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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I need tips on how to be more confident

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hey Everyone :) i was just wondering if ye guys could help me out :/ i have a little problem, okay here goes.. I need tips on how to be more confident..i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i want to be able to be more socialable :/ i ...

Why am I so hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - I dated a girl on and of for 3 years or so. When we broke up it was always my doing and when we last broke up a year ago, I told myself and her that it would be the last time. We had just moved in together in a new city and the relationship was not ...

I was sexually attacked 2 years ago. Why am I getting nightmares now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I dont really know where about to start as this is a very long problem and been goin on a couple of years. in november 2008 i was sexually abused + was repeatedly abused every week for 18 months. I will not say anything about the attacker as im sc...

My friend thinks she is worthless and lets others put her down. How can I help her love herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - How do you make someone love themselves? I don't suppose you can MAKE them - but maybe some support that would actually help? I have been friends with this girl for going on 11 years now. Her parents were abusive and always talked down on her, and ...

It's so unfair, I should be able to date who I want to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - well hi there it's kind of a long story but anyway here it is I have met a guy after a year he asked me to marry him, we are completely coming from different culture he is christian and I'm Muslim he changed his religion as I can't marry someone ...

I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? ...

Trying to be friendly to my ex but he just acts so rude, no contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - I havent talked to my ex in about 3 weeks after he made out with me (while with his new girlfriend) he asked if we could just be friends and i said no and he said he understood. I tried to keep my distance hoping it would drive him crazy that i...

Is she a woman or a man??? HELP!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - I'm totally confused and I just hope somebody can help me make the right decision. I met this girl at work about three months ago. It was her first week in her new job and we got talking on our break. We hit it off straight away. After a few weeks I ...

Texting affair...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi again, I put the following post on last night but the site seemed to be faulty and it didn't appear for hours. I have had one reply but am wondering if due to the fault it wasn't read by many other people. In case you could offer me help and ...

I don't want to sleep with him and feel used... do you think he's serious about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - for the past 10 months i've been 'getting to know' this bloke. We both fancied each other from the start, but for a couple of reasons couldn't 'date' properly. Still, since all that time ago we have spoken every day, and just got closer and closer. ...

Is this twitching normal???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Is it normal for the area around your vagina and labia to "twitch" every ten or so seconds after coming close to orgasm? I only started masturbating a few years ago and have never orgasmed before. I come relatively close (or so I assume) but my body ...

What music to heal my pain?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can...

My b/f is coming home from Afghanistan, how can I tell him I'm not ready for marriage yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I am in a long distance relationship, with my bf in afghanistan in the military; i'm nervous that when he gets back he's going to propose to me and i'm not ready. while i feel strongly about him, his coming back will signal our first ti...

Humiliation in front of my classmates... was it my fault?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

16 January 2010 (F) - Around a year and a half ago a fairly new teacher started teaching me for my Spanish course. The first few weeks of term were relatively normal, as I came into the school year two weeks late as I was on holiday I had missed some of the syllabus. I ...