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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are some cute and creative gifts to make for your boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - What are some cute and creative gifts you can make/give to your boyfriend for Christmas?...

I'm being bullied at school, what can I do? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I'm really scared of going to school at the moment because im being bullied. Facebook people are calling me things and telling me there's a gang after me. I havent been going to school lately, i will just walk out the door and hide in the wood or ...

I cheated on my girlfriend and cannot stop thinking about the other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I have been happily seeing my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We have never had any problems and she is now 2 months pregnant which is something we are both happy about. However, on a night out at work, i ended up spending most of the night tal...

Does she like me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - So, i like this girl and ive liked her for a while (since late october). But recently like about 2 weeks ago, my good friend said he liked her and he flirts with her a lot and she kinda flirts back with him but not as much as him. And when we have ...

To go or not to go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years, he has two children from a previous marriage. When we first started dating I wasn't sure if I wanted children or marriage. Now I know I do want one (a child) and I would like to get married. I am getting ...

Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Can men be in love but not be into all the kissing n cuddling stuff? I am with a man I love dearly, but he is not one for showing his emotions. When I questioned him about it he replied that the kissing and cuddling isn't really for him but he shows...

Is it a coincidence that he keeps showing up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I seem to have always loved him( even though there are times when I have hated him)We didnt really end in the best way- yet it wasnt the worst. Well I recently decided that Im done with the boys since they ...

Is it me being in an emotionally weak state or just normal because he is the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice re my situation. 9 months ago I split up with my partner of 7 years because he walked out after a series of arguments which I think were mainly caused by him being depressed and at that time he was verbally abusive ...

Should I Let Him Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Okay, me and my boyfriend Jack* have been together for six months, I moved in with him four months ago when he found out my father was abusing me (my father said I could go live with Jack if I never went home again..I was fine with that) Anyway...

How can I best help this relationship grow without putting too much pressure on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Need a guy's opinion - I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful man. We have been dating for a less than a year so we are still learning one another. I just turned 30 and this is, sad to say, my first serious relationship. He has pretty ...

She cheated and I didnt...but she says she doesn't remember the details..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week. We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in Europe there was a guy who showed a lot of interest in her and I didn't ...

How to avoid the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - MOD NOTE: POSTERS ORIGINAL TITLE I am a 38 year old male who just got out of a 9 month physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally abusive relationship with a 34 year old woman. She had two children. At first the relationship was...

Somethings missing from my new relationship...i still long for my old half-lover/half-friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So, I have a friend, a boy, who means a lot to me about 4 years by now. And now when I`m in a relationship, I started to miss him. We were much closer before, and I was always hoping that we will become more then just friends cause he used to give ...

Ideas for our 1 year of dating anniversary...???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I need help quick please! Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and i dont know what to get her. I am writing her a letter but i dontknow what else to give her. I have already given her many stuffed animals before and a necklace, i dont know what to ...

Pregnant and alone again...Should I abort? will I have regrets?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I'm pregnant and very depressed. Its very hard for anyone to understand what I'm going through. I already have a 17 year old son which I raised alone which was damn hard and now I'm pregnant again and I'm alone again. I'm starting all over again ...

Do I forgive him or just move on...I feel gutted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. I moved country to be with him and everything was going great - or so i thought. He never logged onto facebook or msn in front of me and i used to question this. So he did 2 nights ago and i see ...

Do I expect too much from him and this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my current boyfriend for about six months now, and I feel no closer to him now than I did at the beginning. I have been in a serious relationship before of two years, and was cheated on, but our relationship was so strong and even ...

My girlfriend is pregnant but I also have feelings for another...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My relationship with my girlfriend became rocky and it was coming to a stage where i didnt love her anymore and was ready to try to end it with her when my partner told me she was 6 weeks pregnant. After the initial shock I was overjoyed. But 3 ...

He stood me up - how should I act next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I was introduced to a guy 6 weeks ago by mutual friends who said he'd been asking them to set us up for ages but warned me he was really busy with work and may not be free that often (that had been the reason his last girlfiend dumped him). From ...

I'm worried I could end up marrying the wrong person! Should I accept him or let him go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiance a year now, he proposed to me 8mths ago, but since then he's been going off and on. for no reasons he'll start avoiding me later he'll come back and beg me. Last 2 month he came to my house i saw him off, when he got home...

Is the way I'm feeling normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

Is my husband cheating in Iraq???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for almost 7 years now, no children. In the beginning everything was wonderful, I trusted my husband with eveything I had. In my opinion our problems started when he went out with my cousin and a bunch of guys to ...

I feel guilty and can't decide!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...

I told him I love him and now he is backing off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Please someone give me some advice. I have been dating a man for about 6 months now. He has constantly been in my face telling me he loves me and I will be his wife. Well, I didn't say anything to him about this but a really good friend of his was ...

How can I deal with all of this stress and anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - I'm stressing out and don't know how to deal with it. I issues of my own, like finding a job and dealing with a death in my family. But my friends are making me feel stressed- my best friend gets herself into stupid situations and puts the blame on ...

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm 27 weeks pregnant tomorrow and my due date is on the 18 march 2010. Me and my partner were having a bit of trouble round the time I think I fell pregnant and I slept with a different boy on the 17th may and 26th june. I wanted to know if ...

Gift ideas for Christmas with no money to spend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - ok so christmas is around the corner and i dont have any money to buy gifts this year so any gift ideas that is free or cheap for family and boyfriend? Thanks!...

Converting between Christian Religions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - I was born and raised a catholic, recently I've been going to a Christian services and I absolutely love it. My question is it bad that I want to convert and be baptized as a Christian?...

Major problem, that won't go out of my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a major problem. I work for a major national service, at a major location, I don't really want to say more than that though. Recently we took on some college students on work placement, they are there one day a week. Last week was th...