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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why am I so untrustworthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll prat...

Can we be good together even though we are so different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I've currently been seeing my g/f for nearly 2 months and for once shes always been into me more than i have her, which is completly different for me as normally its the other way round, she isnt my 'type' at all and i worry about the fact our inte...

What does it mean in HIS eyes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - When a man introduces you to his childhood friends as HIS GIRL...even though we have not talked about a relationship together, but we're moving towards that; what does that mean in his eyes?...

How can one define beauty and how did its pursuit get so destructive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (?) - We largely agree that true beauty comes from within and superficial pulchritude fades with time...However, since young women are constantly being bombarded with images of gorgeous people who relentlessly seek to sell us the promise of looks, ...

What is his deal? I'm very confused about this situation. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - It seems like nothing is ever simple for me when it comes to guys. Last year, this guy and I became acquaintances at school. We sat at the same lunch table and sometimes we would talk to each other. We said hi to each other in the hallways every now ...

Does masterbation cause health problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ...

Secret shopper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi.I was wondering if any of you have heard of a job called secret shopper ?. Is it a genuine job ?. It sounds very interesting but I want to make sure that it's genuine. Has anyone here ever done that kind of work, or known anyone who has done it ...

My sister is embarassed by our mother, can you help our mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i am asking this question on behalf of my Mum because she cannot use a computer. My sister is 32 years old and has disowned my Mum because she is "embarrassing because she is poor". My mum works so hard to make ends meet, bought her first house la...

Raped and having difficulty coping with the what ifs...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - On December 2nd 2009 I was grabbed on my way home and raped by a man I'd never seen before. I went to A and E and got given PEP. They said that if he was positive the chance that I will get it considering I'm taking PEP is less than 5%. I remote ...

Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted...

I'm confused, does he still have feeling for me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so i dated this guy for maybe.....2 months. When we met we had an instant, phenominal conection. Like, its wierd to explain, it was like we had known each other all of our lives. Thing is....is that he's 18 and im 16....legally, we cant date. ...

How bad is it to kiss just a friend?

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28 December 2009 (F) - I like him, and he likes me, but we're not dating. Will our friendship be affected by it? If damage has already been done, any advice on what to do?...

He's making me feel guilty because he pays for me on dates!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year now. in the beginning of the relationship, things were fine. i was in high school and he was in college. neither of us were quite financially sound (hey, we're students), so it...

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years ...

He just doesn't seem that interested...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hey there ok i have been coming here for awhile now and my bf has just been making me so depresset. he is to into his video games i have been trying to set up a day where i can see him and i asked him if he would wanna stay the night tomorrow...

Any insight into these frightening dreams?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi--help? I keep having the strangest of dreams and premonitions. My ex, whom I love very much, dies. It's usually in a skiing accident or a nonspecific vision of him in the hospital. This has been coming and going for some 9 months, and part ...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...

I like her sober, but I don't like the clingy, crazy girl she becomes when drunk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Ok, so I have slept with my friend a few times now... She is cool when she is sober and I like her but when she gets really drunk she gets really crazy and clingy. I dont do clingy! I met her at the pub the other day and she was completely off her ...

How do I overcome all my problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small priva...

Why does my girlfriend talk to her friends but not me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Why is my girlfriend not telling me things? She won't even tell me what is wrong. But she tells all of her friends. What do I do?...

How do I strip for him when I'm so shy about my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year! And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, w...