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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend's dad hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I think i need some solid advice here... the story is that at the moment i feel really down. i have spoken to my bf about it but he dosent think that im as depressed as i think i am. as it is at the moment money from my part is really tough. ive ...

He wants to be there for the birth... but what about after???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm really confused me and my ex partner split up four months ago he said he was feeling trapped, without thinking straight I threw him out as we were regulary arguing, I found myself regretting that when he said he was happy and didn't want to come ...

Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream and what it means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) - Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream. So it started out with me sitting with my friends and then a guy came over to sit with us. The guy which we will call um Jerami (fake name for the story). So Jerami and I started talking and that...

Depressed and lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate....

Calling all males, can you tell if a girl likes you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Right. Simple question, more complicated answers I guess. I've read lots of times on here before that men and all males in general are rubbish at noticing signs that a girl likes them. Apparently they have no clue until they're told. I know girls te...

My boyfriend used to mess around with 14 nearly 15 year old girls when he was 23!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Okay so heres the thing, ive had a boyfriend for nearly 2 months, that I REALLY care about okay. So I knew he has a reputation of "getting around", but ive recently found out he went as far as messing with 14 nearly 15 year old girls! his HIGHSCHOOL ...

My bf wants us to move in together....but I'm not ready =[

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. Thanks to whoever reads this and can give me some advice. Well ive just started University and have been in the City for about 2 months. My boyfriend recently moved down also and has his own house share. Well he wants us to move...

Should you live together before you get married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - is it good for fiance and finacee to be living together before they get married....

Can anyone help me? I feel I am being mentally abused by my wife and I don't know where to turn

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I'm lost........... I am a 37yr old male who has been married for 5-1/2 years been with my wife for 8 years. We have a beautiful 2-1/2 year old daughter who is my life and soul. I am stuck in a spot where the only thing right now in life is what ...

Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Happy Holidays to all!! I have a question for everyone out there. Is there anyone out there that went through a divorce and regretted it and got back together and re married? Did it work? Is it possible to put all of the burned bridges behind you? ...

He cheated and got someone else pregnant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 years got someone else pregnant and we have a 2 year old should I stay or go?...

How do I help him recover from his rape

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm currently deployed in Afghanistan and I spoke to my boyfriend yesterday and I could tell there was something seriously wrong so I asked him and he told me he'd been beaten and raped by 3 guys last Saturday. He's been to hospital and reported it ...

Its like we’re in a long distance relationship but we live in the same house!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I’m engaged to a man and we live together. We are planning to get married but I always delay things because I am not 100% sure. I think I love him but we live together and I am noticing habits that I am not sure I can live with. He is already ...

I'm struggling to be honest during relationship counselling because I don't want to hurt her feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I'm in relationship counselling with my girlfriend. We've been to one session. The counsellor is using the Imago method. My girlfriend has very low self-esteem and I think it's partly because I have problems communicating and I often say the wr...

How do you become an Alpha male?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - Alpha males of the great ape species beat up the other males. This is how they become the alpha males. After they've won, they don't worry about getting females. They can chill out and have whatever female they want. There are guys who are con...

I want my man to be a man and have a mind of his own, but I feel it cant happen whilst he still lives with his parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i have to start my question with my story...i'm dating a guy who is 27 and im 26.i'm currently workin and recently moved out of a siblings place to get a place of my own.My boyfriend is in search of a job as he just completed his masters ...

He broke up with me due to the army. Does he still love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - if a guy breaks up with his girlfriend of 4 months cos hes busy with the army, but still really likes her and wants to be with her sometime in the future when he has more freedom, but stayin mates for now well they were really close so will he ...

He says he hit me out of self defense. Should I still even be with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 21. 2 days ago we went to a christmas party. i got very very drunk and apparantly made a fool out of him by the way i was dancing ect..we stayed at my parents and when we got in we were arguing. I went into my room and ...

The sweet and caring guy? Or the attractive smooth guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - So, there was a guy that i was seeing and things were great but because he is attractive and we never discussed about commitments and loyalty. i had some doubts and before we could talk about it, i broke it off! i started to see another guy for ...

I'm with the guy I cheated with, only to have sex with my husband. Is that cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I cheated on ny husband two years ago and now we're separeted.Im now with the guy I cheated on my husband with but this guy doesn't pay attention to me the way my husband did.Six months ago I had sex with my husband and I confessed this to the guy ...

All of a sudden he isn't replying. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - This guy that msged me daily or almost daily seems to have disappeared.We've been on a cpl dates but have mostly talked/txted.All was well - the contact was still steady as ever.I baked him cookies(he asked for em) but have yet to drop em off - it's ...

How can I accept my sexual past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I feel terrible about the number of people I've slept with. I don't feel the need to post the number here because, really, all it is is a moral judgment and I know people will see it differently. I have friends who've slept with more, whatever... ...

Help me deal with this pain...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I didn't meet my first love until I was 23. Now, after 3 years, loss of parents, unemployment, failed pregnancies, and the life that can happen in three years, it's over. I don't know how to deal with this pain. I never knew how much it could hurt. ...

What can I do about his gaming addiction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is seriously addicted to online gaming. I have no problem with gaming. But he will miss work, leave early, go to work late, not eat or sleep for days. And, of course gets angry when someone tries to confront him with his problem. His ...

He suddenly wants to move in together. Why the sudden change in attitude?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years suggested I move in with him. This surprised me because I was convinced we were dating this long because we were not living together - we often stated to each other and to others that we have it made because of this ...

Do you think it's the right time for me to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 16, and out of school.. And I want a baby, I have for a few years now.. I have a steady relationship that I have been in for a little over a year.. I make alot of money, I have a steady job, and I am my own boss, and I also make ALOT of ...

How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...

She wants me to make all the effort. What should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - during band camp she said i didnt see her enough . the problem in this is im sax section so i dont hav much time . she has plenty of time to see me while im working but she says i should go to her. plz give me advice on what to tell her...

I dreamed of a boy I no longer have a crush on. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - What does this dream mean? It starts out Dylan(the guy I used to crush on who's a year older than me) was in my house and I was in the backyard walking to school. I see him and decide sinse my parents aren't home I will just skip school and hang...

How can I re-ignite this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for three years now, and have known her for 7. We got together pretty young (we've liked each other since the age of twelve), and she feels like the spark in our relationship has started to fade. She misses the ...

16 Years later our feelings for each other hasn't changed - but he's married

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Just to let you all know, this is pretty long. And it's not one of those questions where the answer is right there in front of me. So I need some outside sources. There might be some people who have had a similar situation as I am having now. So ...

She assumed my help was a barter for sex and I'm a bit insulted. Should I explain or let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I am a strong swimmer. The other day our sports club went snorkelling at a nearby reef. One of the new club members, a girl, was struggling and I stuck around to help her get the hang of snorkelling and to make sure she didn't end up in danger. She ...

Help!!! What do these dreams mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Ok waht could these dreams mean? Its weird i keep having dreams about me and one of my guy friends going out together. Thing is stuff happens at the start like we kinda ty and hold hands but one of us pulls away and stuff, basically it starts with ...