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What is he really looking for??

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Question - (12 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been dating this guy for a month now. We've been out 7 times and there's great chemistry, we have a million things and interests in common, and we are very comfortable around each other, which is great. I've already met his girl and guy best friends and they are super nice with me (he says they love me). He calls me more or less every other day to catch up and see how am I doing, etc.... The problem is that he hasn't kissed me yet. He talks about us as in being dating, but I am not sure if he really wants something serious, if he is confused, or if he just wants us to be friends.

He is 10 years older than me (I'm 24 and he's 34), so I guess that might have something to do. Also, I'm going back to my hometown for a month, so I don't know if that's why he doesn't want to hurry into things.

I would love to know what could he be really looking for and if maybe I should do something about it.

Thanks for your help in advance! ;)

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A female reader, kissmebabe United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2010):

maybe he just wants to take things slow and get to know you first :)

but yeah...you need to have a good chat with him and find out where this is going, for your own sake.

and hey ho...when you get bk from this trip...u never know...he could pounce on you lol

good luck x

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A female reader, Geester United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2010):

Geester agony auntFor the sake of putting your own mind at rest hun u need to ask him straignt out but in all honesty u have never shared a kiss is he interested in u in that way or is it just a friendship

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