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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Divorced, but can't sell house or move on with my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (?) - I have a dilemma that is not truly a relationship issue, but kinda. I am recently divorced, and am with a new partner who is great and we intend to marry late next year. The only remaining issue with my former marriage is my marital house is on ...

How can 2 guys cause so much confusion???

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7 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone. have posted on here before, and this is a follow on from my last question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-stay-single-and-try-getting-over.html Long story short, 2 guys, Adam and Dave, Dave being most recent ex and Ad...

Seriously???

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - I have been married to my wonderful wife for 10 years, been together 12. We have two kids, and are each other best friends. She is 6 years my senior (not that that matters, really- just sayin'...) Before we met, she worked with a guy 15 years older ...

Did she cheat when we were first starting out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (?) - My girlfriend has had a series of FWB relationships before me. Most of them overlapped considerably. When I started out with her, we were FWB, but it quickly evolved into a serious, committed relationship after a few months. I found out later on ...

I need help making the right choices to be healthy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I have been feeling so sad about how I look and feel about myself. I really want to change my lifestyle by eating right and exercising. I want to get better physically and emotionally. They say that when you eat right and exercise that it makes you ...

How can I convince my husband to stay? Any advice would be great!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - My husband has made a nasty habit out of disappearing for no reason on occasion. He will sometimes call and say: "im on my way home from work" or not call at all, and just not come home. Most of the time he will stay out til very late, but there has ...

Going down on a girl and tasting urine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - Going down on a girl and tasting urine! I'm 22 and every time i go down on my girlfriend i either taste or smell urine, i'm guessing this is pretty normal? But the taste is putting me off deeply, i am struggling to eat her out even though i des...

First time my boyfriend has ever been violent, should I give him a chance if he goes to anger management?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Two days ago, I tried to talk to my boyfriend about his behavior dealing with other girls, not the first time out of 4 years we'd talked about this. I had prepared myself to finally let him go (or at least I thought I had). I did it all in a very ...

I can't take this any more... I'm SO confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - hey guys and girls i am 16 years old and like every other guy my age, i am a lil.... how do u say?... freakin out!!! ok here's the deal i am so confused about my sexual orientation.... it started when i started wanting guys when i was 13 then when ...

I'm ready to give up all together!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - How can I get over sex and men? I hate my body it's so disgusting. I'm a bit fat but working on it, although I'm not overweight, but almost. The problem is I have a disproportioned body, I have big hips, big butt with cellulite and thighs with ...

I need help to know if I'm ready for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hey me and my Boyfriend have been together for about 7months and I don't know if we are ready for 'it'. We have been discussing sex for the past few days and I'm scared. I think I am ready but he really wants to do it because he loves me so much and ...

Why does he want to stay when it is apparent that he is not happy with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married for 17 years and together for 23 years, I am a devoted wife and mother of 2 adult children m y youngest who is a full time student still resides at home. My husband is lying to me, In 2008 he and I went on our firs...

He's an Atheist, I'm not. I love him but we have a few issues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I was raised a Catholic but during my early teen years, I started researching everything I could about religion because life made little sense to me. At 18, I don't go to church, don't practice anything but the belief that there is something more ...

Didn't even say goodbye...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I work as a teacher and there is a substitute teacher who works regularly at my school. I've always thought he was quite nice. We chat occasionally in the staff room and have quite a bit in common-music, movies, love of travel etc. He has even ...

What do you do when your boyfriend has feelings for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. We have had one of the best and strongest relationships that I have ever been in before. We get along great and have really developed a strong bond with each other. A year ago we started ...

My husband's been having an affair for all the 6 years we've known each other!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I met my now husband 6 years ago and he kept asking me to marry him, eventually we got married 3 years ago. about 12 months ago i received a couple of letter at work telling me to ask my husband about his affair, as he did not go out at night or...

I almost raped my girlfiend. HELP!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - ok so me and my girl have talked about sex. i'm ready she's not. i'm happy with that. she's happy with that. right? so then, we're happily making out when i feel i'm starting to lose control. i'm starting to go further automatically. so we stop and ...

Performance anxiety... what is it and how do I fix it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I am in a time of my life where I am so happy. I met a wonderful man back in early July at a time when I just ended a relationship with emotionally unavailable man. My boyfriend is a wonderful man. He makes me feel loved, adored, safe, respected and ...

Bullied out of my job by a colleague! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have to get this out or I'll lose the plot! I've just been bullied out of my job. I am an extremely hard worker i.e. at work early every morning, believe in teamwork, frequently help others with things that aren't part of my job et...

He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, so why has he not finalised his divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Ive been dating a man 2yrs who is married happly married so he he said in the begining.A year into the relationship she had found out he had been telling me he loved me this infromation came from text messages on his phone . They have been ...

I lust after I every girl I meet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - I fall in lust with any girl I meet!! I hate these feelings. It's wrong. I admit I'm desperate. How can I stop these feelings. A typical scenario would be that I say hello to a girl that I find attractive say, at uni, and I talk to her. The only ...

I hate what he was up to but I can't help but feel was a little bit my fault!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - It's a bit of a long story, bear with me. I have no friends nearby to ask advice from :( I'm 28 and have just given up my job and moved 200 miles to stay with my boyfriend.We have been together a year and a half. At the beginning of the relations...

I'm not sure if I want to stay with my husband, but then again I'm not sure if I want to go through a divorce....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Am I being unreasonable or is he? Husband called me a spy and says he doesnt want to be anywhere near me. He wants to divorce me! Why? because I 'smelt a rat' (again),I checked his mobile phone bill to discover he has been texting smutty jokes to a ...

I feel like my life is cursed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hi!! I am a Pakistani muslim girl. My problem is that my life is in turmoils right now. Nothing seems to go right even with my family members. Everyone has their own problems. It started when i got divorced a year back. It was the first marriage...

How can I get over the hurt of my girlfriend cheating on me with two of her ex's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5161 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - hello me and my girlfriend have ben dating for a year now. i love her very much and i know that she loves me too and were in love, but my thing that she cheated on me with two of her exs and yes it hurt me really badly but i just dont know what to ...

Why am I still thinking about my ex when I have a wonderful boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I'm having a serious problem figuring out my feelings and any insight would be appreciated more than you know. I dated this guy for a little less than two years. We were in high school at the time but we swore we were soul mates. We talked about ...

How do I deal with this work situation? My FWB blabbed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I recently had a few sexual experiences with a Dr at our hospital, I am a nurse. We don't talk a lot, although he is pretty flirty when I see him he is still hard to read outside of work, also I told him in the beginning I only wanted "friends with ...

Have I read too much into his body language?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5157 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Was this guy into me as well? A little about myself first. I love Aussie Rules Football, I am an executive on a local football club committee and help run the games of a Saturday for our local club. I also love to talk footy. I joined a footy ...

Should I feel insecure if I'm dating a woman who can beat me up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (M) - I'm not much of a fighter, and I have a question. Should I feel insecure if I happen to meet a gorgeous woman who could beat me in a fight? Is this a strange question, or is it a legitimate concern? Let's say she's a karate expert or somethi...

I am confused about what beauty is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - i was feeling blue so i googled that i don't like myself and i saw someone talking about being depressed so when i saw this website i felt like this could be my escape to express myself; so i decided to sign up so here i am. i have be feeling ...

How do you men folk define love, and do you believe it typically varies from a woman's viewpoint?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - I've heard that when you ask if a man loves you, and he says "yes", nine times out of ten this is the truth. BUT I've also heard that men define love differently. Should I be concerned if my guy has never told me how he defines love? I know it's not ...

Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

7 October 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but afte...