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Archived questions from: October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why is it so difficult to find a really nice and honest man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 39 year old single mom with 2 kids. I've been single for almost 4 years now. Of course my kids mean the whole world to me, but at times I do need someone for intimate moments, to share the good and bad times together, to talk about everything ...

If you make a mistake do you own up to it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hey just a general question. If you make a genuine mistake, and then lie about it, would you say you was bad person? What if you wouldn't get found out, but your conscience preys on you? Would you finally own up, even though you know people woul...

I'm terrified for my friend who is being deployed to Afghanistan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

31 October 2010 (?) - This isn't a relationship question but i feel like i really could do with some help. For the past few months i've been thinking about death, yes death, the reason this came about is because a friend, who's in the army, is being deployed to afgh...

Do I stay with my husband or live with my lover of 8 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - To stay with the man I have been married to for 35 years or to move in with the lover of 8 years. Neither relationship is brilliant but the clock is ticking. Why am I so unsatisfied with my life?...

Has he met someone else or just busy with his studies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey, I am 22 years and an indian. I've been in a relationship with a guy from almost 8 months but we've been friends for about a year. we plan on getting married after 3 years. we are both are still studyin(pg). he has been acting strange lately, ...

Have I saved enough to support myself and my unemployed boyfriend in a new place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone i need help ive been with my partner for 3 and half years hes unemployed n i work 40 hrs a week ive managed to save 4'000 pounds so far n calculated this time next year il have abt 14,000 just need advice if u think thts enough for us ...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm! How can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (M) - Hi. My partner says she has nver had an orgasm, and I would like to know if this could be possible... She has Cerebral Palsy. She has gone through quite a lot of stress. How is it best to relax before sex and is is best to try oral sex and s...

I broke up with my jealous LDR boyfriend. Did I make the right choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - Well... to cut the story short I was in a LDR for 8 months with an American guy who's in the army. We got to know each other through a music site as we had similar taste in music. We eventually got to know each other better via IM, that's when we ...

My emotions are back and forth with my LDR!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 3 months now. We only see each once every two weeks as he lives 150 miles away from me. The problem is I seem to be torn between commitment phobia and separation anxiety, eg on our last date. At first I was totally happ...

He said I look like a school teacher... A good or bad thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a guy said:'You look like u are a school teacher"? Does it mean he means that i look boring or not very exciting?...

Opinions on the minimum and maximum ages to date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I'm a 16, and curious as to your opinion as to what the minimum and maximum age to date would be and why....

I'm terrified to have a child with this man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - I been in a relationship for a year. I broke up with the guy cause he was verbally abusive and talk about my child. He was playing on my phone leaving harassing call. Then he stalks me at night making sure that i'm home. He been stalking me. Anyway ...

Is there any way I could combine my militant attitude to a part time job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

31 October 2010 (F) - hey i would post this problem on dearcupid's sister site careerglove.com, but it looks like the last activity it had was in 2007. anyway heres my dilemma. even though i'm only 16, i've made up my mind in joining the military, i've started fil...

Can 6 inches be satisfying to women who have been with very well-endowed men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - My penis is only about 6 inches long on a good day, but have decent girth at about 5.5-6.0 inches. I need an honest answer from women if you think this is enough to be satisfying if you've been with well endowed men before. I'm older, and ...

Do women view penis size as a sign of worthiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you ...

How to make friends when you can't trust anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - After a big fight in high school, I've never been able to trust anyone aside from my mom. I thought I was great friends with a group of people from high school, but one of them got angry with me for trying to stop a fight between her and another ...

Do I just kiss and say goodby to this man, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hello,im a 46 year old woman on disability, less than $7,00.oo a month, and im in this relationship with a man 66 years old. he shows his love when im with him, i mean the kissing, holding me, telling me how happy he is to have me, but theres 1 ...

I think I'm hanging on to hope here purely because of the 25 years I've known this person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - In January this year an old friend from university came back into my life - we met up for a drink and had a lovely evening together. A week later he called and said he'd love to see me again, but not as a friend. I was really shocked but flattered. ...

Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...

My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - My husband wont talk to me. Every time we have words he will stop speaking to me for months. He comes in from work and goes straight upstairs, makes his own tea, cleans his own plates etc. When i try an talk to his he just swears at me. Theres a lot ...

Daughter in law rules the roost!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Suffering mother in law My daughter in law just wants my son and not me at all. Latest is to day both grandparents present and the 2 grandmothers did the cradle fun ceremony and were ready to leave town. She gave the baby to all 3 grandparents to ...

My friend doesn't seem to want to share "her" friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - So. A few months ago I was at a party and talking to this guy who I had spoken to a few times before. Previously I had never even clocked him as a potential crush but there was just this moment that I realised I liked him. I saw him around a few...

I don't understand why he has stayed when he has no love in his heart for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am in the strangest relationship i have ever been in. This man is married but please no telling me i am a home wrecker because that is not the case here, I have been in this relationship for many years this man doesn't love me but he knows i ...

I feel that I do not want to offer a man anything else apart from sex as this is all that I feel that I require.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Hello Readers, I would like to ask for some advice please and am very appreciative of advice I have had in the past. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney for the last 2 years. To cut to the chase it started off as him being very interested ...

Complicated... a married woman, a dance partner and my love of dance !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - This is COMPLICATED !!! I'm a dancer, I dance on stage as a demonstrator to an instructor teaching others how to dance, I'm very popular because I have a sense of humour and I'm very strong ! (don't consider myself attractive) I am in a position...

The thought of being with other guys literally makes me nauseous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

30 October 2010 (F) - Though my best friends are guys, any other guy in my life has been . I mention these early things because though I take ownership of my bad decisions, things that happened had a profound effect on who I am now. I am sorry it’s so long but it was ...

I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I wonder what it's like to be happy and content with your life, because I haven't had that feeling in ages. I wonder what it's like to have someone who cares about you and loves you. Someone to hold you, wrap their hands around you when you're down. ...

Wife had emotional affair with coworker... how to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 October 2010 (M) - I have been with my wife for seven years. Through a lot of those years i was an alchoholic and addicted to pain pills and she was a "good girl" so to speak. She has always been there for me through all my screw ups... (trust me... i have had some ...

I felt used! Did I do the right thing in breaking off contact?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - This week I told a female friend (I am male) I thought we should stop talking for at least a while. Now I feel a deep hollowness as well as guilt for breaking off contact with someone who has relied upon me. Let me give you a little backstory, and ...

Unresolved questions from my break up, please help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My live-in boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago and while I am better, it's still painful when you trust someone so much and believe in everything they have told you. All I want to know is, why after you have been so close to someone, woken u...

How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose? Without giving him any kind of specific time limit, or making it too obvious that I'm waiting? It would be preferable if he did it on his own. But how long is too long to wait?...

I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ...

Does being on birth control make me a slut?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I am 14 years old and i am on birth control without a bf does that make me a slut or a whore or anything on thoes means ???? ...

Do guys like red heads for anything more than sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - I have naturally long, dark red hair and have never really liked it. Guys seem to like it, and i've been told it's "hot". I'm thinking about dying it dark brown, but i'm not sure whether to or not. Sometimes i think guys are just interested or ...

Devastated after my mother's death. Help me..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - My muother has just passed away and i feel i cant cope any more i just dont know what to do my life has been ripped apart i was so so close to her i dont know what to do any advise please!...

Is it possible for a married man to get his mistress pregnant on purpose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I want to know how married men perceive on this matter. Is it possible for a married man to make their mistress or other woman get pregnant intentionally? Like he wants her to get pregnant?...

Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...

How do I get past my insecurities about my appearance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - Pretty much all my life i've been insecure about my appearance. I'm 5'7 126 pounds with auburn hair and hazel eyes. People have told me i'm attractive sometimes even "stunning". I just can't see it myself, i hate having my photo taken or looking at ...

Is texting your girlfriend's friend behind her back classed as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I need to know if you have been with your partner for a few years,and you find out that hes been texting one of your friends both doing this behind your back but no sexual contact is this classed as cheating?...

How can I stop myself wishing the worst on my ex and his new wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me about a year ago,we had been together two years.I had no idea he was planning to leave me.We had a child together she was around 15 mounths.So me and my daughter had to find somewhere else to live.It was really confusing,and ...

My mother is still killing herself with food

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, I asked a similar question a few months ago and although most of the responses were very helpful, things haven't improved. I'm still very concerned about my mother's health and eating habits, she's very overweight and binges on things...

Just need some advice or encouragement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - I have a beautiful wife and a 2 1/2 year old son. But last year I notice my wife was becoming distant and not very loving(which was very unusual for her). So I confronted he and she proceeded to tell me that she loves me but doesn't feel she's in ...

Mom asked if she made me "vocal"? What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

29 October 2010 (?) - I tried asking this question before but i guess i needed more info. I was in a drive thru with my mom and i was yelling through the window that the resturant across the street was faster.lol. I loudly said the our nieghbor needed to quit putting ...

Is my step dad on drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5142 days ago

29 October 2010 (M) - Okay, I need to know this I suspect it but I gotta know Now here are signs I've seen in my step-dad if you work up for 16hrs then get home around 10p then stay up until 1am and wakes up at 6am every day, so 4-5 hours of sleep a day. doesn't ...

Pregnant to my abusive partner and cant walk away....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - I have been with this man for about 3 years and when I met him I was pregnant but wasn't with the dad because he was kind of immature younger than me and went off to college...but another story....so I moved with him when she was a year old and he ...

After 2 years I feel like we don't get along anymore, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5141 days ago

29 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old, my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. Everything was great, but lately we just don't seem to get along anymore! I do love him, and he says he loves me, but he just won't change a thing about him. In the begi...

I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im n...

We both like each other but are too shy to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - Hi guys, I think this is a tricky question to answer but this guy is interested in me, i know this because he has told me and i have also told him how i feel. I don't know him that well as i met him at college at the start of Sept, the problem is ...

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day sh...

I thought he liked me but he talks to so many other girls. Is he just a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I think I just need a little bit of help with this one. Hope I don't tire you all out while reading this. I met a guy in our accounting class about two months ago, and he took the effort to come up to one of my girlfriends sugg...