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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

After 5 years into the relationship, and don't know what to do..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 and a half years now. We were only 18 when we started going out. At the beginning i was completely crazy about him. For the last 6 months things have been going a bit strange for me. I really thought i wanted to get ...

Is this relationship salvagable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - My exgirlfriend and I have a long-term, ongoing dysfunctional history and fights. She fights dirtier than anyone I've ever met. After one break up, she said the most nastiest stuff she could think of--making fun of every aspect of my life and my ...

I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...

Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...

What do you make of his behavior??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I like a guy on my uni course and ive been told he likes me too. We've kissed a few times when out with mutual friends and for the last few weeks spoke quite a lot on facebook etc. The last week though ive barley heard from him at all and when ive ...

I love her but this relationship is tormenting me, what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - (Taken from a previous forum I posted in) I love her, she's my best friend too and we've already spoken about a future together, etc. but I'm having doubts now. We probably haven't spent more than 2 days away from each other. When there's t...

We broke up and it's driving me crazy, how do I cope, should I let her be??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - hey everyone . okay so my ldr gf and i broke up , and its killing me . i just wonder if u should really give her a space before i try to get her back . but im worried , what is she gets with some1 else during this time ?!! coz i know some guys are ...

Is there an easy way to tell him I no longer care??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Whats the best way to break it off with someone? I've been with my boyfriend almost two years but I just don't feel the same anymore. Nothing really happened and I still care about him but I don't want to date anymore. I feel so bad and I really ...

Need an answer to a male orgasm question, please help??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hey, recently with my boyfriend I managed to "get his cum stuck in his cock" (his words) and he said it was absolutely amazing. The thing is I have no idea how I did this yet I'd like to do it again so if anyone knows what this is or how I would do ...

Need suggestions on how to control my aggressive behavior??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been married 3 years. It seems tho that e can't get over past mistakes. I love my husband but he tends to keep secrets n when I find out I go ballistic. I can't Handle hurt n the fact that I have never met his son or that he never sp...

I need to decide which one, my feelings are stronger for one of them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I really like this guy. The problem is I'm already going out with someone but this guy is single. My bf is the sweetest guy on the planet but I don't really want to go out with him anymore because I don't love him I love this other guy. My bf is ...

My husband always watches sex videos how can I make him stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone I have a problem.....I am married. Its been two years. Every thing is cool. Even my sex life too. Here comes the problem my husband always sees sex videos.It makes me feel very bad when he watches sex videos. I want to make him stop se...

Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this ...

Should I tell her the truth, or stick it out for this baby and see what happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been fighting a lot. I fell in love with another woman, and was going to leave my wife for her. Then my wife told me she was pregnant. She asked me point blank, "do you want to have this baby with me?" Since I KNOW that I F'd ...

My friend is a lesbian and I'm bi-curious should I sleep with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I have recently made friends with a girl my age. She is a lesbian which isn't something that bothers me. While chatting a few days ago she said that she would really like to sleep with me. She told exactly what she would like to do me. At the time I ...

So torn between two wonderful men

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - So I have noticed that this is a common issue with women: I am torn between two men. For your sake, I will give you a brief intro to both men and then explain the situation. Man #1: We were officially together for a year and 2 months. We had a...

I think I have a burn-out and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - I think I'm having a burn out. I feel very stupid for saying this because I'm a university student and students aren't supposed to burned out. But I really need some help on this one! Am I whining here or is there really something going on? Anyw...

Pregnancy hopes... Am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I want to know... I have been trying to conceive for 4 months... I have followed the ovulation and fertility rules and still no positive, am i doing something wrong... my partner's sperm flows out sometimes... is that the reason? what am i doing ...

How do I get out of and over an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi ALL, I need some help and advice please. I have just come out of an abusive relastionship as in he was messing me around, using me for sex, being unreliable, claiming we were just freinds, stringing me along, and generally being a nasty brute. ...

Does there always have to be an attraction between 2 people for them to have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - When two people have sex, there must be some sort of attraction for them both to do it. Yes you can have one nite stands but something must get you both attracted to each othe even if it is only that? ...

Feel like she's deceiving me and has secret Email account...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (?) - I have had trust issues with my girlfriend ever since I found one of her emails about 9 months ago that showed she was planning to cheat on me earlier in our relationship with one of her ex'es. Ever since I confronted her about it, I have had no ...

I feel it would kill her if she knew the truth.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - Hi, My aunt told me in february that my dad molested her chest and asked if when he gave her a grown up kiss did she have any feelings. As my father has passed away, I cannot question him about it. This was before I was born and my mum had had a mi...

When is abortion the best option?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - Maybe all of you can help me with this. Since the moment I learned of what abortion is, I have always thought it a good thing. A woman has choices, she can spare a life from suffering if she feels she is not ready. I thought it better than givi...

Is there still someone waiting for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5151 days ago

19 October 2010 (F) - first of all, good day to all the readers of dear cupid! just call me chary 17 yrs old. when i was in 2nd year of high school my good image in school becomes bad when my best friend invited me to join their clan and i never thought that this wou...

Ghostly goings on...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - I'm sorry, but this is going to be a long one, but this is something that I'm really confused about and most of you that read this probably will either have no idea what to say or just think I'm crazy. Well I sense ghosts, I was able to repel them, ...

She wants to pick out her engagement ring, but I want it to be a surprise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

19 October 2010 (M) - After years of dating I have decided it is time to take the next step and ask my girlfriend of six years to marry me (many years of school has kept me very occupied). I intend on asking her during or just after the holiday season this year. ...