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December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)
Big Questions: Help and adviceWhat in the world is this guy doing?
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5443 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
I have absolutely no idea what to think about this guy. This guy is the co-owner of a bistro that is next to my work, a place that I eat at when I work (I started because there's nowhere else to eat over a 30min. break in the area!) I'm 18 and I ...
Lovers or Bestfriends?
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1 answer
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5419 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
hey evrbdy , im writing cause i need help , im deeply in LOVE with my bestfriend and we will call him MIKE , well me and MIKE have been friends for 2 years and he has a baby and the mother of his child we'll call her LIZ doesnt like me , and i do...
Its been a year of unrequited love, now my teacher seems to be deliberately avoiding me?
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21 answers
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5248 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
OKay, I have written on this before, but decided to stay anonymous, some people may recognize the story. I am in year 12 studying A Levels. I am 16 year old girl. I have had feelings for a teacher at my school for a year now. He was my former He...
He told my ex he likes me...
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5442 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
theres a new kid in my school and i really like him, my ex was talking to him and said he liked me, what should i do?...
I love her but her behaviour and mood swings are making me question it all, please help!
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4 answers
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5442 days ago
31 December 2009 (M) -
I need some really good advice. Please... My fiance and I have been engaged for about 6 months. We met one year ago. I realize most people will think that was way too soon to get engaged. It was a little fast but i don't regret it. I love her d...
Would you treat someone differently if they had acne?
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6 answers
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5432 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
Hiyaa. Another question coz I am very self conscious. As you know, I'm 13. Be honest with me. If someone had acne, would you treat them differently, and would you notice they had it? :/ xx...
Leaving for the army! Should I marry him?
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5442 days ago
31 December 2009 (F) -
My boyfriend of about 3 months told me an hour ago that he was leaving for the army in a few hours i dont know what to do he also asked me to marry him but im scared that he will get hurt im 15 and hes 19 anyone know what i should do? ...
He said he wants a divorce over my refusal to have sex without a condom...how can I prove I love him?
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5 answers
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5420 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
I have been with my husband since i was 15. we have been togethor for 5 years. and married for 1 year. we have 2 children. a 3 year old and a 6 month old. we have been through alot together. after a huge fight last year we were able to patch things ...
How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?
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4 answers
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...
Sex w/o condoms safe?
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12 answers
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (M) -
Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...
Is this a good time to make amends?
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3 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
Hi Guys Happy New Year to everyone! My problem is that I confessed feelings I had for a female friend of mine this year, and to cut a very long story short, we haven't spoke since I did so, and basically cut each other out of each others li...
I have developed asthma and want to leave the military sooner than they are taking, any suggestions?
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3 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (M) -
Hello. Is there any one out there that can give me advice? Ive been in the millitary for five years now. I've developed asthma last year. The medical desission is taking to long and now they have me on deploying status. I currently have a temp pro...
My culture does not accept non-virgins, getting married soon, what do I do?
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6 answers
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5443 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
hi all..i am an egyptain 21.5 year old girl..i lost my hymen by my ex boy friend, we were musterbating in bed but suddenly he rapped me and made me lose my hymen :( but my vagina is still tight i guess.. coz we didnt have sex... my problem is ...
I have a crush on one of my teachers, how do I stop the rumors?P
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3 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
i like this teacher at my school.i know it's just a crush and all so i won't sit here and talk about how i'm in love with him. i know nothing will happen between us and nothings happening now.all the kids tease me and i'm scared if i tell my parnets ...
I like my history teacher and cannot concentrate on my classroom studies, what should I do?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
5440 days ago
30 December 2009 (?) -
Hey. I really, really like my history I have liked him since last year. This year I got 38% on my exam this christmas and I have been thinking I got this low because of my feelings for him. I have always been bad at history I have found it really ...
I feel sad, I cry a lot, have low self-esteem, can you help me in some way?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
5438 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
I don’t really know what’s wrong with me, or how to write this. Basically, I’m very unhappy, and I have been for a year now, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve had various issues with self-esteem, sleeping, my mood, confidence, appetite and energy ...
He is sweet but lacks the initiative, does he really care?
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5 answers
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
Which one says the truth about my ex who I recently reconciled with? When I am with him, he doesn't want me to do anything but sit or lie beside him. He stares at me all the time and like to cuddle the whole day. When I am not beside him, he g...
The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!
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3 answers
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5441 days ago
30 December 2009 (M) -
(MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to m...
I'm caught in the middle of a family fight!!! Please, I need your help!!!
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2 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
I am stuck in the middle of three sisters one my Mums side of the family and a bad relationship with my mum and my Dad's sister. I try to be nice to everyone in My family because I hardly see them and when I do I like it to be a good, happy time, ...
More questions than answers...
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1 answer
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5441 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
Over vacation I've been thinking about me and my best friend who I have known for 2 years. I really think our friendship can last through anything. A couple of months ago I told him that I liked him and he still stuck around. sure he hasn't asked me ...
My boyfriend of 13 years talks marriage but still no date set
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3 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
i am 30 years old the mother of 1, 10 year old boy with my boy friend and we are now 13 years in relationship. He really loves me and i trust him and he always talk about married but still not yet decided. can i wait or can i leave him? ...
I don't have any parenting skills and she has a 2 year old...should there be some instant bond or something?
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3 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (M) -
I have met a old flame from school, I havnt seen her in 6years. When we met the same chemistry was still there and we hit it off as though we hadn't stopped seeing each other all those years! She has recently came out of a relationship as have I. ...
Can I tell my family I'm pregnant without disclosing the relationship information?
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4 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
Okay - i am preganant and living with my folks. Most of my family still believe me to be a virgin, they have no idea that i had a boyfriend for a few months a little while ago. This is gonna be hard because they will not exspect it at all - if i was ...
Its complicated...please some objective input?
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9 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (M) -
Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...
I can't get over this jerk!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
I dated a guy for 8 months who moved away in august for another job. we weren't serious and he was very selfish and treated me poorly. i knew deep down i should have dumped him on date two, but i held on because i wanted a boyfriend. stupid, i ...
How 'perfect' should a boyfriend be to consider marriage with him?
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5 answers
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (?) -
I have had about 6 boyfriends(apart from the current one), from the time i was 16 till now (am 31), and of the six, five of them had "defects" i couldnt imagine myslef leaving with. This ranged from low self esteem to violence. I have always dreamt ...
Are these feelings wrong for me to have?
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1 answer
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
i am in love with my boyfried we have been together for over a yr. i was talking to another guy when we hooked up. i recently chatted w/him and i kind of feel like i want to talk more to him. i feel quilty b/c i like i wouldn't mind seeing him again ...
What does it mean when a girl "appreciates" you?
No replies yet: Be the first to answer! 30 December 2009 (M) -
this girl i really like tells me the other day that she appreciates me. what does she really mean? ...
I march to the beat of a dfferent drum...I just don't know where I fit in anymore?
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6 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (?) -
I've always done my own thing in life- marched to the beat of my own drum so to speak. I just feel like the odd one out at times because I have different interests than people my age. I never liked to go to parties or clubs- it’s too crowded, I ...
I have faked it for 10 years...help?
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5442 days ago
30 December 2009 (?) -
i have had sex for 10 years and have never felt any sexual pleasure form it for ten years i have faked it. it hurts becasue my marriage is now over becasue it gets worst everytime, i know i wont feel nothing os i dont get horny. oral sex only gives ...
Can someone tell if you are having an orgasm in the shower?
No replies yet: Be the first to answer! 30 December 2009 (F) -
I Orgasm in the shower at least once a day, most days more than that. I was wondering, I live with a roomate, do you think she knows what I'm doing in the shower? ...
At what age do the majority of people settle down?
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5445 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
At what age do the majority of people settle down at? In a sense of have a relationship that will work and last....
How do I handle this habit of my mothers....she wants whats best for me, but we disagree on what that is...
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2 answers
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5444 days ago
30 December 2009 (F) -
My mom has this strange habit, and I´m curious as to what it means. I´ve never been married and not sure I want to be. I have this childhood friend, and I only think of him as a friend. He´s a good friend and I like him as a person but he is...
What do I do?? I don't wanna hurt him :(?
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5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
ive been chatting to this guy i met on plenty of fish.. hes rings me and we met up and went out last night.. hes really sweet.. he even bought me a christmas present and paid for the movie and everything.. but i think he likes me.. cos ...
What do I do...Nina or Lily?
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5443 days ago
29 December 2009 (M) -
I'll try to make this short. I'm a teenager and I have stupid teenage love problems, but I'd really like some help. There's this girl I was in love with for a few years, Lily, she was my first everything first girlfriend, first kiss, lost my ...
Ladies, was I led on? If so for what?
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2 answers
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5436 days ago
29 December 2009 (M) -
I've known her for 7 years. She's asked me if I have a girlfriend like 3 times, always touches me, hugs me, even kisses. She asked if I missed her, takes my food, laughs at every one of my very stupid jokes. She asked for my number, then ...
My mind wont stop saying why why why...
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1 answer
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5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (M) -
well.. way back in september.. i was introduced to this girl. dam i fell for her quick but she had never been with a guy before so i new i didnt have much of a chance if the other guys didnt. but then we got real close real fast and we started ...
I'm staying for my son basically but I Want to know how to remove myself from this guy?
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1 answer
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5444 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
Dear Cupid, I have only dated my bf for a little over a year. He had previously dated the girl before me for 4 years. 4 months after we started dating we found out I was pregnant and 3 months into pregnancy I started having nightmares about his ex, ...
Nice guy that got away or Sociopathic Player?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
5431 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
Hey Everyone, This is my first time writing here, but it’s the holiday season, and it has been kinda ruined by my ex. So here goes a little background info: My ex and I were first platonic friends to this date we have known each other for 7 y...
He's both great and not so great...do I stay or do I go?
No replies yet: Be the first to answer! 29 December 2009 (F) -
Hi. My new bf is great in some ways but in other ways not so great. i just have to decide whether we are good together or whether its a destructive relationship. First off hes crazy jealous of me and other guys esp my ex, he seems kinda obsessive ...
How do I make up to my gf with actions, not just a simple sorry?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (M) -
I have been in a relationship with my gf for 4 and a half years now. She has gone back to her home country for 2 months and will be returning in February next year. The thing is that she's hurt by my actions and wants me to make it up to her to ...
I like him but am afraid to be his girlfriend...he says he'll wait til I'm ready but he didnt....what do I do?
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3 answers
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5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
me and this guy have liked eachother for almost 7 months but havnt kissed yet but sometimes he holds me and when he walks me home we hold hands, but we havnt kissed because im afraid to cause im almost 15 and he just turned 15 this october but i ...
My husband leaves all family responsibility on me, how can I be happy again?
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3 answers
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5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
i am married now for 2years i was married with two kids i work and he works also, my salary is smaller than his but i pay more bills than he pays and he spends his money in pubs with friends, i feel very bad, i am responsible for all, for my kids...
How should I suggest my girlfriend have her nipples pierced?
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4 answers
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5441 days ago
29 December 2009 (M) -
I think pierced nipples are really sexy and I want my girlfriend to get hers done. How should I bring it up? She was going to get her nose pierced a while back but decided not to because her employers would have frowned on it. We've been together ...
Am I living in a little world of my own? I want to have a baby...
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4 answers
- newest was posted
5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
Hey Cupid, I just need some advice. I will put the picture together for you.. Im 20 years old and am from and living in the UK. My boyfriend who i have been with for just over a year, is in the US Navy and living in california with work. We fly to s...
Confused sub, please help.
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1 answer
- newest was posted
5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
I'm a submissive in a D/s relationship and my Dom actually asked me to marry him yesterday. I love him and naturally said yes, but I'm not sure how it will affect our dynamic. I really enjoy being his sub and don't want to lose the feeling of being ...
What does it mean when someone says this?
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9 answers
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5444 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
..what doess it mean if someone says that they dnt ever want to lose you,and they will never hurt you,and when they say" i love you with all my heart"and when they say"we have a special bond"..and when they say"they will never leave you"...
He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?
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8 answers
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5445 days ago
29 December 2009 (F) -
I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??...
Why am I so untrustworthy?
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3 answers
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5445 days ago
28 December 2009 (F) -
trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll prat...
Can we be good together even though we are so different?
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28 December 2009 (F) -
I've currently been seeing my g/f for nearly 2 months and for once shes always been into me more than i have her, which is completly different for me as normally its the other way round, she isnt my 'type' at all and i worry about the fact our inte...
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