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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Should I take my wife back again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - HI, my wife and i been seperated for 4 months now. We had our ups and downs but i still lover her and we have a son together. She submitted the divorce and havent pay for it yet but she met her old boyfriend after 4 weeks when she kicked me out and ...

If a guy doesn't call or text his girlfriend everyday, does that mean he doesn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Is it necc. for me to call my girlfriend everyday just to prove that I love her deeply? I don't like talking on the phone much...I will text, but I don't want to feel obligated to call or text her or anyone else. Why do people put all these rules on ...

Ashamed of telling my boyfriend where I live. Any tips to approach this topic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I have a serious issue. I'm with my bf for more than a year and... he doesn't know where I live. Actually, I don't want him to know. I came for college in an important city, from a small village. My bf lives in the college town. I'm ashamed to t...

How can I stop this bullying before it gets out of hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - my cousins oldest child is showing major signs of being a bully. she has locked my oldest daughter in a car in the heat of the day, she shoves her off a trampoline and pushed her into an unsocialized pittbull. she is 4 yrs old and my kid is 3. she ...

Does she only see me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - Okay, I really need help. I have a female roomate who has lived with me now for the past 2 mos. I had met her earlier this summer, and recently she needed somewhere to live, and I stepped in to help her. Anyhow, her and I get along extremely well, ...

What's the point of a woman being confident if there's always going to be another woman that's better-looking than you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - hey iv just had this question in my head a few days and i just wondered what mabye you guys thought ? whats the point in woman being confident if theres always going to be another girl thats always better looking then you ? theres perfect girls ev...

I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'd like some advice on clothes to wear to a bar. Do you think it would be ok to wear a small black top, black or white jeggings , knee high boots ( i have a black pair and a grey pair ) , and either a bolero jacket or a dressy coat ?. Both of those ...

I feel so desolate and isolated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - hey guys i dont even like posting as i feel im bothering you with my problems but i need someone to talk to as i feel so down. im 35-im stuck in a dead end job-stuck in a debt management programme thanks to my grasping ex who left me in 50k of debt ...

My fiance does sensual massage and I'm having a problem with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I need some help please! I went to a sensual massage therapist and feel in love with her at first sight. Well after a few months, we starting dating and we fell head over heels in love. Well, after 3 months of dating, I told her I was having a ...

Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (M) - I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...

What does "wandering eye" really mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean by "wandering eye"? I've read a few posts here about women who are upset that their boyfriends/husbands are "looking" at other women. I've never read anything about a man who is jealous that his girlfriend/wife "looks" at other men ...

Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't ...

We are eventually getting married why won't he talk about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Why is it a problem for me to mention marriage and/or anything about marriage and/or weddings to my boyfriend? We are not engaged yet, but he says we will be eventually. Why can't I talk about these things with him? This has been my life-long dream: ...

I am friends with my ex boyfriend but he now has a controlling girlfriend what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Past few months I have started talking to my ex again and have become good friends. However, he has a girlfriend and basically, she is not nice and has in the past been very controlling of him and has been possessive. He has mentioned to me that ...

Another Porn Issue

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - Again....another porn issue. My boyfriend (who will be 50 next year) has 1182 snipettes of short porn movies, at least 3 folders of nude 20 somethings for his viewing pleasure and he doesn't understand why I might have an issue with this. I don't ...

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

21 October 2010 (F) - i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...