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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Should I tell him my REAL age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey you guys i have a question that i want to ask im 14 soon to be 15 in june and my boyfriend is younger than i am i want to tell himm that im older than him but im way to scared that he might reject me becuse of that. please tell me how should i ...

He's much older than me..will this be a problem?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age....

Dating older men...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm in a crazy relationship, he's 36 and I'm 25 we met about 5 months ago. We've been living together from day 1 so he can get on his feet. He got on his feet has 2 jobs paying the bills and taking care of me and my son. He's a good man but we ...

I like the guy I'm dating a little, but the thing is I actually like my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm going out with a guy that is 6 years older than me. He's 19. I'ma call him LJ. So about 2 week ago we were hanging out with a group of people the whole day and by the end of the day, we were holding hands. Now, we kissed today. The thing is, ...

I want sex more often than my boyfriend, what's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I am looking for some insight into my boyfriend so if you think you can shed some then please do! What I don't understand is how he can really enjoy sex yet not want it very often. He is about 40 years of age, enjoys sex, finds my attractive ...

I am worried I crossed a line and did major damage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I feel bad about the most recent talk I had with my boyfriend and I don't know if I caused irrevocable damage to us. I am 25 my boyfriend is 20 and age has not been an issue until recently (and it isn't really an age thing anyway, just ...

I am feeling drawn towards a much older man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - I really like this man who is much older than me.I am 25, and he is 44, and i am finding it difficult to talk to him about my feelings. We have known each other a couple of years now. At first, i gave him space as he had just come out of a long term ...

Am I over reacting or is the age different too great?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i ...

Is there a problem with the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?...

I think my husband is gay, what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - been with a guy 3 yrs,married for 2,i am 45 and he is 27. most all his girlfriends have cheated on him and he moved from another state to the one i live in. before we got married i complained of not enough sex, a week before we got married at a bar ...

LDR: where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - Just met with a woman for the second time in two months. She's from Russia, I live in Hungary. She has a 9 year old boy, she is 27 and I have a 6 year old girl, I am 40. I like her a lot. We have made love, slept in the same bed. We hold hands to...

Any insight into his abusive behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - Hi Guys! My long time partner and I have been estranged for about a year but still have feelings for each other and have been friends on/off for the last few months. Last week though he really annoyed me and upset me by sending me a nasty ...

Is there a problem dating my former teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - I was wondering what peoples views/opinions were on two people 'dating' that were previously student and teacher. My music teacher (aged 38) from my school and I (aged 19) have been in contact since I left the school over a year ago now and have ...

Should I go out and have my own secret affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5415 days ago

24 January 2010 (M) - OK.. S0 Im glad I found a website to help me out. First I am not a crazy obsessed person.. So at least I don’t think I am. I have been together/Married for 11 Years with my wife. She is 7 years older than I am We have kids. So here is my si...

Is it wrong to date boys in the grade below me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5417 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - Mt friends are mostly guys that are my age but a grade lower than me. Because these are the guys I hang out with all the time, I usually end up liking one of them, but a lot of people say it's wrong to go out with a guy that's a grade lower, even if ...

Older man or younger guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) - I am soon turning 26 and would like to make some stable,serious choices concerning my life. I have been dating an older man aged 54 for 4 years. I was eventually tired of a distant relationship etc and decided to break things off.We split a y...

I'm tired of being ignored. Is there anything I can do or say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

20 January 2010 (F) - Hello, i need some advice. I have been living with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I do love him and he says that he loves me but rarely shows it. There is a 21 year age gap between us though i have never noticed it. My problem is that ...

How old do you have to be before age doesn't matter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

20 January 2010 (M) - How old do you have to be before age doesnt matter? Im 22years old and i really like a girl who is only 17, 5years is a big difference at this age i think, although she doesnt act or look 17, i feel as though we are the same age but i know when we ...

Is it wrong to date a woman 7 years older?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - Anything wrong in dating older women (like seven years older than you)?...

I like a girl who is 5 years older than me, is this strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) - I'm 13 and im new at high school and i know a senior girl there. She's really nice and smiles at me when i see her and she's really pretty. The problem is that i like her. Shes 5 years older than me. Is it strange to feel this way?...

Is my best friend gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - Hi I have a question for the male readers, can you guys please give me your honest opinions? Okay its about this guy friend of mine (Z) that I knew since elementary school. He is 2 years younger than me and I sort of treated him like a kid broth...

Is it wrong to date an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) - hi ijust met this guy he is 46 is it wrong to date someone older then you? and there is this other guy that i really like but he told me to move on what should i do? there is a friend that keeps coming over wanting to have sex how can ...

Why is my husband so lazy when it comes to sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hello My Dear Cupid friends, I been married for 8 1/2 months i'm 29 and he is 48,I wrote about him in a previous post.. I have had some problems with porn with him but he cooled out on it alot.. My husband does not like to kiss and is not affec...

How can I ever let go of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - last weekend me and some friends went to a local lounge and started having a few drinks.... Except for me, I finished a bottle of spirit (I know this because of the bill I later found in my pocket....) I actually should have had alcohol poisonin...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's daughter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 50 and has two children a 14yr boy and 16yrgirl (he rarely sees his boy). my partner's been separated from their mother for 15 years (who is remarried and has another child)- the daughter has him wrapped round her little finger and ...

Am I crazy or is my teacher interested in me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - What does it mean when a former teacher asks you if you're a senior yet? My 9th grade art teacher saw me for the first time since he left the school for another teaching job. He recently came back and When he saw me he seemed happy to see me. anyw...

Will he be locked up for getting me pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

17 January 2010 (F) - I'am 17 and pregnant by my boyfriend who is 23 and i want be 18 until feb.23.2010 this year can he get locked up even if i didnt want him to and my mother know's how old he is and she's okay with the age difference? ...

She never climaxes... and I can't understand why!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never ...

She says dating me is like dating her own nephew!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

16 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been dating for a few weeks now, and everything was good until I told her how old I was compared to her, it really bothers her and she said that it changed how she looks at me, I don't know what to do and she said it's really ...

I am dating a girl two years older and it bothers her

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

15 January 2010 (M) - Well I need help with a situation that me and my girlfriend is having. We been dating not too long ago, I am 15 and she is 17, but she is worry about the age and she said it bothers her alot, I've try many ways to convince her that age doesn't ...

Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

14 January 2010 (M) - I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...

Where can I find older men not interested in a sex based relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Any suggestions?? I am an 18 year old female, but am mostly attracted to men at least around twice my age. This is not a sexual desire for "more experienced" men, in fact sex doesn't really interest me. What I like is the maturity and life experien...

Do you think I should expect to hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5421 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I am a senior in college. At the end of last semester, I asked my teaching assistant out for a drink over email. He responded that he was soon to be going out of town for the holidays but "perhaps" we could arrange to do something once he got back ...

In love with 2 guys at once...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - Six months ago I decided to go into a relationship with guy A. I can honestly say I love him and am inlove with him,he makes me happy. A month ago, I started working as a kitchen manager at a friends pub.. Guy B is a friend as well as my boss, he is ...

Does it sound like our relationship is steady

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

13 January 2010 (M) - I'm in a kind of wierd relationship atm, i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 23 (just turned), we've been fighting over alot of silly things lately and we've had to repair our relationship multiple times recently. first a quick background I met this gir...

He's so in love with me he can't be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

13 January 2010 (F) - I'm almost twenty years old, I've never had a real relationship. The only guy that has shown interest in me my whole life has the unfortunate honor of having a nickname with "Icky" in it. I'm not attracted to him, I'm not sure if he knows it, but I ...

His comments made me wonder "Is he just not that into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - I recently started dating a man who is 11 years older than me, we have known each other for a few years and been friends ever since. He was in a relationship until about 3 months ago and although it was always obvious that we found each other ...

It all seems very positive, but he says he doesn't want a relationship

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12 January 2010 (F) - ok so I have known this guy for more than 5 years and in the past few years after loosing contact have been catching up. He was always a private guy and never really opened up to me, I can understand that as he was hurt sooooo badly in the past. H...

My friends say he is just using me, but he just makes me smile

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5427 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) - First off let me say he has a very good job. Now we met in September and by October he had to be deployed untill this summer. When I was with him I was the happiest girl in the world. I just got out of a bad relationship, my ex was marriend and ...

Help me out here! Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old? ...

He says I'm the best thing that's happened to him. Is he for real?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'd like to know why this man who is 20 years older than me winks at me every time he sees me, and usually when we are alone, and what you think of the rest of the situation ?. I am 25, and he is 45. He is single, and has never been married, and ...

Why do I like older men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

11 January 2010 (F) - Alright here it is. I have always been attracted to older guys. Even when I was little, like four or five I would try to kiss all the adult males (not blood related of course) that were around me. I'm nineteen now going to be twenty and by this age...

Is my fiance fooling around with his baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

10 January 2010 (F) - hey I'm recently dating a guy that is 2 years older than me but while he was in high school with me he had a huge crush on me. we are planning to get married and everything. But a couple of months ago i found out that he has a baby by my extended ...

How can I get over a teacher crush I'll never forget?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

9 January 2010 (F) - I once had a crush. It felt stronger than a crush - it felt more like I was in love. At the time it was wonderful and when I saw him my heart made a jump out of my chest, or when I talked to him he would always be kind and had a wonderfully charming ...

How can I help my friend feel better...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

7 January 2010 (M) - I have this friend that I'm really worried about. She has really deep feelings for this guy. She kinda had a thing for him for a while but since about June she's had really deep feelings for this guy. but he's now got a girlfriend and they both se...

How do I make things right with my husband after I fell in love with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old and started dating my husband when I was 16 years old. We tied the knot when I was 18 years old. Since we have been together, we have only physically been together a total of 9 months due to his deployments. Because of his ...

A crush on my assistant principle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

6 January 2010 (F) - Well, ever since September I met my assistant principal, and ever since then ive been becoming more and more attached to her. My friends think im obsessed with her and a suck up. But the truth is i think i have a crush on her. I dont know though, ...

Is a condom enough to help keep me from getting the virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I've met a guy who told me that he has genital herpes. He takes Valtrex, and hasn't had an outbreak in two years. I do like him but don't know if taking a risk to have sex with him would be worth it. He says he has only gotten outbreaks on his ...

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

A married man has been pressuring me for sex. What do you think he meant by his last comment?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) - I have been friends with a married man who is 29 years older than I. I met him at my work place 3 years ago. I am a nurse married and he is a physician. Anyway, we started to become really close. We started going out, texting, and sending pics ...