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Is there a problem with the age difference?

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Question - (24 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2010)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hey people. ah i'm really young like 13 turning 14 and i'm dating a 18 year old. is there a problem?

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A female reader, rippedwings United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2010):

Hiya Mate :) I'm also a thirteen year old girl daing an older lad. As long as he isn't with you just for sex then its okay. Age isn't that bad as long as you abide the laws and wait until your 16. But if he wants to go further with you and pressures you, then dump him. He's no good xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010):

well hon i would say that the law frowns

on such behavior if you continue the boy will

end up in jail an on megan's law list as a

sex criminal my advice is to stop all sexual

activity an hanging with older guys until you

graduate high school

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A female reader, MissFixIt United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2010):

MissFixIt agony auntHi

This all depends on how advanced the relationship is, obviously you are too young to be having sex but if the relationship is purely non physical (at least until you are old enough) then I don't see a problem, after all just think when you are 20 he will be 24, the age gap doesnt seem too bad then!

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A female reader, SeXylOvE12 United States +, writes (24 January 2010):

SeXylOvE12 agony auntThat is quite an age difference. I don't know about where you live, but in the US that's illegal, so make sure your parents are okay with it. I don't think it's a good idea that you're with him, but i can't tell you what is right or wrong. Make sure he isn't pressuring you! Boys around that age have very high sex drives and make sure than he isn't pushing you to do anything that you don't want to do. If he doesn't respect you in that way then say goodbye and stick to less experieced guys your age.

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