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Where can I find older men not interested in a sex based relationship?

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Question - (13 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *hadowfox writes:

Any suggestions?? I am an 18 year old female, but am mostly attracted to men at least around twice my age. This is not a sexual desire for "more experienced" men, in fact sex doesn't really interest me. What I like is the maturity and life experience.

My question is where to find older men interested in a genuine and non-sexually-based relationship (pref. online, and free only- im not paying for dating sites)???

any answers would be greatly appreciated,

thanks

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A female reader, chick989 United Kingdom +, writes (15 January 2010):

i'm an 18 year old girl and have a 50 year old boyfriend, i see what you mean about the whole maturity thing - part of the reason i go for older guys.

luckily for me we fell in love at first sight and our relationship is not based on sex, i feel really lucky that he's not just your typical guy, when we do get physical he usually makes love to me (my first experience where it's not just sex).

guys don't go off of sex as they get older it's an individual thing.

like myself, it doesn't come when you are looking for it but when you least expect

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

You realise that men only get that life experience because they dated women, such as yourself, when they were younger, right?

Besides, don't count out every single younger guy. If you keep seeing immature younger men, you're looking in the wrong places.

And by judging men solely on age, you are the immature one.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (14 January 2010):

hi

as we are both in oz pm me and i will tell you

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (14 January 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony auntummm maybe you should be looking into a retirement comunity, u want a sexless relationship with a man wow, women never cease to amaze me. ok do you realize its kinda hard to walk around with a penis between your legs and not want sex, its not there for nothing though it gets in the way sometimes zippers are its worst enemy,

They need to plant more trees down under the oxygen level seems low, but man this was great for a laugh after the days headlines this is what you need thanks kid.

ok you no maybe i should take you more serious maybe its possible to find what your seeking, but think theres more to this story then your saying, i could be wrong here but sound like some body has been hurt.

Your young girl with many years left to go you need to learn about having a happy healthy relation ship theres no need to abandon your basic natural sexual wants because of one bad apple. lol and at your age its not like you could go very long with out it.

Nice name by the way, You should join dearcupid im sure you have some interesting things to say.

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A male reader, Noman Fayez Bangladesh +, writes (14 January 2010):

You have a different thinking but there some questions remains. An older man does not have any desire for sex, this is not true. Yes, maturity and life experience is very good. The word experience, represents the sex experience too. No need to pay for dating site but you can use a free-access social networking website. You are asking for a genuine and non-sexually-based relationship, it is tough to find, but possible.

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