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writes:ok...well i just started talking to this guy and hes so sweet and i feel like we have been connecting but then i realized hes 27 and im 19. is there too much of an age difference or am i just overreacting? please help...just say its fine or i shouldnt get involved. Reply to this Question
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reader, Kassi (Nova)  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 I used to think that an age difference like that was a big deal. Now I'm married to a man 12 years my senior, and I couldn't be happier. First off, you're 19, so there aren't any laws at risk of being broken. Legally, you're an adult- albeit a new one- so considering yourself to be an adult can be pretty weird.Ontop of that, I think the first time you are in a relationship that has an age gap that big, it seems really weird. But you'll soon discover that it really isn't that big a deal, not really that big a difference, and you won't even think about it. You'll be too busy being happy, if you discover that the relationship is worth being in.
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 I'm 17, my ex is 23, the one before that was 26 and i was 16 and my current bf is 29 which is just slightly too old for me but you can't help who you fall for :) It's not the age that matters, but how you feel and how they are as a person
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (25 January 2010):
 I think its fine... Its not age that counts its your feelings
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 January 2010):
I think it's fine, as long as he treats you with respect and care and love.
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reader, whoathere +, writes (25 January 2010):
In my opinion I think he's too old for you. I need someone that i can connect with and I think that much of an age difference is a little much, but that's just my opinion.
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