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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Is this masochistic dream something to worry about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I just had a really masochistic dream and it's scaring me because I don't know what's going on with me and I don't want to turn into a masochist. Actually, I hardly remember the dream, but I remember quite well the sexually masochistic fantasies I ...

Do men prefer fake over real breasts?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Are fake breasts better than natural, small ones? I mean, I know this has been asked before. But it seems like they are. I've asked many guys and they say "Hey, if it improves her beauty, then it's all good!". And I read this article: http://...

He has a fecal fetish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I need help.. ive been dating this guy who is 28 for about 3mos now, I am a couple years older the problem is he is constantly talking and obsessed with feces and wants to be humilated by this his mis happenings. The main talk is this situation. He ...

I am also worried about my sister's influence on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I am 20 and have recently moved from the country to to work in town.I have accommodation at my place of employment. My older sister works in the same town and stays in a commune. She is going out with a guy from work and introduced my to...

My husband does not look at me 'nice'...What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My husband does not look at me 'nice'...Does not touch me...Does not want to do things with me. No intimacy. He tries, but he just 'cant' keep denying ,that he is not into me... Now I heard, most marriages after 20 years goes steal..Is this true? ...

My boyfriend is becoming abusive...please some constructive advice...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello! I came to tis website beause i really dont know what to do anymore. Im 18, my boyfriends 19.My boyfriend of a year and 3 months was such a great guy, he never cheated on me,never cheats, never flirts with other girls,he treats me like his...

Has she gone of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: Title is Posters Original Title) hii, I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!. i think my girlfriend has gone of me.... she never realy wants to kiss me if i go for a kiss all i get is a sourfaced peck, she never wants to have sex with me, but she...

How would married men handle the consequences if you mislead your other woman, who then becomes vengeful and discloses the affair to your family?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I would like to address this email to men's point of view who somehow cheated on their wife both online affairs and in real situation. Men cheat because there are women who are wiling to cheat with them, these are facts. Most likely women too...

How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive, been in a relationship for 18 years, we have three children. My partner has always flirted with other women even in front of me which has been hurtful but when he kissed a girl in front of me four years ago I told him to leave, he swore it ...

Hes broke and I think hes hiding things from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend mentioned a welcome home party fro his friend this Saturday, and I told him I worked. I then suggested he pick me up from work, and we can go together. He replied with: "Maybe,I'm running low on cash though." He buys things all the damn ...

I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...

Can you stay friends with an abusive ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I was in an abusive relationship (physically and emotionally) for about a year. I was very much in love with him and would make excuses for him, but also did not want to suffer abuse anymore. I learned that he had also abused his other ex's in the ...

Needs a womans opinion to soothe my paranoia about what the girl I like replied with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Right, Where to start, This is mainly for the women to answer, I know not a 100% answer but a females opinion would be appreciated.. I've been talking to this girl, shes 16 and shes really nice, really good heart, not manipulative or anything...Sh...

My question is: why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too ...

The Professor crush, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Well I have a crush on my professor and I'm not sure if he feels the same, or what I should do about it. It started last semester I was in his political science class. Watching him teach with such passion sparked my interest. My feelings grew wh...

Sharing a bed with my girlfriend has become a nightmare. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm having some real problems in bed with my girlfriend, but not in the way you would immediately think. Sharing a bed with her has become a total nightmare, specifically when we stay at her flat. I'm usually awoken at nights when she pulls m...

I thought she was starting to like me, but turns out she had heard about my depression...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - I've been suffering from depression and was seeking help and support from a friend of mine. I have second friend who i have feelings for, but she doesn't feel the same way. She never emails me first, but when I send her friendly stuff every once...

How to overcome insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - how do i overcome insecurity? ...

Will I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ok,(I gotta give some background here) so I was with this guy, lets call him Bob for this, for 8 months. It was absolutely amazing. He changed my life. Literally. He loved me, I loved and still love him. It was a great relationship. We never really ...

How do I overcome my social awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I was wondering what people talk about when they go to a bar. I just got back tonight and a swear I cleared out the place. I had nothing to say. It's weird some nights I am easy going and talkative and other nights I am so shy I can hardly speak. ...

How do I figure out which employee to cut?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - The company I work for needs to down size my office by one position. Since I'm the manager it's up to me to figure out which position can be eliminated and create a strategy for re-directing the work load to the other 4 workers. There are two ...

Is my compulsion to make women orgasm an addiction?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man and I think I'm addicted to making women orgasm. When I'm with a woman I'm intimate with, I just crave making her cum. It really turns me on, but I actually feel almost compelled to do it. I love, LOVE going...