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writes:hi cupid,i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :*i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that he will share his personal life with me. i have noticed that he is always being sweet towards me and taking good care of me when i am at his place as compared to my other cousin especially female ones. now i have another cousin who is very close to me and to Sam as well. i came to know through him that sam is a playboy( but has never play with girl's heart to sleep with them). ever since i hate him because i hate playboys and like i started keeping distance from him although he is always chasing me.sam has never fallen in love with any girl so far. he is a very good looking boy and any girl he would go for, shall surely accept him. but he wants someone completely different.it so happened that he has found that completely different person in me. he has told my close cousin that he is in love with me. he is ready to do anything to make me his. he said once i accept him he will leave that playboy life. he also said to my cousin that he will make me his one day and he will do it. my cousin tell him that its hard for me to accept. he answered :- '' it is exactly that type of girl that i was looking for...beauty with intelligence. i never wanted a girl who would run after any guy. i want a girl who makes guy go crazy for her and who make guy run after her ''. I'm really confused what should i do? i feel like accepting him? but his playboy's life is disturbing me? he is also afraid of telling me about his feelings as he does not know my cousin has already told me. he keeps at winking at me and looking at me fixedly romantically and with eyes full of love. i usually turn away with shyness without showing him. he also held my hand whenever he got that chance and once he has pushed me against the wall jokingly. however once he was closed, very close to me , he was lost and look at my eyes for some minutes and holding me tightly. he was like oh girl make me mine. after wards he said sorry what he has done ( for pushing me towards the wall....). ever since he is always looking at me like he is afraid of re doing the same he has done therefore he is keeping distance.guys i want to know if he truly love me or he has just lust for me?? please advice me what should i do?
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reader, syrop +, writes (31 October 2010):
syrop is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks rabbit for the few tips. i surely going to try it out
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (31 October 2010):
 There has to be a balance when you make a guy chase...you don't want him to burn out and give up. So, you show your interest in little ways. When he's sitting down, touch his arm and smile at him. Give him little compliments to show him he's noticed: that shirt really brings out your arms" or "you have a nice smile." You give the hope that he has a chance with you, which will keep him chasing. Being "hard to get" enhances your value in a man's eyes. It shows that you're far from easy and when in a relationship with him, are not likely to cheat or go off and flirt with another man :) When he finally gets you, you're a hard won prize!
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reader, syrop +, writes (31 October 2010):
syrop is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ bernard.. i did not expect him to do so at that moment. it was totally unexpected. i was seized and i think he should take the first step like black rabbit mention am trying to make him run after me but can that have a negative effect as well?
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reader, followtheblackrabbit +, writes (31 October 2010):
I think he is very infatuated with you. But, infatuation is a scary thing. It's very powerful but it can quickly die since it stems from your ideas of a person, not the reality of them. Since he's a playboy, I suggest you let him keep chasing! Don't make this easy for him at all. The harder you are to get, the more he'll appreciate you. Allow him to spend some time with you and get to know more about you besides that fact that you're "beauty with brains." Develop a friendship and see where you go from there :)
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