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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Opinions appreciated. What are my chances???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - hi there , i have known my turkish husband since april 2007 , our relationship blossomed and i have been to turkey several times to see him as he has not got visa as he didnt really want to come to england until about a year ago . i know everybody ...

Sometimes a peach can have too much syrup and it doesn't mean the tree is getting too much water.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - Well I am in a s*load of trouble over a relationship I had with my boss at work. I handled the whole thing badly and it blew up in my face. I tried to get some advice on this problem the other day but my question wasn't posted because it was d...

In order for them to 'improve' their own life and become strong men, I have to boot them out! Right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (?) - Hi, I'm a 53 year old lady, with 3 kids. Husband and I are divorced and he works away, in another area of the country. My kids are all adults, 2 sons aged 29 and 18, 1 daughter, aged 31. The older 2 kids have 'boomeranged' back to living here with ...

Do cheating men believe their own lies, it's always the wife's fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Do cheating men who abandon their wives and families feel guilty? Feel anything? Responsibility? Do they really believe thier own lies, that somehow it was the wife's fault? "She drove me to it"?, all the while still sleeping with their wife? If ...

Why do men walk out on their families, and essentially erase them from their lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Why do men walk out on their families, no warning, institute zero communication, zero financial support, etc. Blame the wife, even though they have been the unfaithful one and rarely ever sees the children, one day out of the blue daddy just didn't ...

Why do I give guys my number even although I KNOW I'm not interested???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Why do i do this? i am not a flirt im just super friendly always smiling and laughing. now when i meet a guy for the first time maybe over three times i have given out my number even though i knew i wasnt gonna do anything or i was looking for ...

Am I a drama craver???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hey, ive been with quite a few guys (i started very early) with my first bf at 10 - we were more just mates with the occasional kiss on the cheek to show off to other mates. i then moved on to this boy who i was seeing for a few weeks and then he ...

My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus...

My babysitter is a hooker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I have a 6 month old daughter and I recently had a babysitter who turned out to be a prostitute who was all this time sending naked pictures to men for money and on holidays she would go out to sleep with husbands who she used to work for their ...

I seem to have lost my direction in life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I'm truly stuck right now. I haven't handled myself well in the last year and I am scared to see how far I can go. I was doing pretty well for myself last year and then met a guy. We broke it off a half year into the relationship and he said and did ...

I can't stop loving her but I am setting myself up to getting hurt over and over again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I am having difficulty in Switching off love?.. I have been in a relationship with my wife for 11 years we were 17 when we started dating and she was pregnant at 18 and gave birth to our son, we only got married 3 years ago. She was my best and...

This is so mixed up... I love her like a sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I'm 48 my girlfriend is 36 and having my baby very soon. She's as sweet a person you could ever hope to meet and I love her a lot . Problem is I love her like a sister. I love another girl who's 22, I've told this girl how I feel and she told ...

Not sure how I feel, do I want the relationship to go on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I’ve been with my BF for almost 6 months. He’s a great guy and I really couldn’t ask for more. He treats me well, he respects me and he’s planning his future with me. I however often get confused. When we first started going out I left him for som...

What does his behaviour mean? Does he miss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I dated for almost 7 months until he broke up with me 3 months ago (via text messaging, very cowardly). He said that he felt like it was more of a friendship than a relationship, but he said it could be because he was moving in a month, ...

My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was ...

I'm so insecure in my relationship all of a sudden! How can I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ...