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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

It seems I'm addicted to love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Why is it that I am love dependent? I realised in my last very long relationship that we had become dependent on each other. That we needed each other and didn't have lives of our own and so I broke it off after three and a half years. I stayed ...

How can I stop overthinking things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

12 October 2010 (?) - Hi, i'm 23 and ever since i can remember i've always been a person who over thinks things. e.g. I always used to be paranoid about what other people thought about me, what i looked like, how i talked etc... Now that i'm older that has kind of faded ...

Should I disclose a past prostitute visit to my girlfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I am in a committed relationship now. However, a few years before, I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I did so because I was feeling depressed, things were looking bleak, and thought I wouldn't be in a relationship. I don't have any desire to ...

I am questioning my husbands commitment and ability to be an adult

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I am questioning my relationship with my husband and his commitment to me. I feela s though his selfishness is getting in the way of our relationship. I have a 7 year old son who my husband has adopted and helped raise and my husband is very close ...

I cant let her marry her cousin, but I am not in the right place for marriage either! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (M) - I need help,serious advice on my situation. I am 22, she is 21. Our society is not like yours , so things are different and complicated. her family wants her to marry her cousin now. She has her option which is she has to marry now,she can marry ...

Is this feeling normal? Do any other girls get this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - im not really worried about what im going to share but i just want some answers lol :) im only 13 and im going to be honest about it, so already any readers will be thinking shes just a kid it dosent matter but i feel im mature enough for a ...

Can't find a job. Advice anyone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - This probably isn't the right place to ask as this isn't relationship related at all, but I thought maybe some of you could give me some advice. I finished college in July and moved in with my boyfriend over a month ago. The whole time while I ...

Together for 3 years and planning on getting married, but I still have not met any of his kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 yrs. We see eachother almost every other day since the first day we started dating. i have 1 son from a previous marriage, and he has 2 sons (living w/ him) from a previous marriage, now age 7 and 13...

Should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I work away on a mine site. I work away from home for 2 weeks at a time. I met this wonderful guy, called 'Matt' about 3 months into my job. He had noticed me as soon as I started and telling my friends he really liked me. I ended up giving him my ...

When is the right time to tell someone you love them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells ...

Help me to understand my bi-sexual boyfriend...What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hi xx Im so confused, i Really do need some help :'( My boyfriend and i have been together 4 years (were 20) and hes recently (last 6 months) come out as being bisexual, and i really want to be okay with it and to understand how he feels and t...

I'm worried my past might come back to haunt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - i am a 24 yrs .typically from a cultural family .i have bitterness in relationship in my past.with many .everyone were a cheater .just made for physical relation .this hurts me a lot .due to my past even some of my fren scolded me .i was helpless .i ...

Did I do the right thing or should I have stayed and tried harder?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - so I've been dating this guy on and off for about 2 yrs now and i left my finance for him . i realized while i was in engaged that i wasn't happy i just thought i was . when in reality my ex bf made me happy he always has .so i ended my 1 month ...

Is he realizing he might be as into me as much as I might be into him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I recently met a guy (J) who at first I wasn't very attracted to but after getting to know him a little better I began to see something in him. My best guy friend (D, who I happen to live with, along with a few other people) has been hanging ...

Are men who watch porn more likely to ogle women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I understand men glance, and I understand men look at attractive women. If the woman is extremely attractive or if she is scantily clad, I understand men will probably want to look a little longer. So, what I am wondering is if my boyfriend wat...

What does he feel for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - Hey, i met this guy, we are friends, he was always helping me, then he introduced me with his mum, dad, mum boyfriend, brother all his family, anyway we have been drinking so much one nite, then he told me how much he likes me and he has been in ...

Why would he think he would be the one for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - hi, i met a guy who im not interested whatsoever, we just talk once in a while. at the begining when i met him, he asked me if i was a virgin. he insisted to know and for some weird reason guys tend to know who is and who isn't (like if its written ...

How can I get over all this and start over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

12 October 2010 (F) - I can't get over everything that happened with my ex. I mean, while we were together we had issues, because of my past he didn't trust me and called me names. He didn't like people knowing of our issues so everyone (in his family and circle of ...