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Archived questions from: 26 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Flirting but has girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - there is a guy i like who has i girl friend but keeps flirting with me does he like me i like him. help !!!!!!!...

Any advice on leaving?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am 40+ and have been with the same man for 11.5 years. We have had our ups and downs. We have 5 kids between us and the relationship he has with my 19 year old son is terrible. He doesn't live with us any more. Back in the Spring my son acted ...

Christmas Drama...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Need some advice! So my bf had his xwife come with the kids and his parents. We talked about this, he lead me to believe she'd be staying with relatives. He did not invite me for Christmas. Now he wants me to meet everyone next week for new ...

Bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Have been married 3 times. Its always me that is intaga ted the split. I have dated married guys for longer than any of my marriages have lasted. Been alone for 6 months. Someone stayed over last night and I couldn't wait for him to go. This is ...

Is it ok to break ties with my unloving mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Do I have the right not to have contact with my mother, if I feel she is very damaging for me? I had been thru a lot at the last few years, with my kids and marriage, and she can't stop blaming me for everything , what has gone wrong. So now, it ...

Is my ex rebounding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - My Ex and i were together for nearly five years when we met she was married to a guy she met a year prior and married six months later supposedly he cheated on her and she was undecisive to leave him! she asked me to go to a resort with her after ...

I'm unsure what she wants from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm feeling a little down lately. I've recently graduated from university with a degree in I.T. I want to make it perfectly clear that although i don't socialise often with friends, visit clubs and pubs or drink, i'm not a nerd! I'm struggl...

I'm not sure if this is how it is supposed to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I'm just writing to ask for a bit of help on what i should do. The thing is, i have been in a relation ship for 9 months now, but the thing is, it is now starting to make me feel depresed being in this relation ship and i dont no what to do, all ...

Long distance and younger/older relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - A while back, I met this guy online. Since then, we have been talking and we both believe that the relationship we have is real and it's begun to get really hard to cope when we aren't talking. We have a lot in common and what should be considered a ...

Conflicted...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I've been single for almost 3 years now, and it seems all girls ever do is use me. I recently started talking to a girl online, and she's cute and funny, but after just knowing me a day she said she loved me, and I told her I loved her too, which ...

Trapped! How do I get out of this rut?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I get that there are people worse off than me... but it just breaks my heart that i have hopes, dreams, and talents that are going to waste and my life is passing me by because I don´t have the money to fulfill my hopes and dreams. This sounds li...

No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ...

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

What do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I are somewhat of an on and off couple, but thats mainly because of our parents. Anyways we're both 14 and for this christmas he got a me silver heart necklace with a purple gem in it. We had just started goin back out a couple ...

Do women like intelligent men?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Hello, i was wondering, does women like intelligent men? I really love to become a mathematician or a physicist, i mean not the wrong social stereotype of the geek who cant socialize, i mean a guy that is fit + personality + mathematician or physi...

Where did I go wrong with my flirting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I have this problem since high school. When there's a boy who shows interest in me, and I dropped a little hint back as a sign that im interested, things always go south. They stared at me, they tells joke, they smiled at me, waved at me but all of ...

Sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - One of my best friends in the world and I have been sleeping together for a few years now and i am in love with him. He says i am his dream girl and wants to be with me but because of other circumstances (neither one of us drive, he has no job ...

Everything Happens For a Reason - WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am a firm believer that "Everything Happens For a Reason!" The problem is that we don't know the reason! We can drive ourselves mad asking ourselves "WHY?" Why do people touch our lives and then disappear? Why is there so much pain and h...

I am in the friend zone and want to move out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Oh what am i to do? and why do i get myself in these situations? Ive been talking to a girl for a few weeks whom ive known for a while but just started to actually get to know.. i feel theres chemistry there but she has a boyfriend.. one who she ...

How can I get my point across?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - At work there is a guy who constantly texts me, telling me how much he likes me, how pretty I am, etc., but he knows that I am still in high school and 5 years younger. He will not leave me alone even though i have stopped texting him and avoid him ...

Any insight on my horrible life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Im so sick of my life. Everything is so Bleh! UGh! Nothing seems to work out for me.I have to work hard for every tiny lil thing. And it seems as if im cursed and have bad luck because the worst things always happen to me. ANd i can't stand it. Im ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I lied about my past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I have lied to my boyfriend about my sexual past. I did so early in our relationship out of fear of rejection and judgment, but ever since I have felt absolutely terrible. I told him I had only slept with 2 people, but the truth is that I have slept ...