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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's double my age! Will people judge because of this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Okay well I'm 19, my boyfriend is 38. We've been together since August and I love him a lot. He says he feels the same way and we can really see ourselves being with each other for a long time. I never really cared about what people thought but ...

Pregnant by an older abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend has been putting hands on me for while and gets outta control when we get into arguements sometimes. I am 20 and he is 20 years older than me. He always says the things I do causes him to do what he does. I really started thinking ...

Help! I only like older women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I an 17 and i consider my self mature enough for a real relationship i am a up and coming body builder i look ok and girls like me but i dont like girls i like women i like mature women i always have i have been through the high school drama and ...

I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i ...

Is it wrong to want a guy who is 8 years older than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - If I'm 19 and wanted to talk to this guy whos 27 is that bad? I'm not saying I want to be his wife or girlfriend, I'm just talk or maybe have sex. Nothing more. Is the gap between use bad? He knows how old I am and I've known him for 5 months. ...

Should I consider him mature enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm 19 years old. My boyfriend is 17. He has certainly surprised me by his maturity so far, but i'm afraid i... could be depriving him of his youth. Somehow i feel old...very old. I'm just wondering if it will work out...if i'm n...

3 years, no sex, what do I mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I am in a three year long relationship with a man who is 17 years older than me. I am in my mid twenties. We live together and I do all the house work (he helps with cleaning) and I do all the cooking. I run this man baths, I massage him, I shave ...

Hooked on these great feelings of desire.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I am a married woman having a emotional affair with a single man 8 years younger than me. I met him on a social network. I told him in the beginning I was not leaving my husband cause he loves me. However, I have grown to really like him and think ...

Is he just that into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Okay so i am 13 and just broke up with a guy that truely was head over heels for me. I have known this other guy for like a year we get to see each other often. Hes 14..soon too be 15. I like him so much!!!!:) He broke up with his gf he had seen for ...

He called it quits after 11 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I'm 57 and he is 61. We were together for 11 years, but didn't live together. We were both married twice before, I have a 21 year old daughter he has no children. He was so very good to me and my daughter, generous financially, but being a alcoholic ...

If my Mum found out she would go mad at my flirty texting sister.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I really need help really really fast. okay my sister is texting this guy on facebook and they hardly know each other. he's way too young for her and she's way too old! She flirts with everyone guy. I'm so ashamed of her. If mum found out she woul...

Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...

He is everything I've ever wanted in a man, but can I take this chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I am a 35 year old single mother of one 8 year old girl. I was with her father for 13 years before he decided to leave. He is still in her life but we do not get along due to his verbal abuse and disrespect. it took me a while to trust men again bu...

I may be in love with my stepdaughter...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean ...

Is it bad that a 14 year old is dating an almost 13 year old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

23 December 2010 (F) - please dont be rude about this. i have a boyfriend and he was born in 1998 and i was born in 1996. so hes 12 and im 14 :/ well he turns 13 in febuary but a few months later i'll be driving (permit). is this bad? then his class figured out we were ...

Would society think our relationship is wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

23 December 2010 (?) - i know that this may sound wrong okay but here goes. i am 16 he is 27 we are in love okay and i no that may sound naive but we have been in a strong relationship for about 8 months i am almost 17. well we have a lot of respect for each other a...

Help...i can't get a woman out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

21 December 2010 (M) - On a chance meeting I briefly chatted with a woman younger than myself. I'm 15 years her senior. She's 30 and has a young child. Amazingly I was instantly attracted to her, and now I cannot get this woman out of my mind. I cannot become involved ...

So why would he keep the ring she bought for herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

21 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone.. I just have a simple question but rather confusing to me. I dont know if I should call him my boyfriend or just some guy i'm with. His 12 years older but I love him to bits and have loved him now for almost 4 years. A while ago I ...

What do I do when my teacher flirts with me???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I know this might sound like reeally really wrong, cuz it kinda is, but i kinda have this massive , lustful, crush for one of my teachers, and another reason why its wrong is that theres quite a big age gap, hes 29 n im 16.... He flirts with almost ...

Could a relationship and sex with a much younger man be a good experience for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I am 42 and I have only been attracting younger men lately. The youngest recently was 24. I told him that’s way too young for me (only 6 years older than my oldest son) but he keeps trying to tell me why it could work between us. Not buying it. He ...

How do I wean myself off him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

18 December 2010 (F) - How can I fall out of love with this man. He is on my mind constantly, so much so that I cannot concentrate on what people are saying to me, think I see him around everywhere I go, even think I hear his name in a sentence when I do deign to listen ...

I feel so guilty...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I need advice please. I married my best friend that I never loved romantically. She got pregnant and I have the most wonderful child. I left my wife when my child was under 1 as I did not want to cheat and was not pleased sexually. I feel so guilty ...

Does he like me even though he is shy around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - i would like guys the age of plus minus 26 to give me thiere opinion. Im 19 hes 26. Im chubby. He has sort of a nice body. He has'nt had a gf in 5 years. I want to know if he might like me. He is shy in fornt of me. We met at church. Ive like...

He has a thing for younger girls and I am worried he might try it on with me now I'm 18!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - So I am a senior in high school and 18. For two years now I have been singing with diffrent musicians at diffrent venues. Now that I am "legal" I am able to sing in bars....I have a new musician Im working with named "tom"...tom is 33..he has an ...

Should I stick with this marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

16 December 2010 (F) - I am 33 I have a three year old son and married for seven years, my husband is 54. There is the age difference and then our cultural background is starkly different as well; I am an immigrant. In the seven years that I am here I have not accom...

Emotionally upset with boyfriend after anal sex and his past with prostitutes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am feeling upset and insecure in my relationship of 10 months now. My partner is 53 and I am 38. He told me early on in the relationship that he went to prostitutes when he was in his 38 for about 3 months but stopped because he was wasting his ...

A few things are worrying me about my friend's older man, does anyone else find this strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Well let me start off by saying that I'm seeking some opinions. My best friend has always been into younger men, she is 18 like me. Over the summer she met a 38 year old man at another friends job. She was hesitant because he is so much older but ...

Is this love or am I addicted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - actually i have a boyfriend he loves me a lot, i'd always hurt and shout at him for nothing but yet he always forgive me, he has dated many women, he is 40yrs and i 20yrs, he said for the first time he has loved someone truly and deeply and that's ...

How do I deal with unrequited love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am a young woman who has fallen for an older man. I know it can never really work, but I find myself upset and dejected by the unfair way things have turned out. The reasons it wouldn't work are not within our age difference, but our differen...

How do I let him down gently? I don't want to be his mistress!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - Since I have been single from and on and off again replationship, I met a guy an older man that happens to be married. I should have known from the start that I shouldnt get involved with him from when I met him and my girlfrends gave me a little ...

Should I date him even though he's a few years younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

14 December 2010 (F) - i've recently begun going out with my younger cousin he is 19 and i'm 23.. anyways we always go out and have such a good time, me with my friends and him with him altogether. and i started chatting to his mate, i used to know him from years ago w...

I'm 13 he's 11, should I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - i fancy this guy who is two years younger than me. i am 13 and he is 11. we met on holiday in holland this summer and we are always texting and ringing each other. he lives about 15-20 minutes away from me so it isnt that far. i fancy him because he ...

Is he too complicated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi all. I am 25 and from Australia. My bf is much older than me, he is 42. I have had problems as you all know about his ex wife and there divorce status. Now guys i need your help again. My boyfriend has three children from previous marriage, which ...

What is he really looking for??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now. We've been out 7 times and there's great chemistry, we have a million things and interests in common, and we are very comfortable around each other, which is great. I've already met his girl and guy best ...

Why am I feeling a bit cheated? Did I make a mistake marrying a person with such a heavy past? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - I married a woman 10 years older than me who had been married for 20 years before me. We have a good loving marriage, but our sex life is very basic. She has a very heavy sexual history with lots of porn, sex toys etc that she claims was her ex ...

What is an appropriate age difference?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...

Sex with an older guy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - I want to have sex, but it'd be illegal? I'm 16 and I don't know how much longer I can hold out. These hormones can't be tamed for much longer, I can feel it. Except, I don't want to have sex with some young guy my age. I don't find them attractive ...

How do I tell my parents about this much older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - i'm currently in a relationship with a man who is 15 years older than me.. i'm 20, he's 35.. we have been dating for a few months, and we're falling in love...however, i don't know how to tell my parents.. i adore this man and i want to be with him. ...

I'm worried that when I start to age, my 18 year old boyfriend will dump for a young hottie!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

11 December 2010 (F) - I am a 32 year old woman. my boyfriend is 18. I love him like i've never loved another man. I'm just worried about the age difference. Men take longer to mature usually than women. I'm just so indecisive about this relationship and it's all ...

Is it a turnoff to look older than you really are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - I was out the other night with a group of friends, we went to a restaurant to eat. Our waitress looked about my age and was fairly attractive, and I made a comment to my friends saying as much. My friend's girlfriend looked at me funny and made a ...

Can't leave him because he is my first boy and now husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I came from a quite conservative family, with my mom not really cool about the ideal with me having a relationship before marriage. She even said my husband will not respect me if I had sex before him. I met my first boyfriend and ha...

My friend says he is only with me until he finds someone older. Am I being foolish for accepting this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 5 months now and he's absolutley perfect! except he is 8 years older than me. So we agreed that we won't become boyfriend and girlfriend because at the end of the day we want different things. He says he is so crazy ...

Should I follow my sister's plan and get away from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hi. I hope there is some advice you guys can offer me. Ive been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years. We were kind of set up at a party and one thing lead to another. We really began to like each other. After 3 months of meeting. He asked me ...

I love this older guy, and he seems to like me but only wants to be friends.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - So me and this guy whos much older than me work together. Over a year weve been talking and getting to know each other. I really like him and he seems like he likes me but whenever i ask him he says he wants to be friends. However we exchange ...

He's not giving me the time of day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - there is a guy in my class i know him almost a year i noticed him stare at me a lot. first i didn't talk to him now we talk but just about class project or home work he looks at me and when i look at him he turn his head away and yesterday i wanted ...

Does he still love his ex wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I am in a muddle. I am an Australian girl just 25. I have been in a relationship with an older man for four years now, he is 42. I am worried he still loves his ex wife. He gives me every reason to be suspicious. he never talks to her infront of me, ...

Everyone says it's not right we're dating because she's under 18?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, So my girlfriend is 17 years old and i'm 19. Everyone keeps saying that it's not right for us to be dating because she is under 18. I don't think it's a big deal but I was wondering what you all think. So do you think it's okay or is ...

Dating is like riding a bicycle, right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I posted questions before about being cheated on for almost 3 yrs and not knowing what to do about fiance, moving on and our businesses together. Well, I am trying to move on! Here's my new question: I met a new guy, who seems great, treats me with ...

I like a guy 17 years older than me, should I go for it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I have to admit I am attracted to a guy 17 years older than me and I know he is attracted to. But I don't know if I should go for it or if I should just forget it and find someone my own age. I like talking and spending time with him, but I am ...

Worried about what my family will say about me dating a 40 year old....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - hey i am 22 almost 23. I have a friend that is 40 and i know he has strong feelings for me. I'm starting to have feelings for him too. Would it be out of the question to start a relationship with him? He's seperated with an 18 and an 11 year old ...