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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...

If I didn't have this scar, I'd be a different person! What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a very big problem. I have a boyfriend who loves me infact more than I love him. We've been together a long time infact I'm presently living with him but the problem is that I have a scar on my left leg. Hot water poured on me when I was ...

Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?...

A question about medical school, can anyone help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I finished my 12th this year and I am planning on entering the medical school.. but I am confused between mbbs(doctor)or bds(dentist).. so please tell me the pros and cons thank you!!!...

I am female and I have really hairy arms and have 3 tatoos... specifically male opinions please.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - Hey all, I would like to know the opinions of the males out there if I could please? My question is on the appearance side of things. I have really hairy arms (black hair), what do you guys think of this? I have just waxed them because I am sooo ...

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

How can I avoid being so eager towards him, so ready to "fall in love" and experience all that goes with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hey aunts, I've got guy troubles again. It's nothing too serious, but I find I'm getting a little down about it. I've been sort of seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We go places together, hang out, and sometimes make out. Nothing is o...

I constantly think that other people are better than me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a problem, I think. I can't see myself as special. I only see myself as normal. I know I have a lot of good things about me. I do well at school, I have some artistic talent (in music, writing and drawing/painting), I enjoy good health, and...

4 years of performing 'wifely' duties, yet he's still not ready for marriage, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 10 years now. During the first stages of our relationship it was on again and off again. We had our problems but after a while decided to get serious and move in together. We have been living toge...

He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...

Working Couple with Child Emergency

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - In 2006 towards the end of the year my partner, whilst we were both living together at University, became accidentally pregnant. At first I was overjoyed but she wanted an abortion. After time I persuaded her that we should keep the baby and in ...

How can I let go without feeling like I am putting his kids on the street?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - 30 years old and have been divorced for 2 years now. I have 3 children 12,10,6. I met this guy who is 44 years old and has 4 children 16 year old twin boys, 13 year old boy. He and his 3 children live with me and my children and he treats me like a ...

I feel this is all my fault and I just don't feel the will to carry on. How do I learn to forgive myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hello again. My ex and I have been apart for 5 weeks now after 3 years and a half together. It was a bad breakup and if we both had not assumed that the other wanted it over we might not have ended it. It's been 5 weeks and my sadness is growi...

I think my Dad is having an affair....I found pictures! How do I find out for sure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I think my Dads having an affair, I found pictures on his work phone of a family friend topless, he often goes round to their house as he's best friends with her husband. I dont know what to do because I dont know for definate that he's having an ...

She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...

Complicated situation with me, a friend I have feelings for and her ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - I really could do with some advice on how to handle a very complicated situation. Its a long story so please bare with me. About 18 months ago I met a girl who works in my local pub. Out of the blue she told me she liked me, I liked her too an...

How do I stand with getting a divorce so early into our marriage? How do I manage financially when my husband is so awkward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together 2.5 years, married for 8 months, have an 18 month old child and now expecting our next child, I am 11 weeks pregnant and very much planned/wanted. Our relationship, once the gloss disappeared has been somewha...

Crybaby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 13 years. We have twin 9-yr-olds and my 17-yr-old from my previous marriage. Over the years we have had many fights. His favorite thing to do over the last 3 years during our fights is threaten our marriage being over ...

Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I f...

Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is ...

Is emotional arousal for women the same as porn for men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - okay just wanting some point of views i brought this up in another question and some said it was interesting so here it is exact question: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong ...

Is it enough to love someone, even though you think they are disrespectful? Are people expecting too much of relationships nowadays?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6117 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - My partner of four years recently had an affair, then after much persuasion, decided that he did want to stay with me and make it work. When he was making his mind up I was desperate to have him back, but now he is I'm not so sure. I had ...

We don't see each other that often....how can I talk to him without seeming desperate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hey well i am 19 years old and i really like this guy..but i dont se him often its been weeks since i saw him last..and because of this its very difficult for me talk to him.. Can you tell me some of the ways how to start talkin to a guy like wit...

How can I get a work collegue to be more interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I think I'm a pretty attractive person, and I've never had trouble getting male attention. But I've recently met a man who apparently isn't that shallow. I think he might be mildly interested in me right now, but I don't know how to go from here...

My dream about my English teacher, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi everybody! I'm a girl between 12 and 18.I had a dream 3 weeks ago...in my dream, i had sex and i fell in love with my English Teacher (Woman). This dream was really crazy... I mean, i never had a boyfriend, but i love boys, i flirted in va...

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....

What is the correct amount of hair around ones' pubic area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi this is a really, really embarrassing question, so i'd much prefer females to answer it, Thank you. Ok so I'm a virgin though i have a fabulous boyfriend, he's everything i've ever wanted. I'm old enough legally to have sex now, and i know that ...

Can a partner taking dancing lessons without you affect your relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Can a partner taking dancing lessons without you that requires a partner affect your relationship?...

Why am I attracted to men who are sooo different to me, and not attracted to men who share my values?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I dont get myself. I always go out with and are attracted to guys who end up treating me badly or who are sooo different to me that we just dont work together. But when a guy come along who is very similar I just dont like him more then a friend. ...

Cell phone tracking question...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Does anyone know if there is a way to track a cell phone? (ex. finding out where a person is located at any certain time)I also am hoping someone can answer this... Can my cell phone service provider give me a list of the text messages from her...

I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a cru...

Is it normal that I still visit my friend's grave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - is it normal that I still visit my best friends grave even though hes been gone for 8 years he died of leukemia and my friends say that its not healthy to think about the deacesed, but im happy and talk to him even though he cant hear me I like to ...

I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that ...

These greedy people are taking my boyfriend to the cleaners!! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - In had been friends with my boyfriend for 8 years and together as a couple for 2 years now. when his wife died 10 yrs ago he ran into a woman he had known in highschool she gave him a big long sob story about how her husband abused her and then ...

Will my career drive a wedge between us? How can I prevent that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I'm about to leave college and start a career in journalism and I'm worried about the effect this will have on my relationship with my boyfriend. Due to severe depression in his teens my boyfriend was pulled out of school at 13, so has no ...

I'm dying and having religous/spiritual questions, any insight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - Hello everyone, I am dying. At times I feel have made my peace and am ready to face it whenever it does eventually come, other times I feel sort of scared. You see I was brought up Catholic as a child but as an adult I lived my life being an at...

I'm not deformed or ugly so....how come I've never had a girlfriend? I'm 33yrs old.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - I am 33 years old and have never had a girlfriend before, never had a meaningful conversation with a girl, never flirted before, havent really 'liked' anyone for 11 years, and I don't have ANY friends. It's not like I am deformed or ugly, I just h...

Should I stop sleeping with him until he tells me I'm his girlfriend? Is he not confirming this a normal men's thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for four months now. I want to know if we are going steady because he has never come out and said that I was his girlfriend. His friends wife asured me that there was no one else he was dating. They have been friends for ...

How do you know if your first love was meant to be? - please enlighten me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - this is gonna be quite long so here goes..(sorry!) id just like to know do you ever forget your first love?like,is it real? im 17 but ive been on and off with my first love since i was 11...it only really kinda ended there last week..well so i...

My spirit is breaking, my life has been falling apart, I need advice on coping strategies!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I have been going through a very very difficult period in my life for a long time.Every aspect of my life keeps on falling apart: my career, family life, personal life, social life, my finances, my health. Believe me when I say it...

My first boyfriend ever and I love him so much. He's going away with the army for six months, how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi There I have asked questions here before which has been a lot of help to me. Now im about to face the biggest challange of my life and need as much help as possible to do it Im 24 And i am in a reletionship This is my first relationship. I ...

He has major mood swings, will he come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I would love some advice ...particularly from a male point of view. I have had a fantastic and fun relationship with my boyfriend for three years. We laugh, we connect , we have a great sex life, we have so much in common and we have ...

I love him but nothing is good enough for him. I can't get over him. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 24 years of age and life seems to have come to a stand still...I met a guy through a friend which I ended up dating we were two different kind of people always argued he was never really there. As funny as it may sound I celebrated both my ...

Spent so long building my career I'm lacking in social skills. Looking for tips on speaking to ladies.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - Hello all, I am a single guy and spent the last few years devoted to building my career. Sadly because of it my social life suffered. I am at an age now where I would like to go out and meet a nice girl. (I am really not interested in jo...

How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????...

I value my independance but is it wrong to ask my man for help with minor things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - When i meet the man i am dating i usually present to him that i am independent and i hesitate to ask his help even in minor things. In the rare occassion that i ask him his help for something (something minor) i feel uneasy that i show him that i ...

My boyfriends mum has just been fired how can I help them get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My BF lives with his mom and brother. Both he and his brother go to the university here in our city, and their only financial support is their mom, as their dad was abusive and abandoned them when they were kids. The thing is, his mom has work...

My boyfriend dragged me in the house and forced me to have sex. I don't want him to get in trouble & I'm only 16!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Is it considered rape if it was your boyfriend? A few days ago I was at my bf's house and we started having an argument, mostly because I wanted to wait until I felt comfortable enough to have sex and he was getting annoyed with me. Well I walked o...

Will having sex before marriage kill what we have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - Ok, this may sound weird, I would like to hold off from having sex with my girlfriend till marriage... ok, thats easy right, ill make it trickier, weve been having sex for 9 months. Lets make this even more interesting, were confessed Christians and ...

My relationship is a "War Zone"- he refuses counseling- any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6120 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hi All, I am looking for some advice and guidance because i feel as though my relationship is like a 'warzone'. I have been with my bf for almost 5 yrs and during that time he went through a stressful divorce which has left him bitter (he did n...