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In love with 2 guys at once...what do I do?

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Question - (13 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Six months ago I decided to go into a relationship with guy A. I can honestly say I love him and am inlove with him,he makes me happy. A month ago, I started working as a kitchen manager at a friends pub.. Guy B is a friend as well as my boss, he is 29, single and has a 6yr old daughter whom i adore.guy a is 21. Recently guy b has taken to flirting with me and expressing interest in my relationship. I dont know why but he makes me feel exactly the same as guy a does. happy and inlove... when i am with either i dont think of the other one. last night guy b confessed he has feelings for me. now i am confused. can i love and be inlove with 2 guys at once? what should i do?

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (13 January 2010):

Honeygirl agony auntHun, guy B just wants a fling - free sex at work!! Suggest you either change jobs or tell your boss/guy B to back off!!

You are not in love with guy B - what you are is IN LUST!!

Your choice, either ruin a perfectly good relationship with guy A by fooling around with guy B.

Honeygirlk

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A female reader, Holli'  United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2010):

Holli'  agony auntThe way someone makes you feel, is what causes you to fall inlove with them, they both sound like really nice guys. However your boss should hold the reins on his feelings for you, especally as he knows you are already in a relationship. You love and care for both guys, your love for each may be slightly different, though you get the same feeling from both, it's the way they care and help you let you know what you meen to them and make you feel special that gives you the tingeling. Be true to your boyfriend, so don't change Guy B's (Bestfriend relationship) into the place of Guy A.

Hope this helped.

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