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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do men like anal sex so much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes. ...

Is he more attached than he let on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hello: My boss is like 44 yrs old. He is very immature.. Well, I have been pulling away from him for some time because of an attraction between us. Needless to say - It went to HR. He asked to stay cordial with me and wanted us to sti...

Men's sex drive!

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31 January 2010 (F) - how high is a mans sex drive after 30? and is it normal if a man older than 30 never got turned on with a previous partner but does with his current partner?...

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and ...

After a flirting/emotional relationship with someone else, am I finally able to relax in my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I had a flirting/emotional relationship with a committee colleague and his wife found out several months ago. She snooped on his phone and found some incriminating texts he hadn't deleted and he told her it was just a game between us. She rang me ...

How do I resolve all of these issues that I have with my dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm don't know how to resolve an ongoing issue with my dad. He and I haven't been that close for many years. He left us just before I started gradeschool and he started a new family. He was a fun guy for me when I was a kid, but then he changed very ...

My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them ...

I sort of like this guy and we kissed while drunk, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - A few months ago I kissed a guy, we were both quite drunk, well really drunk. He goes to my college, and is in a few of my classes. It was really awkward for a while, but it's alright now. Anyway, I didn't know that he had a girlfriend, wh...

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' ...

Period cycles...please clarify for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hi okay this is a question about periods and period cycles. Considering my age i really should know this but honestly i am don't have a clue. Someone asked me a while ago how long is my cycle and i answered 34 days however i got to thinking abou...

Anyone know what could be wrong with my jaw?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - ive not been able to get an appointment at the doctors recently so i wondered if any1 on here could help on giving advice about what they think about my problem.. its more of a health problem so apologies for the wrong context being used on the ...

Health question! Do you know what could be wrong with my knees?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - hey all. this isnt a relationship question but i just wondered if anyone can help me... as i have been trying to get a doctors appointment for over a week now without any luck. with my doctors you can only make an appointment on the morning of the ...

I'm confused! Am I gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Am i gay? I'm 19 and was with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have always looked at girls and been able to openly say 'oh they are hot', and i've kissed girls drunkenly at parties but nothing more. I have fantasized about having sex with a girl and thin...

I really liked him! Did he want me to stay for a reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I really hope im right about this situation. Thing is ive liked this guy for nearly a year and i thought he liked me. But he never really spoke to me much he just mainly stared at me, sometimes he would talk to me normally other times he wouldnt. I ...

Feeling sad about my experiences in high school! Is this a precedent for the rest of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - This is pretty shallow compared to a lot of people's problems, and all the chaos in the world, but it really bugs me after all these years. When I was in high school, I never went to prom. It's not a big deal, but it makes me a little sad becau...

Feeling inexperienced for my age and don't want to end up alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone, Had a rough couple of days and really wanted to ask any advice. I'm 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, still a virgin ... never really held hands with a guy. Only really told two guys I like them, bo...

How do I get over the anger I feel towards my parents?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I just turned 30 and I'm still hurting from anger at my parents, and I'll always struggle with that anger. In my heart of hearts, I feel certain that they didn't want me and that they don't love me. I don't want to have to bear their surname ...

Is true love and romance dead

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - is true love and romance dead ? is it just becoming a myth a dream that can only exist in ones head ? humans are so horrible to each other its truly disgusting.. this world has become so dark it truly makes you think why are you still here! then ...

What's the use in trying to be good enough physically to be noticed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I recalled all of my relationships of the past. I haven't been in just one or two, but a little more than a few. I don't sleep around, and I don't settle for the first thing that comes my way. I feel love, I do not just feel lust. I try to be ...

Three is NOT company...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I ...

I miss him loads all I want is to be his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and this guy had a casual relationship for about a month,but he asked me 4 a serious r.ship a number of times which i said no. We had a big arguement because there was another woman on the scene and i was jealous he wasnt just seeing me.I sai...

Long-distance, is it really worth the wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Long story short- we met a few months before college. Everything seemed perfect, until it was time to leave. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. Finding a good time to visit eachother is rare. Half of the time plans ...

I don't understand my own feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 years and me broke up in Dec, I had started feeling feelings for my boss, Ive been waiting for my boyfriend to do something for ever, he's struggled with a drug addiction, and things just never seem to go right when he does try, ...

Every time I let him come back and get "sucked" back in because I care about him. Help..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 4 years. This is both of our second marriage. He had 2 kids and I had 4 kids from our previous marriages. We now have a 2 yr. daughter together for a total of 7 kids. This man can be loving to me and the ...

It bothers me a lot that he finds nude girls on movies attractive..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Im 23 and have two boys 3 and 8 monts. I just got out of a very bad relationship of 3 years. and now im with a new guy. We ave been together for about 5 months. And he's great, i love him so much and i know he loves me to.But theirs a problem, at ...

I am thinking of coming fwd now the guy who molested me has been convicted of doing it to another.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Anyone with legal knowledge. Advice would help. Here's my situation: This is difficult to share. I am currently 23 years old. I live in Texas. When I was in my early teens, 14 actually, I was participating in a summer track league. We would...

My boyfriend always thinks I'm talking to other guys and thinks I'm tired of him and its p***ing me off so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is the best. He does everything he absolutely can for me. He tells me he loves me everyday. So here's the problem...in his past relationships hes been lied to and cheated on with two of the girls he went out with and they both broke up ...

Should I let things settle and just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've dated bf for 7 years now. I've always had hope in him because after 4 months of dating, I wanted him to be my future husband. After 4 years of solid dating, I started to change my mind/heart. I started to feel that the grass might be greener on ...

He's dating another girl but I like him, is there a chance we could be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - okaii , so this year my brother who is one year younger than me signed up for hockey , and he's playing on the same team with guys my age. then one day i saw this one guy there that i had never seen before , he was really cute . :$ . so the next day ...

Why don't I trust my boyfriend? do I need help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - So, im 18 years old and i started not trusting my boyfriend and getting fishy ever since this: to make a long story short: he gave me his email account/password back in sept to check something. In Dec, i went on his account because i got fi...

Am I obsessed, crazy or just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - four years ago, I dated a guy who I was head over heals about. In other words who I was very obssessed with but not in a crazy way. Just in a weird way that I could never understand. We broke up because of peer pressure. I was a kid and he was more ...

I'm regretting what I did to my sister when we were younger, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played ...

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...

Any romantic ideas for Valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Myself and my girlfriend have been in an online relationship for over a year now, and I decided that this valentines day, I want to do something drastic, and travel to her country and surprise her with something romantic and une...

I keep dreaming of my crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - When i was in high school i had a huge crush on a boy but after i got to know him it just became a he's cute thing. well i have not seen or heard from him in 4 years or even thought about him but he keeps posing up in my dreams. the first time i was ...

Opinions appreciated. What are my chances???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - hi there , i have known my turkish husband since april 2007 , our relationship blossomed and i have been to turkey several times to see him as he has not got visa as he didnt really want to come to england until about a year ago . i know everybody ...

Sometimes a peach can have too much syrup and it doesn't mean the tree is getting too much water.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Well I am in a s*load of trouble over a relationship I had with my boss at work. I handled the whole thing badly and it blew up in my face. I tried to get some advice on this problem the other day but my question wasn't posted because it was d...

In order for them to 'improve' their own life and become strong men, I have to boot them out! Right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (?) - Hi, I'm a 53 year old lady, with 3 kids. Husband and I are divorced and he works away, in another area of the country. My kids are all adults, 2 sons aged 29 and 18, 1 daughter, aged 31. The older 2 kids have 'boomeranged' back to living here with ...

Do cheating men believe their own lies, it's always the wife's fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Do cheating men who abandon their wives and families feel guilty? Feel anything? Responsibility? Do they really believe thier own lies, that somehow it was the wife's fault? "She drove me to it"?, all the while still sleeping with their wife? If ...

Why do men walk out on their families, and essentially erase them from their lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Why do men walk out on their families, no warning, institute zero communication, zero financial support, etc. Blame the wife, even though they have been the unfaithful one and rarely ever sees the children, one day out of the blue daddy just didn't ...

Why do I give guys my number even although I KNOW I'm not interested???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Why do i do this? i am not a flirt im just super friendly always smiling and laughing. now when i meet a guy for the first time maybe over three times i have given out my number even though i knew i wasnt gonna do anything or i was looking for ...

Am I a drama craver???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey, ive been with quite a few guys (i started very early) with my first bf at 10 - we were more just mates with the occasional kiss on the cheek to show off to other mates. i then moved on to this boy who i was seeing for a few weeks and then he ...

My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus...

My babysitter is a hooker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have a 6 month old daughter and I recently had a babysitter who turned out to be a prostitute who was all this time sending naked pictures to men for money and on holidays she would go out to sleep with husbands who she used to work for their ...

I seem to have lost my direction in life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm truly stuck right now. I haven't handled myself well in the last year and I am scared to see how far I can go. I was doing pretty well for myself last year and then met a guy. We broke it off a half year into the relationship and he said and did ...

I can't stop loving her but I am setting myself up to getting hurt over and over again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I am having difficulty in Switching off love?.. I have been in a relationship with my wife for 11 years we were 17 when we started dating and she was pregnant at 18 and gave birth to our son, we only got married 3 years ago. She was my best and...

This is so mixed up... I love her like a sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I'm 48 my girlfriend is 36 and having my baby very soon. She's as sweet a person you could ever hope to meet and I love her a lot . Problem is I love her like a sister. I love another girl who's 22, I've told this girl how I feel and she told ...

Not sure how I feel, do I want the relationship to go on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my BF for almost 6 months. He’s a great guy and I really couldn’t ask for more. He treats me well, he respects me and he’s planning his future with me. I however often get confused. When we first started going out I left him for som...

What does his behaviour mean? Does he miss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for almost 7 months until he broke up with me 3 months ago (via text messaging, very cowardly). He said that he felt like it was more of a friendship than a relationship, but he said it could be because he was moving in a month, ...

My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was ...