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writes:(MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to me i just think all kinds of dirty things that i shouldn't be thinking about their brother in law. Also i feel really uncomfortable when i sit on the couch and he comes along and he is lying on the couch so close that i could touch everything of his anatomy(okay weird:P). He also doesn't know that i like dudes. And he is with my sister for god sakes! I'm such a freak. So what can i do, to let go of these feelings and move on with my live?
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reader, 1989Guardian +, writes (2 January 2010):
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my feelings for him are there but not as much as it used to be.
I still can't speak with him about real topics. And if he looks at me i sill get the aww feeling.
But when we were celibrating new years i find him rather childish. So i still like him but he isn't dream guy either.
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (2 January 2010):
You could always pretend that you don't approve of him and keep away but that will probably make things worse. Just avoid him for a bit and find yourself a new boyfriend or a hobby that distracts you. In a few months time you will wonder why you even liked him in the first place.
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reader, Artfuldodger  +, writes (30 December 2009):
yes please!
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