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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I miss her so much! Can I try to get her back again? Can't even imagine my life without her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - My girlfriend and I were together for close to five years. About 3 years in, after living together for a year, she broke up with me and decided to move out. She said she'd lost that spark and felt like I was taking her for granted. It comp...

I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - I think he is only with me because of our baby. How can I be sure? He in no way shows that he loves me or even cares about my feelings. When I'm angry at him he never apologises and tries to make out like I'm the bad person. He never wants to spend ...

Wedding Blues: Maid of Honor who cannot dance, no gift bought yet and other disturbances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I'm in a bind. My absolute favorite aunt who is 32 is getting married! I'd love to get her something special. She's a social worker, lives in New York and is down-to-earth :) So I have four problems. She wants me to walk ...

Is it wrong for us to enter into a strictly sexual relationship with each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Dear Cupid, I have been in love with a man I know for 20 years. We are both currently in committed relationships, but the opportunity to have a strictly sexual relationship has come up. Neither one of us want to give up our current relationships, w...

Does anyone have a boyfriend with a super-hot or successful ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Hi, ladies! I've been reading this site forever, and it's inspired me to write a story for a women's media outlet that I hope will help a lot of girls and women. I'm looking for women who have a boyfriend with an amazing, successful, super-hot ...

Sorry, I called out the wrong name during sex, but hey, you should really meet her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Three years ago, my then-boyfriend called out his college sweetheart's name during sex. I was quite surprised, and of course it totally ruined the moment. Sadly, it happened another time since then - same person, same name. I realize one time...

Good websites for dating???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (? - What are some good websites for local online dating that can be used on mobile internet? (I use my cell)...

I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - I'm really missing my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her and realise how good we were for each other. Here's my story. I met my girlfriend at 18, she was quite out of my league but we were at university together and just had an amazing chem...

Does that gesture mean "I love you" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Hello, people. I just wanna ask you something.. Ok, first off, let's make things clear: my boyfriend of 15 months doesn't say "I love you" too often. When he does, he says it with a low voice, he's not used to express his feelings, never ...

I'm so unhappy about the way I look and how my life is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - hello, don't know where to start, before writing my problem, I would like to describe about myself, i am a b.tech graduate , after marriage never worked. I gained weight after giving birth (85kgs) never imagined myself in this shape, i look ugl...

I would love to have a father figure in my life...

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23 October 2010 (M - Hi 30 Years, I have been struggling with some sort of sexual feelings towards older man above 50 yrs. I was sexually abused between the age of 8-13 years by some of youngsters in my family. Some how managed to come out, at my teenage badly need of ...

How do I get my wife to show me affection again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - I just returned from a deployment from iraq. my wife had an affair with another woman. I have forgiven her for the infidelity but now she will not have sex with me. The other woman is now trying to get my wife to leave me by laying these games. ...

I'm really afraid that I will go back to him, which is the last thing I want.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - I was finally able to end very emotionally abusive relationship. I'm not saying it wasn't any of my fault--I still blame myself for being an enabler and not setting any boundaries with him. He stalked me for a while afterwards and while I thin...

Why is he doing this after a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - Thanks in advance for reading! First, some back story-- a year ago, I was in a FWB/ casual dating type situation with this guy, we'll call him X. After about six weeks, I ended things with him, and started a serious relationship with another guy, A, ...

Am I being selfish for wanting to start a family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - My husband and I have been marred for five months. He is in gradschool and I'm work. We dated for 8 years before our wedding. I would like to have a baby but, he don't want one until schools done and he has a good job. That's like in five years. T...

I slept with a prostitue and it wrecked my love and wrecked my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - 4 months ago, the girl I love broke up with me, justifiably, because I hurt her. We had met whilst both studying the same course, and when we got together, she had already been besotted with me for some time. We we're together for about a year, and ...

Is porno all the same to women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - Ok so if a girl finds evidence of her guy using "porn", does it make any difference what kind? like would some swimsuit issues be as bad as an X-rated video? Does the type of content matter? What exactly is porn to you? When people hear the ...

How can I make an income, I'm so tired of being broke!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - My husband has a full time job but we are always broke 3 days after he gets paid. i cant GO to work because he says he cant handle our 3 kids on his own. i also dont have a computer (i am writing this from my phone). i need to find something i can ...

Help me !! I want peace of mind and happiness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5180 days ago

23 October 2010 (M - I am almost 40 now earning well and feeling settled in life after building my career and struggling to get to this comfortable status. Just when I thought my life begins now... the so called hell broke loose. Pre- marriage : I met my wife...

I'm 22 and feel I'm getting old. When do people usually find "the one"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

23 October 2010 (F - hi guys, I'm worried that i wont find the right guy. I'm nearly 22 and i feel like my dating life is nearly over. I would probably like to be settled down by 25 and marrying/kids about 30. Ive got a guy in my life, but he tends to invalidate an...

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