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Is emotional arousal for women the same as porn for men?

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Question - (28 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *hatevergirl26 writes:

okay just wanting some point of views i brought this up in another question and some said it was interesting so here it is exact question: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong and i would never do that to my own husband but i just curious on the feeling of this cause ive wondered here it goes: guys look at porn to get aroused they are visual creatures some women (not all and i understand that) are sexually aroused emotionally so in that instance would it be wrong? Like how women will go online in chat rooms, etc...isn't it the male equivalent to looking at porn? just curious what girls and guys think. case ur wondering i only want to be connected with my husband and no one else but porn makes some men wonder what its like to be with that girl is it wrong then for a girl to wonder what it would be like to be with that guy that emotionally arouses her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Well, I think that a woman being emotionally aroused by another man is alot worse than a man watching porn. How would you feel if your husband or boyfriend got that same arousal by being emotionally connected to another women. If you are both not emotionally happy or arsoused by eachother then you have serious problems. Physical is physical and emotional is emotional if there was any common ground then why not incorporate cheating in your relationship while your at it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Well, I think that a woman being emotionally aroused by another man is alot worse than a man watching porn. How would you feel if your husband or boyfriend got that same arousal by being emotionally connected to another women. If you are both not emotionally happy or arsoused by eachother then you have serious problems. Physical is physical and emotional is emotional if there was any common ground then why not incorporate cheating in your relationship while your at it.

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A female reader, whatevergirl26 United States +, writes (28 March 2008):

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whatevergirl26 agony auntjust so everyone knows the question i got this from was a wife chatting on the net and sending provacative pic and hubby doesn't like it.

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