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female
age
36-40,
*emjemjem
writes:Hello, i need some advice. I have been living with my partner for nearly 3 years now. I do love him and he says that he loves me but rarely shows it. There is a 21 year age gap between us though i have never noticed it. My problem is that he keeps ignoring me as he is right now. It used to mortify me in the past. i was close to suicide at one point and felt like i was the most useless thing in the world. Im used to these prolonged periods of silence now but im so tired and bored of them, there never tends to be much reason behind them and they happen even if ive done everything hes asked. I do love him or i wouldn't still be here. Have i wasted 3 years of my youth? Everytime i leave he opens up and makes me feel like the most important person in the world. Is there anything i could do or say?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 January 2010):
No, there isn't. Measure the man in your life by his actions, not his words. He's telling you he loves you, but he never shows it. The only time he shows it is to keep you on a leash when you're about to leave. You sound more like a slave than a girlfriend. You've done everything he's asked? Well what about you. He's done nothing for you. Don't be with a man who doesn't show you he loves you. Because it means he doesn't.
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reader, princesspeach92  +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Well I would tal to him about it and see if he changes and stops ignoring you. If he don't change, I ould leave because you don't deserve to be ignored.
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