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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How can I just be more happy in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - hey there alright well my bf and i almost broke up last night because him and i just havent been getting along lately...like we always fight i dont have much trust for him he says i dont make him happy and he dont treat me like a gf should be treat...

If his siblings are being nice to me, does that mean that my BF is talking to them about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Does a guy talk about you to his siblings if they are being nicer to you? I have both as a friend on Facebook and his sister sends me best friend things even though I met her once. His brother I've hungout with twice he loves hanging out with me and ...

Is this sexual assault? Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Okay so will somebody please help me out here...if a boy is fingering you and you tell him to stop and he doesn't is that sexual assault or something???I really need answers......

How can I bring up the 'separation' conversation with my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - well it has been a few months now and I have seen a lawyer and a counselor I think I am ready to have the seperation chat with my wife of 5 years we have been together for 9. I just wanted to ask how does one approach the other on this? Even though ...

Partner calls me from work but only talks for a second or two and I don't know why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, From Monday- Thursday,the job where my fiance works allows him 3 breaks: 10 am (10 or 15 minutes), 12 pm (Lunch; 30 minutes), and 3 pm (15 minutes). Then on Friday's, he gets off at 11:30 am and his break is at 9:30 am (10 or 15 minut...

It's been over a year since we've spoken, but now we've started talking again. Could we possibly rekindle what we had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - About a year ago, I broke up with this guy I had been dating for about 6 months. I had a lot of reasons, but the main reason I did it was because we were at different parts of our lives. I was in college, and he had not yet finished high school, ...

Have I gone too far being spiteful over my husband's affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have done something really stupid. In a fit of rage over my husband's affair with a work colleague (and very drunk) I sent some emails designed to get her into bother. Although it did achieve that purpose it has also got him into a very precarious ...

Have a rocky relationship with my girlfriend who does heroin and I don't want to lose her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My question is most likely a little to big for this forum... My girlfriend and I love eachother very much. We have been dating for a little over a 3 years. We took a break about a year and a half ago for the summer because we were just getting ...

Verbal Abuse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I left my husband of 30 years due to horrible verbal abuse and always being blamed for any thing that went wrong. I am having such a hard time finding any kind of support groups. I'm trying to take the high road in this seperation and not do ...

Would YOU let your wife strip?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - My wife and I have discussed threesomes, but ultimately said we didn't want to cross that line and risk our relationship; however, it doesn't mean we don't still think about it, from a curiosity standpoint. She mentioned she would like to strip, ...

Is height a problem when it comes to a relationship? Should the man be way taller than the woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 5'5 feet tall and my husband is only about an inch taller than me.whenever i stand next to him i feel like i'm bigger than him! or we are the same height.he's thin too.and im average.So even when posing for photographs,i tend to ...

The boy I love has to have an operation with only a 50% chance of survival, have I just said goodbye to him forever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I`ve been a bit upset and worried, the boy i love has to have an operation on his head and the doctors said that there is a 50% chance he will live and a 50% chance he will die. He is beginning to say goodbye to me and he asked me to marry him. He ...

My girlfriend's younger sister caught me in an awkward situation, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - my girlfriends sister came to visit us on the weekend, she is younger and was playing on the wii so my girlfriend went out for a bit to visit a friend. I was bored so went to bedroom to read for a bit and then I started getting horny and decide...

How do I tell him that I am not slim to save any embarrassment on the night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - i want to tell a man i am meeting soon that i am not slim. what should i say. we are only contacting by phone at the moment. have sent him sum pics and look gud in them but in reality i see myself as much bigger and think he has a rite to know. i am ...

Can someone explain to me what LOVE is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Can someone explain to me what LOVE is? My Mother thinks it is remaining monogamous for 53 years. Till my Father died. I don't know I have had 3 Long lasting relationships in life the latter ending in Marriage. I still don't know what love is...

Should I do this to save my marriage? Or is it blackmail and should I call a lawyer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this March. During the second year of our marriage, his business tanked and he needed money fast. A friend of ours, Jeff, generously offered a full no-interest loan that allowed my husband to save ...

Should he get the DNA test or should I leave the situation alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so my bf and I have been going out for about 10 months, in that time we broke up and got back together. Well i guess during that breakup period or while we were still together(still trying to figure that part out) he met some girl and they were ...

Why not me? Whats wrong with me? Am I really that unattractive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Its either my face, my weight, or my color... I am 23 and I turn 24 this year and I have never had a boyfriend. I tried to join dating sites and I get rejected by every guy that I try to contact. They dont even try to tell me that they arent ...

When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Girls.... When you're with a man you're in lust with, how would you describe the real you, i.e. your real personality, as opposed to the one you show in public?...

Anyone have information on std tests from planned parenthood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - does it cost money to get tested for stds at plan parenthood? also, what do these tests consist of and how long does it take to get results? if I get tested for multiple stds do they cost extra?...

I love him but does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I'm in love with a guy I've known for 3-4 years online, we get on so well but we live in 2 different countries, he is in the US Army and is being deployed to afganistan soon, I'm very worried! What I want to know is should I tell him my feelings? ...

Boyfriend bailed on me and is now on dating site...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost two months. (we are both in our late 30s) A couple of weeks ago he began acting a bit distant when we were apart which made me concerned so I ended up doing some poking around and found out that he did ...

We had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for only 2 weeks and he's been saying he loves me since before we even started dating. He's always been a really good friend of mine and well we had sex the other day...now I seem to be regretting and doubting a lot of ...

Does this happen to anyone else? If so, how do you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Ok. I am in need of some good advice. From both men and women, if possible... My current situation: I am engaged. Living with my fiance. She's the woman I love and adore. I know I will always feel this way for her. It's more of my problem than her...

.....i know what I should do- but why cant I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I really don't know where to start...i met a guy a year back- he has just broken up with his girlfriend at the time..he made me feel good (i am a very pretty girl- he is also good looking- but we connected at a different level), the first guy who i ...