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anonymous
writes: I think pierced nipples are really sexy and I want my girlfriend to get hers done. How should I bring it up? She was going to get her nose pierced a while back but decided not to because her employers would have frowned on it. We've been together four years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Get her a pair of nonpierced rings and then slip them on her nipples or get her to put them on herself. Tell her how totally "hot" she looks wearing them and persuade her to wear them 24/7. If she decides she likes the sensations and the look she will make the decision to have her nipples pierced on her own.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Thanks for your replies. I mentioned it to her casually and she said it sounds sexy. Hot damn!
No, I wouldn't get my nipples pierced, nor would I pressure her, but we've tossed around the idea of my getting a tattoo for a couple of years. I'd say that's more of a commitment than a pierced nipple.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (29 December 2009):
Nose piercing is very different to nipple piercing!!!
You say "hers" does this mean both of them or just one? I think piercings are something that are very much down to the personal taste, and while someone may be ok with having their ears or nose pierced (ie conventional) the majority of women probably would baulk at the the idea of having their nipples pierced.
This should be totally her decision, and you must not pressure her in any way. She must "want" it as much as you do, and for the right reasons, not just to please you.
Would you be prepared to have it done to yourself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): Urgh. but, well... Ask her? Or show her pics of some women with peirced nipples and see if she gets curious enough about them.What if she likes them too? Would you get yours done?
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