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*ichelle411
writes:i am in love with my boyfried we have been together for over a yr. i was talking to another guy when we hooked up. i recently chatted w/him and i kind of feel like i want to talk more to him. i feel quilty b/c i like i wouldn't mind seeing him again but i know where it will lead to, are theese feelings wrong for me to have? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Either you want to be with your boyfriend or you don't. If you wouldn't mind seeing this other guy, then there must be something wrong with your relationship. If you really loved and wanted to be with him, then you wouldn't want to be with anyone else. Maybe you think this other guy will give you more attention or you like the thrill of a new relationship and aren't ready to settle down. Whatever is making you want to talk to this other guy, try to work on that same area in your current relationship. If you can't be completely happy with him without wondering if the grass is greener on the other side, it's probably best to break up.
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