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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have a question for the guys???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Ok im trying to keep my virginity so is there anything that i could do sexually that guys like to do without having intercoarse?...

He should follow his dream but how do I get over the man I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - He's moving to Germany in September and I have already began detaching myself from our relationship in order to give us a clean break. I love him and rightfully I cannot spend a day without missing him so much it hurts. I cannot go a year without ...

How do I get boys to like me in that way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I'm 14, nearly 15 and I've never even came close to having a boyfriend. Nearly all of my friends have had lots of boyfriends or at least their first kiss. Am I as behind as I feel? How do I get guys to like me in that way? I feel so slow in this ...

His text/phone friendship with his ex torments me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Right so a girl my boyfriend had an on/off thing with before me, is back in contact with my bf, phone/text wise. My bf and I have discussed this and he said he just wants her friendship, nothing else. Now, this is fine, but obviously it's always on ...

Please help...hes married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I need help... I really like this man that is married. And i can tell he likes me too. I have never told this man. Cause i know hes married. And im not the type of person to break up someones home... I think about him all the time. Please help. Do i ...

Fiance' fooled me into thinking the gift was his idea and I found out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Look what I found out.... My Fiance brought me a gift for my birthday last July. It was really cute. It was a Yellow Rose Plant with a Birthday Bear and a Perfume. I loved it. It was a little weird for me thought that he asked me earlier that ...

If a guy says he's been really busy, has he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I met a guy from a dating site. We talked a lot over the span of two weeks. Then I went to go stay with him for the weekend. I even met his friends and family and he bought every meal for me over the weekend. He even told me, before I left, to let ...

I'm so broken, hurt, and confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - So me and my ex have been together for two years on and off were just friends nows but he acts like he wants to be with me the only promblem is that he got a 15year old girl pregant im 18 and he is 20. Its been so hard to deal with because he been ...

I miss my father and scared to confide in my mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I,m a 13 year old girl and my father is in the army, so he is always very busy and he is never around to help me. I am scared of sharing things with my mom. My problem is that we have just shifted to anew place and I hate this place. I don't even ...

Our friend is trying to ruin our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (?) - Need answer quick. My boyfriend and I have a former friend in common, a female, who I believe wanted to date him. She is jealous of our relationship and before I got involved with him, she was highly upset to learn that I wanted to date him. So ...

My b/f expects me to pay 50% of his mortgage with no guanantees for me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I am just new to living with my boyfriend in a house that he owns. Recently while discussing contributions towards household expenses he told me that he expects me to pay half his mortgage and that he is not interested in putting me on the title. He ...

Is love just reciprocated obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - How can you know if what you're feeling is love.... or something else, such as obsession? When you compare the two states, the only real difference seems to be perspective. Is love really just reciprocated obsession?...

Will I know when I am in love, and do they have to love you back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - How do you know you love someone? Do they have to love you back? When you do love them, and it's not reciprocated, is it better to have them out of your life?...

I feel like I'm caught in the middle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm a seventeen-year-old senior in high school. M y question is about peer pressure and judgmental people. Warning: it's a long story. One of my friends "Skye" I have known since freshmen year. We get along and all, but over the past few months, ...

I need to be honest but I'm afraid of destroying our friendship...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - ok, here goes, brutal honesty even though I know you're all going to shoot me down! A few months ago I went on this thing called playstation home on my ps3. its like a socialising platform. you create your avatar (character) and you can chat to ...

I don't feel like I should...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for over a year. I loved him but we were very different and I knew he wasn't right for me so I broke up with him. Pretty soon afterward I met a new guy. He has all the qualities I want in a guy and we have a lot in common. The ...

What did he mean when I asked him about trust and love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - I asked my boyfriend this question (If u closed your eyes and never opened them again could u trust the man/woman u love to lead u?) He replied: Could I? I'm confused please help me understand what he ment. ...

I have strong feelings for my best friend...but now hes dating someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - what would be the best thing to do if i have strong feelings for my best friend but hes started dating someone else and its killing me to stay friends with him help what should i do ??...

The needle trick - does it really work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I dont have any children and i have never been married yet. I am a 22 year old female. The other day my mother had told me about the needle trick that her grandmother taught her.. U take a needle tie it to thread and put it on ur pal...

Are these gifts a little strange?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

17 December 2009 (M) - If I get turned on when my wife wears leggings, and I get her a couple pair of leggings from Victoria's Secret, along with a sleep shirt to wear with each, do you think she might find this kind of strange? Our sex life is not so great, needs ...