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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why are guys so interested in breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Why are guys so interested in breasts. I have to live with them and why are they so special. My boyfriend is always talking about them and he even gave them a nickname. I get a little uncomfortable sometimes and at others i love it. I always think ...

Who shall I ask to walk me down the aisle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Im getting married in christmas eve (my birthday) and not many of my family will be attending my dad died when i was 14 and me and some of my family arent really on speaking terms, who shall i ask to walk me down the aisle and will it be a happy day ...

One for the women! Would you ever sleep with your son's friend if he was of legal age?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - If you were an attractive mother and your son had a friend who was 18, very cute, smart, funny and nice, would you sleep with him? Remember it's totally legal because your both 18 or over and he's very cute. Would you do it?...

How do I change my opinion of women and relationships?

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7 December 2009 (M) - I'm 22 and single, I keep thinking about having a girlfriend but always scared to ask a girl out. I thought it was fear of rejection but then I realise that its actually because of bad experiences and from what is happening to other people. Every ...

I still hope one day he will come back to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello Aunts and uncles I am really hoping to get some help because I'm at my wits end. My husband left me three years ago for a younger woman. We had been together since I was 19 and he was 20 and have two children (now aged 24 and 21) and in ...

Is there any hope that she might come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Me and my ex fiancee broke up after over four years. We were engaged for about three years and living together for two. We had some problems, but nothing we could not have fixed. To cut a long story short, somebody popped up on Facebook a few m...

An unclosed book of love.... I need a lady's advice.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I finally worked the courtage to tell her I love her and then I never heard from her ever again. It's like this book has been opened and it won't close. I've let her go but she pops up in my mind every now and then. She's the one that got away, and ...

Could he change his mind and want to see me when he's home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - been with bf since august he wanted carry on relationship while he went in army. his pass out parade soon kept begging me go, we really close and always including me in future plans for next year, also said i really do make him happy then co...

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...

How can I tell if the guy I like is bi, or gay, or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hey I'm a tad confused - i know I'm bi - but at our school people will pretend to be gay, bi, straight for jokes but i cannot tell whether the guy i like is gay or bi or straight. Today i asked him if he was a friend of Dorothy's and he said that he ...

What is the average age people get their first kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - what is the average age people get there first kiss i think theres this social status there such as "go for it perverts?age 12-13'' ''mr. popular age 12,13. ''not losers but not popular 13,14 ''losers 'nerds' 15,16. tell me if im wrong im probably ...

Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Any advice on how to be more appealing to guys? It seems as if guys get bored with me or something. I've never been asked out on a date nor been in a committed relationship. I've heard the key to success is not to sleep with the guy on the first ...

Should I marry him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I made a rash decision to have a baby girl with a man whom I dont love, but he loves me very much. He is 10 years older than me, and at a point in life where he wants to start a family. I don't love him, but I want my daughter to have a family. ...

How will I know if I'm 'in love' with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, i'm really confused. Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year in a half. Weve broken up about 3 times and have gotten back together. We broke up because we werent sure if we wanted to have a long distance relationship bec...

My boyfriend's divorce isn't going through because she shreds the papers and mails them back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hello all. I recently started dating a man who I have cared for deeply for a very long time. When my exboyfriend left me, he was really good to me and let me know that I was worth something, even if my ex didn't think so. We've been friends for...

Why do I feel so guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (?) - I usually always blame myself for things, even if it has nothing to do with me or I can't do anything to have helped the situation. I don't know if this is a self-esteem issue or what, but I've always been this way, even while growing up. My dad was ...

I don't feel like 'oh my god I did it' or anything like that... is something wrong with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I’m 27 and the other week had sex for the first time. I’m not religious so I wasn’t waiting for marriage, I just didn’t find the right guy to sleep with while I was dating…and in the past guys left me because I wouldn’t give in to sex early on in ...

Is this normal? Am I reflecting psychological issues about my absent father onto him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - A few months ago i started seeing a ob-gyn, cause i have problems conceiving etc. this is a man that is old enough to be my father and i'm almost 30. I feel a strong weird connection with this man, on one of my visits i was bummed out when i saw t...

Is it too soon to tell him I love him? How do I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have a few questions about my situation with my bf and love. Should I tell my bf I love him for the first time and if so, how do I go about doing it? How do I know if he truly does love me? Why hasnt he said he loves me yet? My bf who is 25...

How can I be there for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I am in a bit of a messy situation, and I do not know how to handle it. I am in love with a very close male friend. At the moment he is going through some pretty horrible emotional problems at home, with his family, and being the lovely, caring a...

How can I be less reliant on guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have currently met a new guy after a month after splitting with an old one.. however I feel already like were drifting apart. I felt the exact same with my ex as we rushed into it, without no good outcome. This time round I have waited over 2 mo...

I'd like opinions on this gift!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hi all, My girlfriend has been saying that she wants a watch for a while and has said that she would treat herself to one when she gets a better job. She has an interview for a very nice job this friday and i thought if she gets it i can treat he...

Why does he listen to his mates so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my fella for 2 years now, and love him more than anything! it started off great, we were the perfect couple, everyone was jealous... as we saw eachother everyday for a whole year, n still missed eachother when we werent together, my ...