brother who is 3 years older than me and already has a girlfriend . the most troubling feeling is that i liked it and we even had sex after that . what do i do, am i crazy or abnormal ?...

I'm starting to think there is no such thing as love; rather it's all just lust with dependency

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I've been single for quite a while now and over the years I've spent a lot of time 'observing' other people in relationships and what not and even browsing on here and seeing how many people are in messed up situations when it comes to 'love'. ...

Are some people not meant to find love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - Are some people not meant to find love, or do they find some way to pigeonhole themselves into a spot where it's really unlikely they'll find someone? Just venting some stuff out, skip if you're not a fan of walls of text. To get down...

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another...

How important is sexual compatibility in relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - How can someone gauge sexual compatibility with someone else? Is communication and experimentation in the bedroom the best way to introduce particular likes and dislikes of each partner? A particular question for female answerers: if a guy told yo...

I want to get custody of my drug addict aunt's children but I don't want to hurt the children in the process, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I have been using this site for a while and always have great advice but I have a tough one here but I hope you can help. Long story short my aunts having another baby. She is a heroin addict and has two kids one is 6 and ...

How do I approach my man's hygiene issues tactfully?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - This is so embarrassing, but I need to find a really tactful way and the right words as to not embarrass my man. His toilet hygeine is horrible!!! There are constantly "skid marks" and not faint mind you, as if he didn't wipe like a kid skid ...

What difference does it make if two people are married or just live together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - Hey! I'm getting married in few months... I'm uber excited of course, but I wonder what difference does it make if two people are married or just live together? We're not religious or anything, but when my bf proposed I of course said yes... it w...

My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take ...

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now and we fist started kissing three weeks ago and making out one week ago. We were in his room one night and making out. Im really new at the making out thing but he was making these noises and then ...

Should I be roomates with my ex boyfriend who is still interested in me, and I kinda like him too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I was in a relationship for four months and then my boyfriend decided to break up in March. There were many reasons, but one was that he felt I was comparing him with my ex. I probably was, but I really wanted to get over my ex (that was another ...

Am I ruining my reputation by dating foreign exchange students? Or am I overthinking things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm a college student who dated a foreign exchange student a couple years ago, and now I'm dating another one. Although my bf and ex have different mutual friends, I'm concerned about my reputation. I don't want people to think I only have non-co...

Good jobs in business that don't involve sitting at a desk all day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I'm a 3rd year business major but I hate sitting at a desk/cubicle. What is a good career path for a business management major with a creative mind? I absolutely love writing, traveling, entertainment, event planning, designing, learning languages, ...