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writes: i have had sex for 10 years and have never felt any sexual pleasure form it for ten years i have faked it. it hurts becasue my marriage is now over becasue it gets worst everytime, i know i wont feel nothing os i dont get horny. oral sex only gives me some form of pleasure for about 2-3 mins then i fell nothing either. its frustrating and i realy dont know what to do i have given up, help me if you can
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all for their advise my problem is not realy solved as yet but i am more educated on the matter. wish me luck
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reader, bitch  +, writes (1 January 2010):
Orgasm through intercourse is not always easy and 80% of women cannot orgasm through intercourse alone. Most need stimulation of clitoris to achieve an orgasm. You are NORMAL and just need more education on how to achieve an orgasm. Do not give up or feel bad about yourself. You can learn how to have an orgasm. It can be a learning process. Don't give up. This is not your fault that you felt you needed to fake it, a lot of women fake it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the responce. i have always been this way ever since i lost my virginity. i have never felt it with anyone at all. i do have a urge for it but as soon as the penis goes in i feel nothing its just like you making a circle with two fingers and then using another to mimic penetration. my mind tends to wonder alot during sex, sometimes to stay wet so i can fake it i close my eyes very tight and think about a porn scene where oral sex is given. when oral sex is done i feel a little sensation rright before i come but right after its gone and if the penis goes in, i still wont feel nothing. its weird i know and i have struggled with this for so many years. i have lost interest in sex becasue i say its a waste of time as honestly i slept with at least 30 men hoping that this time i will feel something so as i result i feel ashame in someways. i lost any sexual connection with my husband becaseu of it and i broke up with him because iof the sexual pressure. i use to be able to fake it right through but now he cant even enter me at all its like my vagina gave up too lol.i think its the guy who took my virginity, it all started with him and the rst after. i have visisted some web sites n i see that i am not the only one, question is, can i be helped........i prayed n stuff, cry too right now this is my last resort. i stumbled on this site by researching my problem. hope this will help you all in helping me somewhat
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for the response however i feel my problem is still not understood.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 December 2009):
 I don't know what this "kermit" guy is all about other than self promotion, but you need to offer additional info about why you are not being satisfied. We will try to offer something more helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Are you happy?
That is the question. If you're not, you'll never get the pleasure you need.
That's all I can say about that. Baldur
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 I think that you might be able to get some information on asexuality. I think that is what your situation sounds like.
I did an interview with an Asexual man who said similar things to what you experienced. His name is David Jay and you can listen to my interview with him for free at
http://www.franktalks.com/radio
Here is the blurb:
David Jay The Asexual of www.asexuality.org/
Original Air Date: 2005
Download this interview in MP3 format here
David Jay is Asexual and started his website to cater to the asexual community. Being asexual means a person who does not experience sexual attraction, and the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) was designed to help asexuals understand how they are different and how to deal with the challenges that asexuals deal with. What are the challenges? What kinds of relationships can asexual people have? Is it possible to be hetro or homosexual, and still be asexual? Can asexuals have children or get married? How are asexuals suppose to manage in a society that is so pre-occupied with sex? The answer to these questions and more on this episode of Frank Talks.
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